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  1. We don't know what Rakhi Sawant is smoking right now, but I am sure whatever it is, it's of premium or supreme quality. How else do you justify her recent lit gig at a certain wrestling event? View this post on Instagram A post shared by Rakhi Sawant (@rakhisawant2511) on Nov 12, 2018 at 12:48am PST I've been tripping over Rakhi Sawant's Instagram posts since the past few hours and if you follow her on social media, then you will know exactly what I am talking about - her dance face-off with a wrestler. View this post on Instagram She is Rebel who has intentionally harmed me... she took money from @iamtanushreeduttaofficial and tried to injured my back so that I can never dance again or entertain my fans.. My dear lovely fans from India, America and pura world I request you to stand with me and lets fight back with those British people.. I am sharing her account pls help me.. #India #Rakhisawant #bollywood #war #Indiaforums #Spotboye #Bollywoodlife #Bollywoodhelpline #IndiaTv #Ians #metoo #TanushreeDatta #Biggboss #Biggboss12 #BB12 #salmankhan A post shared by Rakhi Sawant (@rakhisawant2511) on Nov 12, 2018 at 12:48am PST Recently, Rakhi was in Panchkula fighting for her life (quite literally) inside a wrestling ring, after she challenged a CWE (Continental Wrestling Entertainment) wrestler for a match. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Rakhi Sawant (@rakhisawant2511) on Nov 12, 2018 at 12:50am PST When a video of her lying unconscious and being taken to the hospital started circulating, people were confused about why and how she ended up fighting the wrestler and eventually landed in the hospital. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Rakhi Sawant (@rakhisawant2511) on Nov 12, 2018 at 12:50am PST But, after watching these videos posted by Rakhi on her Instagram, we know how and why it happened. I don't know if her followers feel sorry for her, but they are surely laughing their asses off after looking at the videos. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Rakhi Sawant (@rakhisawant2511) on Nov 12, 2018 at 12:51am PST These videos have left me with so many thoughts, most of which are disturbing and hilarious. Like the one right here, where she sits on top of the wrestler instead of fighting. And the one where the wrestler knocks her on the ground and then twerks right on her face. After looking at these videos, we're now confirmed that the Great Khali has got nothing on Rakhi when it comes to wrestling. View this post on Instagram She is Rebel who has intentionally harmed me... she took money from @iamtanushreeduttaofficial and tried to injured my back so that I can never dance again or entertain my fans.. My dear lovely fans from India, America and pura world I request you to stand with me and lets fight back with those British people.. I am sharing her account pls help me.. #India #Rakhisawant #bollywood #war #Indiaforums #Spotboye #Bollywoodlife #Bollywoodhelpline #IndiaTv #Ians #metoo #TanushreeDatta #Biggboss #Biggboss12 #BB12 #SalmanKhan A post shared by Rakhi Sawant (@rakhisawant2511) on Nov 12, 2018 at 12:51am PST I have decided to call Rakhi as the legendary Rakhi Sawant from now on, because if there's anyone who can come even remotely close to Rakhi and her crazy antics, it's Rakhi herself.
  2. Fights and tiffs are an inevitable part of any healthy relationship. After all, if you aren't having the occasional (and NOT habitual!) tiffs with your girlfriend, there's something seriously flawed with your relationship. But as healthy as those occasional fights can be, making up with your girlfriend after a fight can be an agonizingly painful exercise. And considering the onus will almost always lie upon you to make things right, this task becomes even more daunting. And so, to help you get out of such a predicament, here are four simple yet effective ways of making up with your girlfriend that will put you right back in her good books: 1) Give Her Time AND Space Before you do anything else to make up with your girlfriend, you need to absolutely make sure that you give her enough time AND space to get in the right frame of mind. After all, you won't be able to achieve ANYTHING, let alone fix her mood, when she's still reeling from the anger or annoyance of the tiff. So give her time to calm herself down, and you can then move on to the next step. Which brings us to... 2) Don't Shy Away From Having A Conversation If you give her the time and space to tone down her anger, chances are that she'd want to talk to you about the fight you guys had. Now, most guys tend to run away from conversations like these, primarily because they really don't know how to navigate their way through them without making things worse. Well, if you have the conversation with an open mind, actively LISTEN to what she's saying, and acknowledge your screw-ups, you'll be able to put forward your own point of view without turning her off. On the contrary, she'll be more likely to understand and listen to your grievances if you listen to hers. 3) Get Her A Gift © iDiva While we are not advocating for you to solely take the materialistic route, getting your girlfriend a gift, as a means of making up with her, does make for a sweet gesture that can help lighten up her mood and ease the tension. Avoiding cliche tropes like flowers or chocolates is advisable, especially since the entire point of gifting her something is to make up for a fight. So try and opt for a more personalized gift, or opt for something that you know she'd love to own. Pro Tip: If you are finding it a bit challenging to get her a gift, something which we are certain is a predicament that most guys out there will find themselves in, you can check out the iDiva Beauty Box for your girl. 4) Take Her Out To A Place She Will Love © Dharma Productions Finally, you should think about taking her out to a place she will love. This can be anything, from a movie she's been wanting to watch for the longest while or a restaurant that she absolutely loves to dine at, to even a nearby city or hill station that she's been wanting to explore. Apart from helping cheer up her mood, it will surely make her forget all about the fight you both had just a few hours (or days) ago!
  3. What is it that constitutes the 'perfect deodorant'? Well, the answer to that varies depending on each individual's specific needs - if one person is finding it difficult to combat body odour, another is fighting it out with perspiration. But these problems trouble all of us. And so, the importance of choosing the best deodorant for yourself cannot be stressed enough. We at MensXP completely understand this need and so here is a carefully curated list of the best Park Avenue deodorants for men out there that will not only put an end to your body odour and perspiration woes, but will also do so in a cost-effective manner. Check Out The Best Park Avenue Deodorants For Men That Will Freshen Up Your Day 1. Park Avenue Regal Deodorant, 150ml © Amazon The perfect combination of woody and citrus fragrances reinforced with musky notes, this Park Avenue Regal deodorant is 100% liquid with no gas at all - making it perfect for those who have to contend with long days at work. Enriched with an array of aromatic natural oils, it promises to last for up to 12 hours without letting you down. MRP: Rs.188 Buy it here 2. Park Avenue Voyage Signature Deodorant, 235 ml © Amazon The name gives most of it away, but there's still much more packed in this Park Avenue mega pack deodorant than meets the eye. With a staggering 235ml bottle available at such a minuscule price, this makes for one of the best budget deodorants out there. In addition to the invigorating notes of mandarin and amber, this deodorant also boasts of an antibacterial formula that helps combat body odour and is suitable for all skin types. MRP: Rs. 224 Buy it here 3. Park Avenue Storm Deo, 150 ml © Amazon One of the most pocket-friendly deodorants for men out there, this Storm variant from Park Avenue comes infused with the refreshing fragrance of ylang and spicy clove notes. Suitable for those with sensitive skin, it also has antibacterial properties that make it a favourite amongst most Indian men. MRP: Rs.159 Buy it here 4. Park Avenue Tranquil Deodorant, 150 ml © Amazon This Park Avenue Tranquil deodorant for men promises to make you feel as calm as the ocean, even in times of stress. The fragrance is entwined with rosewood and citrus and stays on for long hours. A reliable investment, you won't be risking anything if you decide to opt for this affordable variant. MRP: Rs. 149 Buy it here 5. Park Avenue Neo Deodorant, 140 ml © Amazon Another variant from Park Avenue's Signature collection, Neo is a blend of aromatic notes of fougere that will make you stay fresh and active throughout the day. Many men swear by this deodorant, and the cherry on the top happens to be its minimal price, making it an all-around winner! MRP: Rs. 179 Buy it here 6. Park Avenue Good Morning Electric Deodorant, 110 g © Amazon Crafted with the unique fragrances of patchouli and mandarin, this men's deo is sure to make you stand out from the crowd. It's twice as powerful as other regular aerosols, and happens to be perfect for evening wear. With all of that in the same package, this deodorant makes for a complete steal at its affordable price. MRP: Rs. 146 Buy it here 7. Park Avenue Cool Blue Deodorant, 100 g © Amazon Finally, we have one of Park Avenue's most trusted deodorants. This Cool Blue variant will transport you to a beach vacation with its citrusy fragrance. Infused with an advanced formula that keeps bad bacteria away, this deodorant will stay by your side through your toughest battles with body odour, as loyal as any friend could ever be. MRP: Rs. 199 Buy It here
  4. India is still celebrating a historic win with the annulment of Section 377. On 6th September 2018, the Supreme Court announced that members of the LGBT community shall no longer be looked upon as criminals or treated as second-class citizens in their own country. © siddharthagautam The win had come after years of struggle and activism, some of which went cold after a few years, while newer activists and petitions surfaced to take their place. Over the years, prominent names of LGBT activists such as Laxmi Narayan Tripathi, Harish Iyer et al. have become common knowledge, but there is one name that remained little-known, and that is of Siddharth Gautam, who became the face of India's first collective activism for LGBT rights, powered by AIDS Bhedbhav Virodhi Andolan (ABVA). © siddharthagautam But we know life is not always fair and decides to come at us unbeknownst. In 1992, India lost one of its prominent gay rights heroes at the tender age of 28. Siddharth did not live to see his fight come to fruition or celebrate it with his fellow other members and friends at ABVA. All About Siddharth Gautam Siddharth was a lawyer and a social activist who held degrees from Yale and Cambridge Universities. He was diagnosed with Hodgkin's Lymphoma when he was a teenager and suffered from this cancer throughout his short life. He eventually had to move to New York for his treatment, where he also completed his further studies. © siddharthagautam As a graduate, he moved back to India and launched himself full force into the arena of social activism. It was during this time around 1989 when Siddharth joined hands with other activists in the country and co-founded India's very first AIDS activism movement, AIDS Bhedbhav Virodhi Andolan, which fought for the human rights of AIDS patients. Face Of The Early LGBT Activism In India Apart from actively fighting for the cause of the rights of AIDS patients, Siddharth was also very vocal about the struggles faced by the LGBT community in India. © siddharthagautam He went on to co-author an influential report titled 'Less Than Gay: A Citizen's Report on the Status of Homosexuality in India' which was published in 1991. A collective effort by six other co-authors besides Siddharth, the report was a one-of-a-kind document that shed light on the condition and life of LGBT people in India and attacked Section 377 of the IPC. © siddharthagautam Siddharth succumbed to Cancer in 1992 and two years later, ABVA took up the legal battle for the repeal of Section 377 and filed the first ever petition against it in the Delhi High Court in 1994. He Believed 'Hum Hon-gay Kaamyaab' In This Fight Even though he didn't live to see his dream get fulfilled with the decriminalisation of gay *** in India, Siddharth always believed India would see the light in the future and the LGBT community shall taste freedom in the years to come. © siddharthagautam In an article in the New York Times, novelist Sandip Roy stated, “I can still see him sitting there near the playing fields of our youth, his shirt sleeves rolled up, his glasses glinting in the moonlight, telling me: “Stay in America for your education and your career if you need to. You don't have to stay away because you are gay. Things will change here. Believe me.” That was Siddharth Gautam, a man way ahead of his time and gone too soon.
  5. It can be tough to always stay fresh when daily commuting, long lines at the metro station, heavy traffic, work engagements and other social responsibilities are constantly tiring you out. As such, getting body odour and perspiration are pretty understandable. What is not so understandable is the fact that most men end up choosing random (and ineffective!) deodorants to combat it. The importance of using the right deodorant for your body cannot be stressed enough, and we at MensXP understand that. So here is a hand-picked list of the best Nike deodorants for men out there that will not only put an end to your body odour and perspiration, but also do so without burning a hole in your wallet. Check Out The Best Nike Deodorants For Men That Will Keep You Fresh And Active 1. Nike Pure Men Deo, 200 ml © Amazon India If you're looking for a deodorant that won't burn a hole in your pocket but is supremely effective, Nike's Pure Men variant is the one you should opt for. Its long-lasting fragrance will make sure that you stay fresh throughout the day, while its active formula gives you continuous protection against body odour and perspiration. MRP: Rs. 248 Buy here 2. Nike Up Or Down Men Deo, 200 ml © Amazon India Just as its name suggests, this Nike deodorant for men will be with you through all your ups and downs, making sure you glide through the day smoothly without having to deal with body odour. As its super affordable, there is no reason why you shouldn't be adding it to your grooming kit. MRP: Rs. 242 Buy here 3. Nike Casual Deo, 200 ml © Amazon India This Nike deodorant for men is simply effective, has a good musky smell to it and will help you charge at your day with full effort, yet nonchalant casualness. Its fragrance is refreshing, and its efficiency as an antiperspirant has been vouched for by many. So, grab a bottle and stay fresh all day long! MRP: Rs. 249 Buy here 4. Nike Party Zone Deo, 200 ml © Amazon India Recommended for daily use, this Nike Party Zone Deo is long-lasting and completely problem-free. Just spray it on in the morning before leaving for work and you will be good to go. Be it a long and exhausting day at work or a social outing with friends, this Party Zone variant will help you get through it without getting bogged down by body odour or perspiration. MRP: Rs. 248 Buy here 5. Nike Basic EDT Deo, 200 ml © Amazon India Don't let its basic name (pun intended!) fool you into underestimating this 200 ml variant. With a fragrance that won't leave your side even after the toughest of days, its formula is quite advanced. So put it on everyday and be ready to face the world with a fresh and exciting outlook. MRP: Rs. 249 Buy here 6. Nike Urban Musk Deodorant, 200 ml © Amazon India This deodorant is enriched with so many minerals that it will definitely keep you happy, active and smelling good throughout the day. The antiperspirant qualities will make sure your sweat patches keep a safe distance from you, and the long-lasting fragrance happens to be a favourite with both men and women. MRP: Rs. 223 Buy here 7. Nike Extreme Deo, 200 ml © Amazon India The musky smell of this Extreme variant is apt for all occasions - whether you're making an important presentation or dancing the night away. The invigorating smell will keep you energized throughout the day, while the incredibly affordable price makes sure you don't have to screw up your budget. MRP: 249 Buy here
  6. Modern games have come a long way in terms of graphics, it's become so good that at times you can't even make out whether its an actual footage or CGI. Even though the hardware has been consistently improving, nothing brings in the feel of the 90s double-digit bit rate games that we've played. Artist and animator, John Stratman has created a 16-bit version of the big fight scene in 'Infinity War' where the team of Iron Man, Spider-Man, Doctor Strange, and the Guardians of the Galaxy take on Thanos on Titan. The first half consists of the wonderful 16-bit remake, while the second half compares it side-by-side to the actual film so that you can also experience the drastic change. The video, made for the YouTube channel 'Mr Sunday Movies', is 10 minutes long and covers almost everything in the entire fight against Thanos on Titan. Right from the fight choreography to Doctor Strange's trippy powers, Stratman has managed to cover everything with just 16-bits. © YouTube While the video is just amazing to watch and will get you all nostalgic, there's no way to play Stratman's version of Infinity Wars as a real video game right now. Though on the brighter side, Square Enix and Crystal Dynamics are working with Marvel on an actual 'Avengers' game, we haven't seen or heard much about it since the release of the teaser trailer. 25-30 years back, this game would've been every Marvel fan's dream. No, why just Marvel fans? The plot and the cliffhanger nature of the series are more than sufficient to have almost every kind of gamer excited for this. © Marvel Studios The movie, 'Avengers: Infinity War' is now available on digital platforms, DVD, and Blu-ray. The next instalment of the movie is scheduled to come in May 2019. In fact, there have been reports stating that Benedict Cumberbatch is being offered £7.5 million (US$ 9.57 million) to star in the sequel. 'Avengers: Infinity War' has been a huge success for the Marvel Studios. The film has earned more than US$ 2 billion worldwide and is the highest-grossing film of 2018, globally. Domestically in the USA, the film is the second-highest grossing of the year and the fourth-highest grossing film of all time.
  7. As 'Mission: Impossible Fallout' inches closer to its release date, every new development in the movie, teasers, trailers and BTS videos are compelling us to ask this important question: were Tom Cruise and the other actors forced to sign for this movie at gunpoint? How else can we justify all the death-defying stunts and fight scenes, that the actors are willingly taking up to complete this impossible mission? © Paramount Pictures We have already seen all the dangerous stunts that Tom Cruise is capable of performing, but it seems we've only reached the tip of the iceberg. Honestly, Tom Cruise is one of the world's greatest and fittest actors, for whom we can use this statement even after 10 years – “Check out this actor who is giving actors half his age a run for their money.” © Paramount Pictures Paramount Pictures recently released a jaw-dropping video of a fight scene between Tom Cruise, stuntman-turned-actor Liang Yang and Henry Cavill and his $25 million moustache. This 44-second 'bathroom fight' clip shows Ethan Hunt, August Walker, and Lark Decoy engaged in a brutal fight, and the audience has no idea whatsoever, about who is in whose team now. If this video and all the other teasers and trailers we've seen so far do not make you mark the dates of the movie, we wonder what will. Ahead of its release, Director Christopher McQuarrie's 'Mission: Impossible Fallout' has already earned great reviews from the critics and viewers. We now can't wait for July 27, when the movie will hit the theatres, which also stars Ving Rhames, Simon Pegg, Michelle Monaghan, Alec Baldwin, Sean Harris and Rebecca Ferguson.
  8. SAINT PETERSBURG: France will unleash the attacking talents of Kylian Mbappe and Antoine Griezmann against Eden Hazard´s gifted Belgium side in Saint Petersburg on Tuesday with a place in the World Cup final at stake.The semi-final matchup of the...
  9. ISLAMABAD: "Give me a chance," Nadeem Kashish pleads with voters in Islamabad. Her struggle is not for power -- she knows her campaign is futile -- but for acceptance, as transgenders make historic bids in the upcoming Pakistan election."I am...
  10. میاں بیوی میں کسی نکتے پر لڑائی ہو جایا کرتی ہے۔ لڑائی کا مطلب یہ نہیں کہ دونوں میں سے کسی ایک نے غلط انسان سے تعلق جوڑ لیا ہے یا یہ رشتہ اب مزید نہیں چل سکتا۔ طویل المدت اور انتہائی قریبی تعلقات میں تنازعات کا پیدا ہونا حیرت کی بات نہیں ہوتی۔ تاہم لڑائی کی نوعیت اور شدت سے اندازہ لگایا جا سکتا ہے کہ ازدواجی تعلق کس قدراطمینان بخش ہے۔ زیادہ تر جوڑے یہی کوشش کرتے ہیں کہ کم سے کم تکرار ہو، چھوٹی چھوٹی باتوں پر جھگڑا نہ ہو اور شامیں سہانی گزریں۔ لیکن پھر آخر لڑائیاں ہوتی کیوں ہیں؟ اس حساس سوال پر بلجیم میں حال ہی میں دو تحقیقات ہوئی ہیں۔ ان کے نتائج جواب تلاش کرنے میں مدد فراہم کرتے ہیں۔ ان میں سے ایک تحقیق کا محور وہ ضروریات تھیں جو پوری نہ ہونے سے میاں بیوی کے درمیان تنازعات جنم لیتے ہیں۔ یہ کام گائل وانہی اور ان کے ساتھیوں نے کیا۔ محققین کو معلوم ہوا کہ مذکورہ انسانی تعلق میں جب مندرجہ ذیل ضروریات پوری نہیں ہوتیں تو جوڑے زیادہ لڑتے ہیں۔ وابستگی: زندگی میں جن افراد کو اہم گردانا جاتا ہے ان سے مضبوط تعلق ایک ضرورت ہوتا ہے۔ کسی سے اظہارِ وابستگی (اٹیچمنٹ) کیسے کرنا ہے، یہ کافی حد تک ہم بچپن میں سیکھ لیتے ہیں۔ کسی سے مناسب انداز میں وابستگی کو ظاہر کرنا مضبوط اور طویل المدت تعلق قائم کرنے میں انتہائی معاون ہوتا ہے۔ جس تعلق میں وابستگی کا عنصر شامل ہو وہ زیادہ تسلی بخش، قریبی اور گہرا ہوتا ہے اور اس کے خاتمے کا امکان بھی کم ہوتا ہے۔ قبولیت: جب یہ احساس ہوتا ہے کہ دوسرے فرد میں قبولیت کا جذبہ موجود ہے تو تعلقات اچھے ہونے لگتے ہیں۔ قبولیت کا مطلب دوسرے کی سب باتوں کو مان لینا نہیں۔ ہم کسی فرد کے کچھ فیصلوں یا اس کے کسی انتخاب سے اختلاف کر سکتے ہیں، لیکن ساتھ ہی ہم اس کا بھرم رکھتے ہیں اور بیشتر کو تسلیم کر لیتے ہیں۔ ازدواجی زندگی میں قبولیت بہت اہم ہوتی ہے۔ یعنی بہت سی صورتوں میں اپنے جیون ساتھی سے اختلاف کے باوجود اس کی بات کو تسلیم کرنا ہوتا ہے۔ توجہ: محض اختلاف کو قبول کرنا کافی نہیں ہوتا، جیون ساتھی یہ بھی چاہتا ہے کہ دوسرا اسے پسند کرے۔ جیون ساتھی رشتے کی حدت کو پانا چاہتا ہے۔ صرف یہ کہنے سے بات نہیں بنتی کہ میں تمہاری بیشتر خامیوں کو قبول کرتا ہوں۔ خود مختاری: انسان کی ایک اہم ضرورت اپنے اعمال کے فیصلے خود کرنے کا اختیار ہے۔ ہم چاہتے ہیں کہ جو ہم کرنا چاہتے ہیں وہ کر سکیں۔ مذکورہ تحقیق سے معلوم ہوا ہے کہ سب سے زیادہ عدم اطمینان ان جوڑوں میں پایا جاتا ہے جن میں دونوں میں سے کوئی ایک دوسرے کو کنٹرول کرنے کی کوشش کرتا ہے اور اس کی خودمختاری کو کم کرتا ہے۔ قابلیت: یہ احساس ہونا چاہیے کہ ہم جو کچھ کرتے ہیں وہ اچھی طرح کرتے ہیں۔ اس طرح ہم خود کو قابل سمجھتے ہیں۔ لیکن اگر میاں بیوی میں سے کوئی ایک کسی شعبے میں مسابقت میں پیچھے ہو تو یہ تعلق میں عدم توازن اور بالآخر کشیدگی کی وجہ بنتا ہے۔ اگر شریک حیات میں سے کوئی دوسرے کو نالائق سمجھتا ہے تو تعلقات میں بگاڑ آ سکتا ہے۔ اگر جوڑوں میں یہ مندرجہ بالا ضروریات پوری نہ ہوں تو منفی احساسات جنم لیتے ہیں۔ اس سے تنازعات کو بڑھاوا ملتا ہے۔ مثال کے طور پر کسی پر سخت تنقید کرنے یا رد کرنے سے دوسرے کو لگتا ہے کہ اسے قبول نہیں کیا جا رہا۔ اس سے شرمندگی اور اداسی پیدا ہو سکتی ہے۔ ان احساسات کا اظہار زیادہ تر براہ راست نہیں ہوتا اور پھر یہ غصے کی شکل اختیار کر لیتے ہیں۔ تب اس سے منفی گفتگو شروع ہو جاتی ہے جس سے تنازع بڑھ جاتا ہے۔ اب سوال یہ ہے کہ شریک حیات کی ان ضروریات کو کیسے پورا کیا جائے۔ اس کی ابتدا یوں کی جا سکتی ہے کہ شریک حیات ہی سے پوچھ لیا جائے۔ ہو سکتا ہے اس نے اس بارے میں سوچا نہ ہو لیکن کم ازکم اسے یہ پیغا م ضرور ملے گا کہ اس کے بارے میں فکر کی جارہی ہے۔ اپنی ضروریات پر بھی غور کریں اور اس بات پر کہ تعلق میں کون سا عنصر غائب ہے۔ پھر ان پر مثبت انداز میں باہمی گفتگو کریں۔