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  1. “Ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi sirf dost nahi ho sakte!” -Mohnish Behl, Maine Pyaar Kiya circa 1989 One of Bollywood's “iconic” (read cringiest) dialogues. Also, a complete myth. Though Bhagyashree and Salman Khan do end up together in the movie (not at all feeling sorry for you, Mr Behl), it hardly ever ends like that in real life. © Rajshri Productions Movies have been trying to propagate the notion since time immemorial: a lady and a gentleman can never be friends without the presence of romance. “Just friends” need to end up as lovers. You can't help but inwardly cringe at the sexism and the idiocy it exudes. (That doesn't keep Bollywood/Hollywood from churning out movie after movie with the same theme.) In today's day, a girl and a guy can most certainly be the best of friends, without a romantic interest. Why just today? It has always been this way! Haven't you heard tales about the beautiful friendship between Lord Krishna and Draupadi? The original epitome of friendship, where gender doesn't matter: “Sakha and Sakhi”! Harry and Hermione: An iconic friendship. Aren't we all guilty of shedding a few tears over the love that Harry and Hermione have for each other? © Heyday Films/Warner Bros. Pictures Look at Emma Thompson and Alan Rickman. Even death has lessened Emma's love for her dear friend. Or Taylor Swift and Ryan Reynolds. Alia Bhatt and Ranveer Singh. Whoever told you that a guy and a girl can never be true friends needs to crawl out of the rock they have been living under. Being a guy, I can vouch that having a female best friend is one of the best things in life; they inspire you to let go of your rigidity and introduce you to new ideas. She is always there for relationship and fashion advice. She makes you a better man. © Aamir Khan Productions Just like you have a best friend of the fairer ***, chances are your girlfriend might have a guy best friend. Yes. That dreaded guy who seems to be your nemesis. The guy who seems to hang out with your girlfriend quite often and is her partner-in-crime in a lot of adventures. The other man. The Aman to your Rohit, the Jai Singh Rathore to your Sushant Modi, the Superman to your Batman. I can go on and on. Sometimes, you get jealous of the camaraderie they share, or the fact that he knows things about her that you don't. © Pinterest We have all seen Ron struggle with the idea of “Harry and Hermione” and leading him to do stupid things, say awful stuff and basically be a douchebag. You wouldn't like to end up like him, do you? Here is how to deal with your girlfriend's male best friend: 1. The Chosen One: The first thing you should know is that your girlfriend loves YOU. Had she wanted to be with her male BFF, she wouldn't be going out with you, would she? Remember, she chose you, over everybody else. The fact is she doesn't see her friend in a romantic light. Never has and never will. She loves him in the platonic sense, not the way she loves you. If you believe that they will eventually realize that they like them and sail away with them, you have been watching a lot of sappy rom-coms or reading way too much romantic literature. 2. Try to empathize: You choose your friends, not their gender. Friendship is so much more than being a man, woman or queer. It encompasses love. Just like your female BFF has you as a male friend, so does your girlfriend. The relationship you have with your best friend is the same which she has. Do not judge it. © Zucker Brothers Productions/TriStar Pictures We tend to not look at obvious things. What if your girlfriend questions your relationship with your female friend? Aren't you a guy best friend too? What we expect of others is expected of us as well. Expectation is a two-way street; you can't want something and give nothing in return. © Heyday Films/Warner Bros. Pictures We only look from our own, selfish perspective, not the bigger picture. Put yourself in another person's shoes, it will make you realize how narcissistic one can be. Even if you don't have a female best friend, think about the situation from the other guy's perspective. Is it really good for you to judge him? What about your best friend's boyfriend? Maybe, he thinks of you in the same way. How would you like it? Gives you a different perspective on the entire matter now, doesn't it? You see, we only care and realize how it feels when it happens to us. 3. Meet Them: Often, we tend to create a preconceived image of a person we haven't met. In this case, if you haven't met your girlfriend's BFF, meet them. It is all in your head; we tend to exaggerate things, blow them out of proportion, especially if we haven't tried or experienced them. © Dharma Productions/Yash Raj Films Don't judge too harshly or rashly. Get to know him before you judge him. Instead of getting paranoid and obsessing over the fact that there's another guy who your girlfriend loves (in a completely different way), just meet the guy and be done with it. You never know, you might end up becoming their best friend after meeting them. Give the guy a chance at least. It is only a cause of alarm if your girlfriend does not let you guys meet. 4. Jealousy: It is common to be jealous of a person your partner seems to be love. Somewhere you feel that their love will be divided and won't be enough for you. You might feel jealous of the time they spend together. Or how easily they seem to talk to each other. How they seem to have no inhibitions when talking or how they bitch about someone. The reason is simple: You crave that intimacy. That makes you envious more than the guy. But in our minds, it is the guy who is the culprit, not our feelings. © Zucker Brothers Productions/TriStar Pictures Jealousy is a normal emotion. It is okay to be jealous of your girlfriend's male buddy, a bit helpful too. A little competition is okay, it keeps you focused on your relationship, makes you try harder. There is a chance that he might be better-looking than you. Do not let it affect you. You might think that "when she has a more handsome option, a better guy, why did she choose me?" Love doesn't work that way. We can't choose the people we fall in love with. Furthermore, don't underestimate your worth, you are much better than you think. Especially in the eyes of a person who loves you. 5. Getting Along: Spoiler: They are going to be in your girlfriend's life. In fact, their friendship might go way back, it might be even longer than your relationship. You just can't expect them to leave them high and dry for you. The best thing to do is to try to get along with them. You both love the same person in a different way, it is the common thread for you guys to connect. Both of you are there to fiercely stand up for her when a need arises. That is what friends are for. Hang out with them, go for a drink with them. Before you know it, your girlfriend will be experiencing some perplexity with the bromance you both seem to have. Moreover, you won't have to go far to rant about your girlfriend and share it with someone who already understands her. You might end up learning a lot from them about her. 6. Co-Exist: On the off chance that you guys don't hit it off, do not fret. You do not have to like everybody. Though, it is important to remember that your relationship comes first. There will be things you don't like about the guy, that is okay and your prerogative as a human. They won't be the best man at your wedding or the lead of your Baarat dance. There's no need to scream “This means war!” and cut their head off. One thing is certain; you can't just ignore him. We are all flawed in some way. Why don't you look beyond that and try to co-exist with this guy? Think of ways in which you both can enjoy the company of your friend without pulling each other's hair out. 7. Communicate: If you feel attacked or vulnerable by your girlfriend's friend, communicate it to her. She isn't a mind-reader, she can't know what's going inside your head. Don't go chasing after the idea of them together, it will only bring heartbreak for you. Tell you girlfriend about what bothers you about him and what you would like to do about it. Tell her why you don't like her hanging out with him. Try to figure out why it bothers you so much. Tell her it that you aren't comfortable with him hanging around you guys all the time. © Pinterest If you find your girlfriend's behaviour change around them, tell it to them. Try to know their reason. In fact, try to talk to the guy in person. They might have their own problems with you. Try to understand that it isn't always about you. 8. Stop Acting Alpha: Your love life is not the 'Wild, Wild West'. You aren't cowboys who can settle scores with gunfights or shooting each other. Your girlfriend isn't a commodity or a prize to be won; stop fighting for her with the other guy (of whom you are not entirely sure that he is in love with your S.O.) You can't and shouldn't control the relationships of other people, however much you may love them. Having a significant other does not make them your property, nor does it make you theirs. Men are competitive by nature, they are territorial. The male psyche is ego-centric. They try to establish authority. When another man seems to hurt their ego or try to be the greater of the two, that is where trouble starts. If another man appears to threaten your love, you must act but make sure whether he is actually doing so. 9. Be Reasonable: “Pyaar dosti hai”, claims Rahul while twirling a friendship band, trying to impress Tina. What Rahul doesn't say is “Pyaar sirf dosti nahi hai”. Love is not limited to friendship; just because two people are friends doesn't mean they are in love. He isn't there to steal her. He won't carry her off and laugh at your ignorance. Nor is he there to poison her mind against you. Do not be that guy who thinks every other guy is in love with his girlfriend. He is not in love with her. Had he been, he would have told her. Trust your girlfriend's loyalty. Do not try to make your girlfriend choose between you and him. Do not be so insecure. If you feel insecure, try to find the reason for it: Is it just the guy or do you find other reasons to be suspicious of their friendship? Or is just jealousy? Are you still unsure about your partner? Security is increasingly important in a relationship; if you are second-guessing your relationship because a guy shows up, you need to reevaluate your stance. Your relationship should be your first preference here. You do not need to have a fight with the guy just to justify your unfounded, speculative notions. 10. The Wrong Guy: This is the worst-case scenario. You have met the guy. He seems nice but you get the feeling that he interested in your girlfriend, in another way than a friend. He seems to suffer from the “Nice Guy Syndrome”. He appears to try to impress her and manipulate her into spending time with him. Moreover, tries to hide his feelings under the pretext of friendship. Then, it is time to confront him about his feelings. You do not need to be aggressive, just plain old talking will do. Ask your girlfriend to accompany you. Let them sort out their issues. Liking someone is not under our control, an attraction is involuntary. Don't hate him for that. Just make sure that he gets his feelings out of the way. You need not meddle in their friendship, let them think it over. Love is not possible without a few hiccups along the road. Give the other guy a chance, a break. He deserves it. Maybe you both can tease your girlfriend together and prank her. :P Best of luck! Just don't punch him in the face. :P
  2. A rant about how your girlfriend's BFF can do much more harm than good for your relationships.
  3. Having a girl as your best friend is not just a blessing in disguise, it's also healthy and imperative. Well, the term 'best friends' is too narrowed down. All I am trying to say is, if you have a close friend in your life who happens to be a girl, then you're truly lucky. Having a girl-friend has more pros than cons and once you figure that out, your life, read 'love' life becomes a lot simpler to deal with. Besides that, you have a fabulous partner to go shop with, give you a hell lotta emotional support and always stick up for you whenever someone's giving you a hard time. © Pinterest But there a lot more advantages of having a girl buddy and you'll agree with each and every one of them. (1) They Help You Understand The Opposite *** Better Yes, if you're thoroughly confused about what women want and what they seek, she can make it so much easier for you. Imagine the hurdles you don't have to cross for women when you have her in your life! From approaching a woman at a bar or a public place to finally asking her out, your pal can help you out with everything, only because she knows how a woman's brain works. So, the next time you're trying to take that leap of faith, definitely consult her. (2) Shopping For Your GF Is So Much Easier You know those 10,000 websites you go through (come on, let's face it, we're all lazy when it come to buying gifts) to find the perfect gift for your girl? She can make it ridiculously easy for you. She can either ask your GF subtly for you, about what she likes or she can help you get the best gift for her through her own choice. Women always have a keen eye for the best gifts, especially if they're for another woman and she will help you sort out the best gift, so you get some extra-lovin' from your GF. (3) She'll Be The Best Wing-Woman Ever Your days of being single and miserable are numbered if you have a girl bud. Yup, she's the best wingman there is. If you're out with her you never have to worry about approaching a girl you really like. In fact, she'll always have one eye on you and the other on the girl you're eyeing and through her charm, try and hook you two up. She's also gonna try finding you a date by giving you the liberty to hit on her single friends or trying her best to pair you up with one of them. Whatever it is, she's the best wing-woman to have around. (4) The Inevitable Marriage Pact Almost every boy and girl who are as thick as ice have an inevitable marriage pact to get married to each other, if they don't find anyone else by the time they hit 40 or more. But more often than not they always find someone to settle with and it's a friendly pact made between two really close friends to keep the bond healthy and alive. It's like the settlement for comfort and companionship with your bestie rather than anything else. If you haven't really made that pact with your girl best friend, is she even your best friend bro? (5) The Best Heart-To-Heart Is Always With Her Yup, that's true. If you're with your boys, you'll just talk about stuff superficially, and sweep off the real issues in your life and have a drink or two. But with her, it isn't the same. You'll have the best heart-to-heart conversations with her and she will always be in a place to give you sound advice. That's because women do understand emotions a lot better than men do, only because they express them more openly and if you're going through something, she'll do everything she can to make you feel better about it, by giving you some sage advice. So, if you have some deep meaningful conversations with your pal, it's really good for you. There are other fair advantages of having a girl as your best friend. She'll always be there to make your ex super- jealous, by hanging with you as your pretend GF or she'll always cover for you, whenever you need her to. Your parents will definitely love her to bits and will always trust her and secretly wish you two get married one day. She'll never let you down or pick random bitchy fights with you, because you mean the world to her. So, if you have someone like that in your life, it's time to acknowledge her and make her feel rather special.
  4. On days when Priyanka Chopra is not chilling with Nick Jonas, she is busy making headlines for the same and for the decisions she takes in her professional life. People still haven't stopped talking about her sudden exit from Salman Khan's 'Bharat' or why her movie with Chris Pratt has been delayed for an indefinite time. Instagram However, in all these years or since the time people started following her on social media, her fans have never seen her workout pictures or videos. So what's the secret behind her fitness? I am sure there's no magical fountain she is secretly sipping from. It's obvious that she works hard to be healthy and fit and her latest gym selfie is proof of the same. Recently, Priyanka suprised her 26 million fans with a gym selfie with the caption, "In between sets..#selfies#trainingday." In between sets.. #selfiefirst #trainingday ð¤¦ð½‍âï¸ð A post shared by Priyanka Chopra (@priyankachopra) on Aug 7, 2018 at 12:16am PDT But, that's not even the best part of the picture. The best thing about her gym selfie was a single comment that came from none other than her on-screen brother from 'Dil Dhadakne Do' Ranveer Singh. Being the prankster that Ranveer is, he couldn't stop himself from making the most out of this golden opportunity. He wrote, "PC working out? I have seen everything. What are you eating post workout? Chivda?" Now that sounds like a legit question, doesn't it? Instagram Priyanka Chopra was quick to reply to his comment, "Nahi yaar! I have learned focus and dedication from you!" Honestly, we are in love with this funny banter that's going on between the two. Instagram While everyone including us, her friends and stylist were shocked to see this selfie, it sure is a great motivation for those trying to get a perfect summer body, for 2019 since 2018 is almost over.
  5. There is no allegation of misconduct against Danushka Gunathilaka, who is currently Sri Lanka?s best-performing batsman in an ongoing tour vs. South Africa. Photo:Reuters COLOMBO: A Sri Lankan Test cricketer has been suspended after a Norwegian...
  6. This is the support topic for the tutorial How to Pokes a Friend in Fundayforum. 05/15/2016 02:01 AM = The date the tutorial was added 05/15/2016 02:07 AM = The date the tutorial was updated Please post here if you have any questions or feedback.
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