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  1. Life can be pretty uncertain. That's the one thing about it which remains a constant till the time we are laid to rest. We never know what's in store for us in the next few seconds, yet we live our lives as though we have years ahead of us. That's a strange sort of optimism almost all of humanity shares collectively. So, when 32-year-old tour guide Rouf Ahmad Dar stepped out for another day at work, he wouldn't have imagined what awaited him later in the day. While he was out on a rafting trip with five tourists, their boat capsized on the Lidder river in Jammu and Kashmir's Pahalgam area. Rouf Ahmad Dar - a real hero who saved the lives of few tourists at the expense of his own life... Let's all pray for eternal peace to the departed soul and strength to the bereaved family. pic.twitter.com/0xYdfsRE77 — Arif Amin (@ArifAmin18) June 1, 2019 Dar went out of his way, put his own life on the line and rescued all the five tourists, bringing them to safety, but at the cost of his own life. Dar, who held a diploma in rafting, was on the boat when strong evening winds toppled the boat with the tourists still on it. But tragedy had already struck as Dar drowned in the raging waters of the Lidder and was later pulled out of the water near the Bhawani Bridge area and handed over to his family. The braveheart didn't think twice before risking his own life to save the lives of strangers. Setting the finest example of selfless courage; Tourist guide Rouf Ahmad Dar sacrificed his life saving five people including two foreigners in #Lidder river in #Pahalgam. RIP braveheart of#Kashmir @NorthernComd_IA @adgpi @PIB_India pic.twitter.com/bduKgnBiL2 — Chinar Corps - Indian Army (@ChinarcorpsIA) June 1, 2019 At a time when people are constantly instigating communal thoughts and questioning secularism in the country, selfless souls like Rouf Ahmad Dar prove that all of us are capable of moving past the politics that underline our present reality and chase after the biggest religion that there is - humanity. Bravehearts like Dar are cropping up in every village, valley and city to let people see the real face and sentiment that simmers in the heart of our nation and gives us hope that regardless of all the ugliness that comes to pass, humanity will always win.
  2. At a time when faith and religion are gaining prominence over all the other things that make us an active member of the society and each other's lives, we constantly seek out positive instances to help us get to a positive state of mind. One that would guide us to a more cheerful, peaceful and inclusive future, where every individual can live without a religious tag making the slightest difference to our lives. And talking of such positive instances, we have these four young men who are not only inspiring hope, but are also successfully leading the way to show us what a society with thriving communal harmony could look like. © Quora Featured in Humans of Bombay earlier today, one of the four buddies in the picture was quoted saying something so simple yet impactful that we often overlook in our frenzy to get on with our lives on a day to day basis. Something that is as simple as God is one, and we are all His children. Read what the young man has to say, that's inspiring people to come forward and share their personal stories about the wonderful people in there who don't share the same faith, and yet a world of a difference to their life anyway. View this post on Instagram “The four of us are really good friends and have come here for the evening Namaz. He's a Hindu, but he still comes with us everyday, after work, so that we can spend some time together. We pray for him and he prays for us – he even knows certain parts of the Quran by heart, and we're learning the Gayatri Mantra from him! There's just one person up there, and He listens to all, no matter where you're from. If the whole world understands that, then wouldn't it just be heaven on earth?” A post shared by Humans of Bombay (@officialhumansofbombay) on Mar 13, 2019 at 10:27pm PDT “The four of us are really good friends and have come here for the evening Namaz. He's a Hindu, but he still comes with us everyday, after work, so that we can spend some time together. We pray for him and he prays for us – he even knows certain parts of the Quran by heart, and we're learning the Gayatri Mantra from him! There's just one person up there, and He listens to all, no matter where you're from. If the whole world understands that, then wouldn't it just be heaven on earth?” He has managed to send such a significant message using very few words and we truly need more people who think and feel similarly to wade through the current wave of unrest in the world.
  3. If you're ever feeling down and out in life, just go over to Akshay Kumar's Instagram page and you'll get a whole lotta determination, inspiration and motivation, all folded in to one. The actor does such inspirational things, it gives us hope that the world can definitely be a better place. © Pinterest Just recently, along with Aditya Thakeray, he participated in a training session to teach young girls basic self-defence techniques, in Thane Mumbai. His social media was abuzz with a video of him training the girls, so they can protect themselves in the most basic way possible. © Instagram The video he shared on his Instagram page was captioned: Happy to see a turnout of 2000 plus girls from nearby schools at our self defense training camp in Thane today. The workshop was to teach them some basic self defense techniques. Hoping it was helpful and to see more of them at our training centre. Happy to see a turnout of 2000 plus girls from nearby schools at our self defense training camp in Thane today. The workshop was to teach them some basic self defense techniques. Hoping it was helpful and to see more of them at our training centre. @adityathackeray A post shared by Akshay Kumar (@akshaykumar) on Feb 20, 2019 at 4:02am PST Dressed in black, Kumar displayed a lot of patience and skilful knowledge about the basics of martial arts. He believes it's important for young girls to know the fundamentals, just in case they face something uncomfortable, ever in life. © Pinterest Akshay has had formal training in Thai Boxing and Muay Thai when he spent over 5 years learning these forms of martial arts in Thailand and now he wishes to impart his knowledge of martial arts for training purposes. This isn't the first time we're seeing the man in his utmost noble best. He's known to bring issues of menstrual hygiene to the forefront with his film 'Padman' and has also joined hands with an organisation to aid a running event to raise awareness for menstrual hygiene. © Zee Studios On the work front, his film 'Kesari', based on the battle of Saragarhi in 1897 will release in March this year and we're really waiting with bated breath to watch him in one of the finest roles he's ever played.
  4. The Indian Army is the largest standing volunteer army in the world, which is not only known for its bravado and daredevilry when it comes to standing guard over their motherland, but its soldiers also inspire awe and unceasing respect for their selflessless service towards the nation. All of us feel strongly about these men and women who dare to face death in their line of duty. After all, we owe so much of the life we're living to them. It is their sacrifice and selfless passion to serve the country and its people, that allows us to enjoy the kind of safe and fun life we lead, day after day. © Twitter But how often do we stop to acknowledge their service and pay homage to their sacrifices? Well, a martyred soldier's 6-year-old daughter recalls her papa's lessons on the Indian Army, and it will remind you to take a moment and appreciate the numerous lives that constantly look death in the eye, so that innocent lives can be saved. © Honourpoint On 29th November 2016, Major Akshay Girish Kumar and Major Gosavi Kunal Mannadir were killed in an ambush in Nagrota, along with five other jawans. Two years since his passing away, Akshay's little daughter was seen recalling her father's teachings about the Indian Army in a video, which has since been actively circulated on social media. In the video Akshay's daughter Naina can be seen telling us what her father told her about the Indian Army. Check out the video here: A year after Akshay's martyrdom, Naina recollects conversations with her papa. Here she teaches us what 'Army is...' This random video captures innocence and faith. Love is an emotion. Her papa's love for the Army and Countrymen also stays within her. Jai Hind. @adgpi pic.twitter.com/kWecbp1Tax — Meghna Girish (@megirish2001) February 11, 2019 The faith and pride with which Naina recalls her dad's lessons, fills our hearts with joy.
  5. Electricity in the air. You. Your date. Stellar ambience. You look deep into each other's eyes. Ah, the magic of the first date! First dates are all about shy glances, getting to know each other, thinking about how to broach a topic and constantly trying to gauge what's going on in the other person's mind. But are first dates really all that about beauty, naivety and nervous charm? First dates are strenuous. The anticipation, the nervousness, the struggle to put your best foot forward. No one wants to make a bad impression on the first date. Like the cliché goes, the first impression is the last impression. But sometimes, no matter how hard you try, things do not work out in the way you want them to. Blame it on yourself, or the other person, the universe or just plain dumb luck, the fact that the date is ruined won't change. A first date does have a lot of potential, though we give too much importance to it, sometimes more than necessary, it is the first initiation in the world of dating. Don't worry. If it's meant to be, it'll happen even if it got ruined once. No one forgets their first date, especially if it was a bad one. We asked six men their worst first date experience and we were mighty surprised and quite amused by what we found: 1. The Blind Date: “It was a blind date. Though we had decided not to look at each other's pictures before the date, I ended up checking her profile on Facebook. Cut to the day of the date, I was running a bit late. I saw her seated at one of the booths of the café. As I approached her, she mistook me for the waiter and asked for a glass of water. Taken aback, I meekly poured the water in her glass and quietly walked away. “Bhaiya, paani yaha lago do please” still rings in my ears. Needless to say, we never dated again.” - Chinmay, 24 2. The Unknown Occurrence: “I met this girl at a friend's birthday party. We hit it off instantly. I was attracted to her and I could tell that she was too. After a few days of talking on WhatsApp, I finally plucked the courage to ask her out. She said yes and we decided to go for lunch. Lunch progressed smoothly and we made plans for a movie. I was very happy with the way things had turned out. After the movie, as I walked her back to her place, she launched into a tête-à-tête about her current boyfriend of three years. I was completely shocked because I had assumed her to be single. I dropped her home and couldn't believe what had happened. No brainer, never went out with her again.” -Krishna, 24 3. Sweet Nothingness: “I met her through mutual friends, and I was blown away by her personality. I asked her out. On the date, I was at my charming best: witty jokes, quick banter, making her laugh. All the works. During dessert, as I was doing my impression of Marlon Brando from “The Godfather” which she was immensely enjoying, I gestured a bit too excitedly and upset the entire hot chocolate sauce which the waiter had just arrived with onto my lap and my shirt. With an incredulous look as I glanced at her, while thoroughly embarrassed and valiantly trying to not scream as the warm liquid trickled down me, I found her laughing her head off. Till today, I can't see chocolate sauce the same way again.” -Shyam, 23 4. The Inception: “We met online. After chatting for a few months, we thought that going on a date was the inevitable next step. We started off quite good as the months of talking had helped us break the initial hesitation of being awkward. As we talked, the talk turned to sci-fi movies. We started debating on the possible end of “Inception”. We both had different views on the matter and we both thought we were correct. Matters started worsening as our theories didn't match. No one was backing down. We started arguing vehemently resulting in both of us leaving the restaurant in a huff. We haven't spoken since. Leonardo DiCaprio owes me an explanation.” -Sayantan, 25 5. Best Friend Forever: “I met this girl in the first year of college. She was cute and I liked her a lot. After much speculation, I finally asked her out. She seemed to be thrilled by the prospect. So was I. The date started normally, we were both extremely nervous and making small talk. Everyone around us could make out that the date wasn't going well. Still, we were trying to act casual. Suddenly, her best friend magically turns up at the same restaurant. I did not think much about it. The friend then proceeded to sit down with us (insert awkward look) and started interrogating me about myself. It was awkward. Then, my date abruptly started crying. The friend then looked at me as if I had done something terrible. They left without a word. I do not know what the matter was till today. Now, when we pass each other in the corridors we just pretend that the other doesn't exist.” -Adwait, 20 6. Beauty And The Beast: “There was this extremely beautiful colleague of mine. Exceptionally beautiful. We were both freshers in the company. Every time I saw her, I would become utterly self-conscious and act stupid. One fine day, she asked me out. I was over the moon. How could I be so lucky? Ridiculously happy, I prepared for the date. On the fateful day, I was a nervous wreck trying to do all the things right. She seemed genuinely interested in me. I was sweating profusely and thus, I politely excused myself to go to the washroom. When I came back, I was surprised to see that she was going through my phone, which I had left on the table. She had managed to unlock it and was viewing my photo gallery in a very nonchalant way. To top it off, she had also eaten more than half of my fries. I was stunned. She looked up and with a smile on her face said “Oh! You are back!”, gave me my phone back as if nothing had happened. My crush on her evaporated as quickly as it had come. Sometimes, appearances can be deceptive. And they can eat your fries too” -Alex, 27 What was your first date disaster? Let us know!
  6. As Mithali Raj walked today into the Seddon Park for the toss as the captain of the Indian cricket team ahead of the third ODI in Hamilton, she created history once again, becoming the first woman to play 200 ODIs. Adding another feat to an already decorated career, Raj's spot in the ICC Hall of Fame is a no-brainer. What's your favourite memory of @M_Raj03'S ODI career? pic.twitter.com/h7HGFJfWYv — ICC (@ICC) February 1, 2019 At the age of 36, if she was asked what career-path would she want to pursue, she would certainly choose that of a cricketer, but a 9-year-old Raj would have said that she wanted to pursue a career in dance. Unlike a lot of aspiring cricketers, Mithali Raj was never one to have sleepless nights fantasizing about donning that blue kit and representing India on an international level. In fact, as a child, Raj had no plans to join the sport which is so famously known as a 'gentleman's game'. The skipper has made it absolutely clear that the only reason she took to cricket was because her father, Dorai Raj forced her to play cricket just because she was extremely lazy and her dad wanted her to be more active, which had no impact on her lifestyle whatsoever as she continues to be equally lazy (her words, not ours). “My dad made a decision to turn me into a professional cricketer. The hours of training sessions and the performance in the game… these are the things that started too early for me as an 11-year-old,” Raj shares in an interview with the ICC. “At that phase when I started putting so many hours in the game, I really realised that… I have stopped enjoying the game and at some point, I hated my dad for putting me into the sport.” Ever since she made her ODI debut on 25th June 1995, she's had multiple spells as the captain of the Indian women's cricket team, the first one coming just before the 2005 World Cup. The young batswoman was nervous to shoulder the responsibility one because it was during the biggest tournament of all and two, because a lot of senior players and even an ex-captain was in the team, which now belonged to her. But that was probably the only instance Mithali truly shook in her boots. With a résumé with 20 years-worth of experience, the Indian skipper has no more jitters to confront. While most players indulge in boosting their morale before going out to bat, the veteran can be calmly reading a book with her kit on. “I am the senior-most player in the team. I am a more mature leader and I have no apprehensions any more,” she said in an interview with the Times of India. © ICC Mithali Raj is probably one of the wisest sportspersons of our generation who, despite facing so much of criticism as a player, a teammate, and even for just being herself, continues to do her thing without caring about what the world has to say. She has turned something that she used to completely despise, into something which helped her make a mark for herself and become one of best, and that is something every young athlete must try and imbibe.
  7. عدل و انصاف کی پاسداری ایک دن شیر شاہ سوری کےسامنے ایک قتل کا مقدمہ پیش ہوا جس میں قاتل کا سراغ نہیں مل رہا تھا یہ قتل اٹاوہ کے کسی علاقے میں ہوا تھا۔ شیر شاہ سوری نے مقدمے کی سماعت کی۔ اس نے اٹاوہ کے شقدار کو حکم بھیجا کہ جس علاقے میں قتل ہوا ہے اس کے آس پاس واقع کسی درخت کو دو آدمی بھیج کر کٹوائے اور جو سرکاری عامل اس درخت کے کاٹنے کی اطلاع پا کر آئیں انہیں پکڑ کر ہمارے پاس بھیج دو۔ شقدار نے شاہی فرمان کے مطابق دو آدمی درخت کاٹنے کے لئے موقعہ واردات پر بھیجے۔ وہ ابھی درخت کاٹ ہی رہے تھے کہ علاقے کے مقدموں اور معتبروں نے انہیں موقع پر آن پکڑا۔ سادہ کپڑوں میں ملبوس اشخاص نے درخت کاٹنا چھوڑ دیا اور ان معتبروں کو پیش کیا گیا۔ بادشاہ نے ان سے دریافت کیا کہ تمہیں درخت کٹنے کی خبر تو ہو گئی لیکن ایک انسان کی گردن کٹ گئی اور تم اس سے بے خبر رہے۔ میں اسے تسلیم کرنے کے لئے تیار نہیں۔ تین دن کے اندر اند ر قاتل کو پیش کرو ورنہ سزا میں تم قتل کر دیئے جاؤ گے۔ معتبروں کے جسم پر لرزہ طاری ہو گیا اور تیسرے دن کا سورج ابھی طلوع بھی نہ ہوا تھا کہ “قاتل شاہی دربار کے دروازے پر زنجیر و سلاسل میں جکڑے ہوئے حاضر تھے” عدل و انصاف کی اسی پاسداری کی وجہ سے برصغیر کا ہر دیانت دار مورخ شیر شاہ سوری کا نام ادب سے لیتا ہے۔
  8. اکبر بادشاہ نے اپنے سب سے قابل وزیر بیربل کو کہا کہ اسکی مملکت میں سے پانچ احمق ترین لوگوں کو ایک مہینے میں تلاش کرکے اس کے حضور پیش کیا جائے‘ایک مہینے کی جدوجہد کے بعد بیربل نے صرف دو احمقوں کو پیش کیا‘اکبر نے ناراضگی کا اظہار کرتے ہوئے کہا کہ میں نے تو پانچ احمقوں کو پیش کرنے کا کہا تھا‘بیربل نے کہا مہاراج، مجھے ایک ایک کرکے احمقوں کو پیش کرنے کی اجازت دی جائے۔بیربل نے پہلا احمق پیش کرتے ہوئے کہا کہ یہ بڑا احمق اس لیے ہے کہ بیل گاڑی میں سوار ہونے کے باوجود اس نے سامان اپنے سر اٹھایا ہوا تھا‘دوسرے احمق کو پیش کرتے ہوئے کہا کہ اس شخص کے گھر کی چھت پر بیج پڑے تھے‘ ان بیجوں کی وجہ سے چھت پر گھاس اگ آئی‘ یہ شخص اپنے بیل کو لکڑی کی سیڑھی سے چھت پر لے جانے کی کوشش کر رہا تھا کہ بیل چھت پر چڑھ کر گھاس چر لے۔ بیربل نے کہا مہاراج، بطور وزیر مجھے اہم امور سلطنت چلانے تھے مگر میں نے ایک مہینہ احمقوں کی تلاش میں ضائع کیا اور صرف دو احمق تلاش کئے‘اسلئے تیسرا احمق میں خود ہوا۔۔ بیربل نے ذرا سا توقف کیا تو اکبر چلایا کہ چوتھا احمق کون ہے۔۔؟؟بیربل نے عرض کیا کہ مہاراج جان کی امان پاؤں تو عرض کروں‘ اکبر بادشاہ نے کہا کہ کہو‘ تمہیں کچھ نہیں کہا جائے گا۔ اس نے کہا کہ مہاراج، آپ بادشاہ وقت ہیں اور تمام رعایا اور سلطنت کے امور چلانے کے ذمہ دار ہیں مگر قابل ترین اور اہل افراد کو تلاش کرنے کی بجائے آپ نے احمق ترین لوگوں کو تلاش کرنے میں نہ صرف اپنا وقت برباد کیا بلکہ ایک اہم وزیر کا وقت برباد کیا لہٰذا چوتھے احمق آپ ہیں۔ اکبربادشاہ نے تلملاتے ہوئے سوال کیا ”اب بتا بھی دو پانچواں احمق کون ہے؟بیربل نے عرض کیا‘ مہاراج! پانچواں احمق یہ شخص ہے جو فیس بک سے چمٹا ہوا ہے‘ اپنے دفتری اور کاروباری فرائض اور خاندانی امور سے لاپرواہی برت رہا ہے اور اپنا قیمتی وقت ضائع ہونے کا احساس تک نہیں کر رہا ہے اور حد تو یہ ہے کہ ابھی تک ڈھیٹ بن کر یہ سٹیٹس پڑھتا چلا جا رہا ہے۔
  9. Cricket needs no introduction to a country like India. In this part of the world, the gentleman's game is cherished as a religion and cricketers are worshipped as demigods. It further explains why Indian cricketers end up garnering such popularity and limelight when compared with foreign players. Another valid example is the Indian Premier League (IPL) whose immense success highlights the country's obsession with cricket. While cricket continues to bring India together, it also offers lucrative business prospects to those interested. The star-status of the cricketers also make them a marketer's dream, paving way for endorsement deals and brand associations. In fact, the coexistence of endorsements and cricket has reached such a level that the smart cricketers, using their popularity, have started promoting their own brands. There are a billion eyeballs constantly chasing every move that the cricketers make, on and off the field. They are idolised by their fellow countrymen and cherished as role models for the youth. And, this is what makes them the perfect mechanism to bolster the sales of a product or service. A smile is the best way to unwind. ð pic.twitter.com/w8RoT6udd3 — Virat Kohli (@imVkohli) January 21, 2019 The likes of Virat Kohli and MS Dhoni are a prime example. Arguably amongst the most popular sportspersons in the country, the duo enjoys the unmatched spotlight and rank high up in terms of brand value. There is so much, and more when it comes to the commercial interests of the cricketers. And, there is nothing wrong with it, albeit their on-field performances aren't getting affected. But, while it might seem like an incentive of being a cricketer in the modern era of the sport, there exists a rare breed that still values the unadulterated side of cricket. Imagine, playing far away from the spotlight for a major part of the year, in domestic competitions that no one really cares about. And then, you're recalled into national team to play in hostile conditions where, in those limited games, you have to prove your mettle, else you find yourself facing immense criticism. That's the cricketing life of Cheteshwar Pujara. The batting of this Saurashtra cricketer is a throwback to eras gone by. The man doesn't tire of scoring runs, no matter the opposition or venue. And, his fitness is more about what is required for batting for long periods as opposed to bulging biceps with tattoos on them. For a man who pays his bills through Test cricket, Pujara is undeniably the perfect face of the longest format that is striving for the limelight in the age of T20s. © Reuters Pujara's perseverance and resilience were in full display during India's historic Test series triumph in Australia. The middle-order batsman smashed three hundreds and a fifty, emerging as India's leading run-scorer - with 521 runs to his name - in the five-match series. But, as always, Pujara's efforts often get overshadowed by more glamorous teammates like captain Kohli. While his teammates travelled to New Zealand for their next big challenge, Pujara quietly returned to the playing domestic cricket for Saurashtra. But, more importantly, the fact that he only features in the longer version of the game further translates into less or no endorsement deals. In a list of India's top 20 valuable celebrity brands published by advisory firm Duff & Phelps earlier this month, it wasn't surprising to see Kohli topping the list but Pujara not featuring anywhere highlighted the cruel side of cricket. But, the 30-year-old is unfazed by the lack of endorsement deals. “Being a (specialist) Test cricketer, I accept that there haven't been many endorsements. I am someone who doesn't go after endorsements. For me, the true thing is the love of this game. My father has taught me that I don't just play for myself but for the entire country,” he was quoted as saying by the Indian Express. © Reuters In the world where a sportsperson is measured by his brand value, Pujara is just happy to contribute to his team in the predefined role by the management. For him, endorsement deals aren't really important, what he truly cherishes and strives for is the appreciation for his hard work. “In my life, I am a simple man…if it (endorsements) comes, I will take it; if it doesn't, I am not bothered about it. If I keep playing well and performing for the Indian cricket team, what I like is the appreciation from this country and from (the) cricketing fraternity, which is more than any endorsement I might get in my life,” Pujara added. For someone who notched up the 'Man of the Series' award for his exploits Down Under after keeping the opposition bowlers at bay with his stubborn batting - facing 1,258 deliveries (more than any other Indian in a Test series), Pujara, just like his artistry with the willow, has made a valid point - something young and budding cricketers can learn from. Endorsements are a byproduct of cricket and shouldn't overshadow a cricketer's performance on the field. If it wasn't for cricket or a player's performance, nothing would come by, let alone endorsement.
  10. What's the best thing about moving on from a relationship? It's when you and your ex are in a damn good space and only give each other good vibes. Well, it's 2019 and exes are either up in arms about how it all ended or they move away too quickly from each other, not wanting to face any circumstantial dilemma that may come along. © Getty images But, not all exes are the same, are they? Some move away knowing things didn't work out for them even though they spent significant time together and they bow down in grace and wish each other well. Nope, I am not living in a utopic town, I am actually stating facts. © Getty Images As we all know, Jurassic World and Guardians Of The Galaxy superstar Chris Pratt has just asked Katherine Schwarzenegger to marry him and we're damn happy for them. But what makes us happier is the fact that Chris Pratt's ex-wife Anna Faris has wished them well, upon hearing the news about their engagement! This is the truest relationship evolution curve we know! © Getty Images Recently Chris posted a picture of Katherine and him together embracing, with the following caption '"Sweet Katherine, so happy you said yes! I'm thrilled to be marrying you. Proud to go boldly in faith with you. Here we go!" Here, take a look Sweet Katherine, so happy you said yes! I'm thrilled to be marrying you. Proud to live boldly in faith with you. Here we go! ðð♥ï¸ A post shared by chris pratt (@prattprattpratt) on Jan 13, 2019 at 11:12pm PST And that wasn't all. Obviously Chris got almost 50k+ comments on this picture congratulating him but the one that stood out was from Anna Faris, wishing him happiness! She literally sounded way too happy for the forthcoming nuptials! Love to see it. #CommentsByCelebs A post shared by Comments By Celebs (@commentsbycelebs) on Jan 14, 2019 at 8:40am PST Now, I am not saying we're all monsters and we don't finish things and we walk away from associations. All I am saying is, we just like to move at the speed of light, even in our relationships and forget about them like they never happened.
  11. In the ever-competitive world of cricket, winning has now become the most important thing, nullifying all the other elements that once made us believe it was indeed a gentleman's game. It doesn't matter how you win or what you do to come out on top, all that we, sadly, care for today is trophies, rankings and records galore. Similarly, Indian cricket, too, has witnessed a major overhaul over the years. The technical perfection and humility of Rahul Dravid or the sheer politeness of Sachin Tendulkar are now a thing of the past as the MS Dhoni era focused on athleticism, run-making and electric fielding displays. But, while all those things seemed like the need of the hour in the ever-changing arena of international cricket, what followed later has surely washed away everything we once knew about the game. Under the tutelage of Virat Kohli, Indian cricket team might have scaled new heights across formats, but there has been a terrifying change in their approach towards the game. From flipping a bird to the crowd in stands, engaging in verbal volleys to even allegedly getting rid of their coach, Kohli has shown a whole new side of the sport that earlier took a backseat, at least in Indian cricket. While some had their concerns with the new culture in Team India, not many cared owing to the massive success of Kohli and his team. © Instagram/@hardikpandya93 Unfortunately, the patience of Indian cricket fans reached its saturation point when Hardik Pandya, a youngster who's still looking to make his mark, resonated the questionable devil-may-care attitude - incorporated by Team India - in his tone-deaf remarks about women on a popular chat show. From branding women like trophies to shamefully boasting of his 'conquests', Pandya was blatantly misogynistic and sexist, needless to say irresponsible, in his remarks about the other *** on national television. But, he wasn't done yet. If his boorish behaviour on the chat show left the viewers shell-shocked, Pandya's mockery of an apology which lacked remorse and ownership of his actions further infuriated the cricket fans. The 25-year-old claimed: "I got a bit carried away with the nature of the show". Like, seriously, Mr Hard (as he likes to call himself)? If the nature of a show can allow sportspersons or celebrities - looked upon as a source of inspiration and motivation by many - to get carried away to an extent where they lose their grip on the sense of responsibility, the wiser call would be, to opt out of such shows. But, even if the chat show had such a nature (as claimed by Pandya), the Baroda cricketer could or should have stayed true to the ethics and conduct of everything that Indian cricket represents and stands for. Rahul Dravid - The Bakra "harassment" episode. No stains on The Wall.ð pic.twitter.com/qKFHpf2aA2 — Vinay (@SemperFiUtd) October 14, 2018 The biggest example is Dravid who once appeared on a popular prank show and still came out as the gentleman we have come to cherish over the years. Appearing on MTV Bakra, the age when the channel had one too many Cyrus', Dravid was tested to his limits amid an annoying environment, aimed at extracting a fiery response from a generally calm and composed cricketer. But, 'The Wall' showcased immense patience that was often reflected in his tireless innings for India. Now, when you compare Dravid's situation with Pandya's, anyone with a sane mind would agree that the former, in accordance to the format of the show, was forced to endure a more severe and testing environment than the latter. But, unlike Pandya, Dravid neither got carried away, nor he lost his sense of responsibility. The former Indian cricketer could have easily blasted the woman (in the video) with expletives or harsh words, but he handled it like a true gentleman. Pandya was sitting comfortably, with all his bling, on a couch with his teammate. Even if the host was provoking him with controversial questions, the Indian cricketer could have, a choice he clearly had at that time, dodged it or answered differently. But, objectifying women and, boasting of 'conquests' and possessions like a Desperado on national TV was definitely not how we expect our sportspersons to act. © BCCL Back in 2016, during India A's tour of Australia, Pandya was all praise for Dravid, claiming: "For me, everything changed after my tour of Australia with the India A team. It is a tour that transformed me as a cricketer. I can't but thank Rahul Dravid enough for his contribution. I understood that there is a mental aspect about the game that needs to be worked upon. He (Dravid) made me mentally stronger”. For a man who once claimed that he learned the mental aspect of the game from one of the greats, Pandya, now, needs to learn and instil the mentality of a sportsperson from Dravid. It's one thing to mould yourself with time to continuously grow and compete at the highest level, but, if not anything else, Pandya and the current crop of Indian cricketers can surely learn how to behave and act responsibly from the former greats like Dravid.
  12. "There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living." Nelson Mandela's famous quote is probably the best way to describe Virat Kohli's love affair with cricket. His passion for cricket has made him one of the best batsmen in the world across formats and further nurtured him into a ruthless captain. It's also the very passion that defines Kohli's emotional, effervescent and, at times, explosive character. For him, the world is for the taking and his hunger to succeed has propelled him to the pinnacle of the sport. At the age of 30, he is arguably the most relentless and popular performer in the sport. He is already a World Cup winner (2011), the Player of the tournament at a World T20 (2014) and has led India to a record eight consecutive Test series wins. In December 2018, he became the first Asian captain to win a Test in England, Australia and South Africa. © Reuters If his cricketing skills have allowed him to scale new heights in international cricket, his winning mentality and positive mindset is also something that sets him apart from other cricketers of his generation. Despite the hardships and personal setbacks in his life, the Delhi cricketer has gone from strength to strength to carve his own niche in the sport - something that was in full display during his recent interview in Australia. This reply of Virat Kohli when asked how he feels when opposition team wins despite him trying his best, is a learning lesson in itself. MUST WATCH. pic.twitter.com/ryYijA4KsZ — Chandramukhið¥Stark (@FlawedSenorita) December 13, 2018 Talking to Fox Sports, Kohli revealed how he managed to overcome his problems to become the legend he is today. He also gave an insight into how he tries to get over a loss in cricket. “When you lose, eventually you feel so bad that you reach a point where you think there is nothing more than you can feel about this so you got to get over it,” Kohli said. "But now what happens is, even after we lose an important game to someone else, you actually feel bad about your own loss but at the same time, you look at it as the other team has come to play as well. These guys have the similar kind of emotion and passion that we have. There is no good reason why we should win every game. So, I naturally started feeling happy for the other team as well if they really outplay us, because you understand that they are playing the same sport and they might have the same emotion that I do,” he added. © AP Stressing on the importance of not overthinking, Kohli said: So you take it as a part of the game as you can't be so obsessive about it where you cannot put your mind to anything else, because you have to move on and focus on the next game as well. That thing has especially helped me in Test cricket also because you have to come back for 5 days and have that mindset otherwise you will struggle to forget it and refresh yourself to focus on the next game”. While Kohli was majorly talking about cricket, his words of wisdom serve as a great reminder to all those who have struggled or are still finding it hard to overcome their personal problems.
  13. Being the CEO of Google might sound fancy and all, but if you look beyond the glamour and fame, you see that everyone who is in a position of power has endured their share of struggles and tribulations. Sundar Pichai is no different. He might be the driving force behind one of the biggest tech firms of the world, but he didn't bag the position in a day. In fact, people with power often start small and know what it takes to work their way up. © Twitter In a recent interview with The New York Times, Sundar Pichai threw light on his humble beginnings and the simple life that he led in Chennai. “There was simplicity to my life, which was very nice compared with today's world. We lived in a kind of modest house, shared with tenants. We would sleep on the living room floor. There was a drought when I was growing up, and we had anxiety. Even now, I can never sleep without a bottle of water beside my bed. Other houses had refrigerators, and then we finally got one. It was a big deal. I read whatever I could get my hands on. I read Dickens. Friends, playing street cricket, reading books - that was kind of the totality of life. But you never felt lacking for anything. I was so wrapped up in that, that to some extent I didn't understand there was a much bigger shift happening with the internet.” Sundar studied at IIT Kharagpur before leaving for the US where he studied at the Stanford University and even pursued management at the prestigious Wharton Business School. © Twitter He eventually made his way to Google in 2004 and played a pivotal role in shaping the Chrome browser. The company was under fire recently after many employees protested against the sexual harassment scenario at the company.
  14. One of the most challenging (and annoying) body image issues men face, is that of height. For other issues, you can take steps to alter your body according to how you'd like it to be, but what do you do to increase your height? We wish we knew the answer. There is absolutely nothing you can do to actually increase your height, and that's just sad because as superficial as it sounds, everyone should be able to take steps to be satisfied with their own body. Mohd Iqbal was facing this issue, and the good thing is, we knew exactly how to help. © MensXP Our 'Groom Barabar Groom' experts - that include host Siddharth Batra, Celebrity Stylist Isha Bhansali, and Designer Siddartha Tytler - had the perfect fix for Iqbal. There are ways to look tall if one manipulates their outfits with favourable cuts, fits, and patterns, and Iqbal got the perfect style lesson- along with a grooming makeover by Celebrity Hairstylist Rod Anker. © MensXP © MensXP Be it wearing black, to solid overalls or patterned bomber jackets, to wearing a fedora to add an extra few inches among other tips and tricks, Iqbal got the fashion lessons he desperately needed to reinvent his style game, and the person who emerged through the other side, was an unrecognizable one. Talk about making a functional style statement through a makeover! © MensXP © MensXP Take a look at the video right here. We've seen multiple grooming and makeover shows for women over the years, but none for men. MenXP wishes to change that. Now more than ever, men are more up-to-date with all the latest trends when it comes to grooming products or the latest fashion. On the other end of the spectrum, a majority of them don't know where to even begin. With Groom Baraabar Groom, MensXP wants to create India's first male-focused makeover show that along with being a masterclass in everything fashion and grooming, will provide a safe space for underconfident guys to overcome their self-perceived shortcomings. Some of these guys might not even know the reason for years of self-doubt in them that we might have a very simple solution for. From a much-needed haircut to hygiene routines like pedicures, styling based on the body type (short, tall, skinny, overweight), fashion and grooming advice and a little note on improving self-confidence to finally the big reveal -- our show is more about breaking self-inflicted notions of physical shortcomings rather than a superficial makeover. MensXP wants to change the grooming game in India with this show.
  15. I can't think of a better deal for men than women openly voicing out what they like and don't like. It's almost like you don't have to try too hard to figure out why women are mysterious, as long as they're vocal and if I have to give any advice to you lot, it's just going to be about how you should already know what women want, by the virtue of how they express themselves often. Don't get me yet? I stumbled upon this excellent compilation of 'women sharing their first date experiences' on Twitter and some of it is actually avoidable. It's only helpful for you because you're hearing it straight from the horse's mouth! © Pinterest A Twitter handle by the name of 'A Tribe Called Breast' asked some ladies to share their first date experiences and the ladies didn't stop telling since! Here, take a look and get some ideas, and the dos and don'ts in place! Ladies: tell me your worst date. — A Tribe Called Breast (@_ItsMissBre) 23 August 2018 A guy spent all of dinner telling me about his ex-girlfriends and how after each break-up he had to move out of their place and move back home. Then he asked how big my apartment was. https://t.co/XgbDwzzHhO — Danielle Sepulveres (@ellesep) 27 August 2018 Wow. Talk about a serial apartment inhabitant! Like seriously, why would you even bring up your ex girlfriends? That's one thing YOU should never do, unless of course she asks you point blank! Took me to a dinner where he didn't make reservations, so we couldn't get a table. Go to a different place where he proceeds to drink too much. On the way home asks me to get out two stops before my actual station to watch him pee into the train tracks. https://t.co/nLQ5Ecg0Kr — Natt à¸à¸²à¸£à¸¸à¸à¸£à¸±à¸à¸©à¸µà¸§à¸à¸¨à¹ (@nattgarun) 29 August 2018 Really, don't know what to say to this one except maybe plan your date better and don't drink like a thirsty goat on your first date? Why would you want to get drunk out of your mind instead of getting to know the woman you're on a date with? Oh and don't make her watch you pee? He picked me up on a Sunday morning. Thought we are going to have a breakfast date at a hotel. Ended up in the hotel's conference room where his church gathersð® Had to sit through a 2 hour church service ð¥ https://t.co/AL8br17vB2 — La Dolce Far Niente (@Onhwa86) 27 August 2018 Did I ever tell you about this one time I was on a date with a guy and he spent the whole evening trying to tell me about the goodness Christianity brings to people's lives, hoping I'd convert. He even tried to hand me some pamphlets. It was really weird. I mean what the fu** right? This one's exactly like that. Don't talk about religion on your first date. It really doesn't serve much of a purpose. © Pinterest Over coffee, he told me he was married but that his wife was "flexible". There was no second date. https://t.co/A20N8kGcl8 — Elizabeth (@historyinpearls) 29 August 2018 Uhh seriously? Don't pull this off. Ever. He talked about himself nonstop and only asked me two questions: 1) Was Michael Jackson guilty and 2) What was the point of the Dewey Decimal System? Then he got an emergency text about a fire in the chemistry lab he was supervising and invited me to come. HARD PASS. https://t.co/V6LUzTKJZ1 — Danielle Dreger (@DanielleDregerB) 28 August 2018 Okay guys, another reason why you may never get a second date is because all you did in the first date was talk about yourself and made the evening all about you and then just asked her to go home with you. I mean, why would she? Balance it out and ask relevant questions. Walked me to the bar, popped me down on a seat, said he was going for a shit, never came back. https://t.co/DC4aBoJbBH — Quim Jong-un (@sheikyerbouti_) 28 August 2018 Ouch. What a shitty excuse. © Twitter I showed up to meet a guy I'd only talked to online and the first thing out of his mouth was "You looked prettier in your pictures." Coincidentally it was also my shortest date. https://t.co/0vdA17mlnk — holly. (@hollydiggity) 28 August 2018 Yeaahhh, for all the 'blind daters' and people who meet online and then plan a date offline- if you don't like what you see, then be polite about it. He was a professional athlete who kept making sure I knew how impressive he was, and then told me in the car ON THE WAY to the restaurant, "There's a 90% chance I'm gonna sleep with you tonight." I guess he underestimated my 10% say in the matter. https://t.co/XlsKdTErvE — Kristin Butz (@TheRuralGaucho) 29 August 2018 This is just bad date ethics. Absolutely bad! Don't overestimate anything, ever! First Date: he took me home and we cooked/ate dinner with his mom and dad. https://t.co/jXBhnc2NOF — Kara McDowell (@karajmcdowell) 28 August 2018 Umm, why would you have a family dinner with your first date? What kind of a hurry are you in? Watched The Dark Knight in his room and he kept pausing it to check that I understood what was going on. Also lent me Sophie's Choice so that I would understand his degree better (he did philosophy) https://t.co/Zam06DkSGR — fre shavoc a do (@charlotteearney) 28 August 2018 I literally have no words except, don't underestimate the woman you're with, ever! © Thinkstock And here's 'Just Some Guy', acknowledging how 'wild' these stories are! the stories you all are sharing about worst dates are mad wild — just some guy (@b_eternal757) 23 August 2018 But seriously, if you're ever out on a first date with a woman, just be yourself, don't get too drunk or rude and underestimate her! Don't get ahead of yourself and certainly don't eat with your mouth open and always listen to the ladies!
  16. Humanity is the biggest religion they say and every day, where the world is being divided on the basis of communal lines, there are a few examples which make us believe that there is still hope for people to co-exist. A viral video of a Muslim man offering namaz in a Gurudwara is currently doing the rounds on social media and people can't help but be amazed. The video was posted on Facebook and while the comment section had some people raise questions about this, the majority of the comments were only about harmony, love and tolerance towards our fellow brothers. © Facebook © Facebook The video is from a Gurudwara in Malaysia.
  17. Irrfan Khan is currently in London undergoing treatment for a neuroendocrine tumor. Time and again, the actor keeps giving a glimpse of what's happening in his life. Just some time ago, we spotted him in a stadium enjoying a match and now, the actor took to his Twitter sharing a picture of him which is all smiles. © Twitter © Twitter The picture, which has now gone viral, makes us salute the man for his brave heart and his wonderful and positive outlook towards life, which quite honestly, is a lesson for all of us. The actor changed his display image on Twitter, which made his fans go crazy after seeing him in a happy space like this after a long time. Well, we must admit it is really wonderful to see Irrfan taking life in his stride and showing us that he is a true fighter indeed. Yogi aur Jaya ko pyaar dene ke liye dhanyawad ðð A post shared by Irrfan (@irrfan) on Nov 12, 2017 at 7:09am PST Everyone is trying to be there for the actor in every way possible. In fact, some reports suggested that Shah Rukh Khan even gave his London home keys to the actor. However, Irrfan's spokesperson has dismissed the rumours. Coming back to the picture that is creating a buzz on the internet, Irrfan can be seen through a glass window with earphones on and carrying that heart-warming smile. Good news : He is smiling!!! @irrfan cancer (ððð) ki ma******t !!! A post shared by Gulshan Devaiah (@gulshandevaiah78) on Jul 15, 2018 at 8:12am PDT Last month, Irrfan even won the IIFA for Best Actor for his role in 'Hindi Medium'. The actor couldn't make it to the event, but thanking IIFA on Twitter, he wrote, "Thank you to IIFA and our audience who have been part of my journey." Thank you to @IIFA and our audience who have been part for my journey ð #IIFA2018 https://t.co/GpxSmflkLx — Irrfan (@irrfank) June 26, 2018 Some time ago, Irrfan opened up about battling cancer and told Bombay Times, "It's been quite some time now since I have been diagnosed with a high-grade neuroendocrine cancer. This new name in my vocabulary, I got to know, was rare, and due to fewer study cases, and less information comparatively, the unpredictability of the treatment was more. I was part of a trial-and-error game. In this chaos, shocked, afraid and in panic, while on one of the terrifying hospital visits, I blabber to my son, 'The only thing I expect from ME is not to face this crisis in this present state. I desperately need my feet. Fear and panic should not overrule me and make me miserable'.” God speaks to each of us as he makes us, then walks with us silently out of the night. These are the words we dimly hear: You, sent out beyond your recall, go to the limits of your longing. Embody me. Flare up like a flame and make big shadows I can move in. Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final. Don't let yourself lose me. Nearby is the country they call life. You will know it by its seriousness. Give me your hand #rainermariarilke A post shared by Irrfan (@irrfan) on Mar 19, 2018 at 1:27pm PDT Here is hoping he gets better soon! Sending you all our love Irrfan, can't wait to see you on the silver screen again!
  18. waqas dar

    Reality of love-mohabbat

    ایک غریب کسان کی شادی نہایت حسین و جمیل عورت سے ہو گئی۔ اُس عورت کے حُسن کی سب سے بڑی وجہ لمبے گھنے سیاہ بال تھے، جن کی فکر صرف اُسے ہی نہیں بلکہ اُن دونوں کو رہتی تھی۔ ایک دِن کسان کی بیوی نے اپنے شوہر سے کہا کہ، "کل واپسی پر آتے ہوئے راستے میں دُکان سے ایک کنگھی تو لیتےآنا، کیونکہ بالوں کو لمبے اور گھنے رکھنے کیلئے اُنہیں بنانا سنوارنا بہت ضروری ہے۔ اور پھر میں کتنے دِن ہمسائیوں سے کنگھی منگواتی رہونگی۔۔۔؟" غریب کسان نے اپنی بیوی سے معذرت کر لی اور بولا، "بیگم! میری تو اپنی گھڑی کا سٹرایپ کافی دِنوں سے ٹوٹا ہوا ہے، میرے پاس اتنے پیسے نہیں ہیں کہ اُسے ٹھیک کروا سکوں، تو میں بھلا کنگھی کیسے لا سکتا ہوں۔ تم کچھ دِن مزید ہمسائیوں کی کنگھی سے گزارا کرو، جب پیسے ہونگے تو لے آونگا۔۔۔!" بیوی اپنے شوہر کی مجبوری کو سمجھ رہی تھی اِس لیے زیادہ تکرار نہیں کیا۔ کسان نے اُس وقت تو بیوی کو چپ کروا دیا، لیکن پھر اندر ہی اندر اپنے آپ کو کوسنے لگا کہ، میں بھی کتنا بدبخت ہوں کہ اپنی بیگم کی ایک چھوٹی سی خواہش بھی پوری نہیں کر سکتا۔ دوسرے دِن کھیتوں سے واپسی پر کسان ایک گھڑیوں کی دُکان پر گیا اور اپنی ٹوٹی ہوئی گھڑی اونے پونے داموں بیچی اور اُس سے ملنے والے پیسوں سے ایک اچھی سی کنگھی خریدی اور بڑی راز داری سے چھپا کر گھر کی طرف روانہ ہوا۔ اُس نے سوچا گھر جا کر بیوی کو سرپرائز دونگا تو وہ بہت خوش ہوگی۔ جب وہ گھر گیا تو کیا دیکھا اُسکی بیوی نے اپنے لمبے بال کٹوا دئیے تھے۔ اور مسکراتے ہوئے اُسکی طرف دیکھ رہی تھی۔ کسان نے حیرت سے پوچھا، "بیگم! یہ کیا کیا تمنے اپنے بال کیوں کٹوا دئیے، پتہ ہے وہ تمہارے اُوپر کتنے خوبصورت لگتے تھے۔۔۔؟" بیگم بولی، "میرے سرتاج! کل جب آپ نے کہا کہ آپکے پاس گھڑی ٹھیک کروانے کے پیسے بھی نہیں ہیں تو میں بہت افسردہ ہو گئی۔ چنانچہ آج میں قریب کے بیوٹی پارلر پر گئی تھی، وہاں اپنے بال بیچ کر آپکے لیے یہ ایک گھڑی لائی ہوں۔۔۔!" جب کسان نے اُسے کنگھی دیکھائی تو فرطِ جذبات میں دونوں کی آنکھیں نم ہو گئیں محبت صرف کچھ دینے اور لینے کو ہی نہیں کہتے، بلکہ محبت ایک قربانی اور ایثار کا نام ہے جس میں اکثر اپنی خواہشات اور جذبات کو صرف اِس لیے قربان کر دیا جاتا ہے تاکہ رشتوں کا تقدس اور احترام برقرار رہے۔
  19. waqas dar

    Race Of Wishes-Khuwahishat ki Door

    ایک شخص نے اپنے والد کو اپنی پسند سے آگاہ کیا تاکہ وہ اسکے لئے اسے منتخب کرے ۔ والد نے بیٹے سے کہا کہ تم اسے مجھ سے ملواوں تاکہ میں بھی تمہاری پسند کو دیکھ سکوں - بیٹے نے اسے گھر بلوایا - والد نے بیٹے کی پسند کو دیکھ کر کہا کہ بیٹے یہ تمہارےلائق نہی یہ مجھے پسند ہے اسے میرے لئے چھوڑ دو - باپ بیٹے دونوں میں جھگڑا ہوگیا ، بات تھانے دار تک پہنچی تھانے دارنے کہا کہ اسے میرے سامنے پیش کرو تااکہ اسے دیکھ کر میں فیصلہ کروں کہ وہ تم میں سے کس کے لائق ہے - جب اسے تھانےدار کےسامنے پیش کیا گیا تو تھانے دار نے کہا کہ تم دونوں اسکے لائق نہی یہ تو مجھے پسند آگئی یہ میری ہوگی اب ان تینوں میں جھگڑا ہونے لگا - بات وزیر تک پہنچی - وزیر نے بھی اسے دیکھنے کی فرمائش کی ، وزیر بھی اسے دیکھ کر دیوانا ہوگیا - اور کہہنے لگا یہ تو میری ہے - آخر کار بات بادشاہ تک پہنچی ، بادشاہ بڑا حیران ہوا کہ یہ کیا چیز ہوگی اسے میں بھی تودیکھوں ، جب بادشاہ کے سامنے پیش کیا گیا تو بادشاہ کہنے لگا کہ یہ تو میری ہی ہوگی اسکی جوڑی میرے ساتھ اچھی رہیگی ان سب افراد کی بات سن کر وہ کہنے لگی کہ تم مجھ سے بھی تو معلوم کرو کہ میں کس کے ساتھ رہنا پسند کرتی ہوں - سب نے اس سے پوچھا کہ بتاو تم کو کون پسند ہے فیصلہ کرو اس نے کہا کہ " دوڑ لگاتے ہیں جس نے مجھے پکڑ لیا میں اسکی ہوجاونگی " یہ سب اسکے پیچھے دوڑتے ہیں دوڑتے دوڑتے یہ سارے گر جاتے ہیں لیکن وہ کسی کے ہاتھ نہی آتی اور پہاڑ کے اوپر سے انکو کہتی ہے ۰ میرا پیچھا بہت لوگوں نے کیا اور ہر ایک یہی کہتا تھا کہ تم میری ہو تم میری ہو, میرے لئے اپنا ایمان اپنے رشتدار سب قربان کرنے کیلئے تیار ہوجاتے ہیں - موت تک میری خواہش کرتے ہیں لیکن میں کسی کی نہی ہو کیونکہ میں دنیا ہوں مجھے دنیا کہتے ہیں میں کسی کی نہی لیکن سب مجھے اپنا سمجھتے ہیں
  20. جب قرآن پہ پابندی لگیروس میں کمیونزم کا طوطا بولتا تھا بلکہ دنیا تو یہ کہہ رہی تھی کہ بس اب پورا ایشیا سرخ ہوجاے گا ان دنوں 1973 میں ہمارے ایک دوست ماسکو ٹریننگ کے لیے چلے گئے وہ کہتے ہے کہ جمعے کے دن میں نے دوستوں سے کہا کہ چلو جمعہ ادا کرنے کی تیاری کرتے ہیں تو انہوں نے کہا کہ یہاں مسجدوں کو گودام بنا دیا گیا ہے ایک دو مساجد کو سیاحوں کا قیام گاہ بنا دیا گیا ہے صرف دو ہی مسجد اس شہر میں بچے ہے جو کھبی بند اور کھبی کھلے ہوتے ہیں میں نے کہا آپ مجھے مساجد کا پتہ بتا دے میں وہی چلا جاتا ہوں جمعہ ادا کرنے ۔ پتہ لیکر میں مسجد تک پہنچا تو مسجد بند تھی ، مسجد کے پڑوس میں ہی ایک بندے کے ساتھ مسجد کی چابی تھی میں نے اس آدمی کو کہا کہ دروازہ کھول دو مسجد کا ، مجھے نماز پڑھنی ہے ، اس نے کہا دروازہ تو میں کھول دونگا لیکن اگر آپکو کوی نقصان پہنچا تو میں زمہ دار نہیں ہوں گا ، میں نے کہا دیکھیں جناب میں پاکستان میں بھی مسلمان تھا اور روس کے ماسکو میں بھی مسلمان ہی ہوں پاکستان کے کراچی میں بھی نماز ادا کرتا تھا اور روس کے ماسکو میں بھی نماز ادا کروں گا چاہے کچھ بھی ہوجاے ۔ اس نے مسجد کا دروازہ کھولا تو اندر مسجد کا ماحول بہت خراب تھا میں نے جلدی جلدی صفائی کی اور مسجد کی حالت اچھی کرنے کی کوشیش کرنے لگا کام سے فارغ ہونے کے بعد میں نے بلند آواز سے آزان دی ۔۔۔۔۔ آزان کی آواز سن کر بوڑھے بچے مرد عورت جوان سب مسجد کے دروازے پہ جمع ہوے کہ یہ کون ہے جس نے موت کو آواز دی ۔۔۔۔ لیکن مسجد کے اندر کوی بھی نہیں آیا،۔۔۔۔ خیر میں نے جمعہ تو ادا نہیں کیا کیونکہ اکیلا ہی تھا بس ظہر کی نماز ادا کی اور مسجد سے باہر آگیا جب میں جانے لگا تو لوگ مجھے ایسے دیکھ رہے تھے جیسے کہ میں نماز ادا کرکہ باہر نہیں نکلا بلکہ دنیا کا کویی نیا کام متعارف کرواکر مسجد سے نکلا، ایک بچہ میرے پاس آیا اور کہا کہ آپ ہمارے گھر چاۓ پینے آے ۔ اسکے لہجے میں حلوص ایسا تھا کہ میں انکار نہ کرسکا میں انکے ساتھ گیا تو گھر میں طرح طرح کے پکوان بن چکے تھے اور میرے آنے پہ سب بہت خوش دکھائی دے رہے تھے میں نے کھانا کھایا چاے پی تو ایک بچہ ساتھ بیٹھا ہوا تھا میں نے اس سے پوچھا آپکو قرآن پاک پڑھنا آتا ہے ۔ ؟ بچے نے کہا جی بلکل قرآن پاک تو ہم سب کو آتا ہے ، میں نے جیب سے قرآن کا چھوٹا نسحہ نکالا اور کہا یہ پڑھ کر سناو مجھے ۔۔۔ بچے نے قرآن کو دیکھا اور مجھے دیکھا پھر قرآن کو دیکھا اور ماں باپ کو دیکھ کر دروازے کو دیکھا پھر مجھے دیکھا ۔ میں نے سوچا اس کو قرآن پڑھنا نھی آتا لیکن اس نے کہا کیوں کہ اسکو قرآن پڑھنا آتا ہے ۔ میں نے کہا بیٹا یہ دیکھو قرآن کی اس آیت پہ انگلی يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آَمَنُوا قُوا أَنْفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ رکھی تو وہ فر فر بولنے لگا بنا قرآن کو دیکھے ہی ۔۔۔۔ مجھے حیرت کا ایک شدید جھٹکا لگا کہ یہ تو قرآن کو دیکھے بنا ہی پڑھنے لگا میں نے اسکے والدین سے کہا " حضرات یہ کیا معاملہ ہے ؟ انہوں نے مسکرا کر کہا " دراصل ہمارے پاس قرآن پاک موجود نہیں کسی کے گھر سے قرآن پاک کے آیت کا ایک ٹکڑا بھی مل جاے تو اس تمام حاندان کو پھانسی کی سزا دے دی جاتی ھے اس وجہ سے ہم لوگ قرآن پاک نہیں رکھتے گھروں میں " " تو پھر اس بچے کو قرآن کس نے سکھایا کیونکہ قرآن پاک تو کسی کے پاس ہے ہی نہیں " میں نے مزید حیران ہوکر کہا " ہمارے پاس قرآن کے کئ حافظ ہے کوئی درزی ہے کوی دکاندار کوئ سبزی فروش کوئی کسان ہم انکے پاس اپنے بچے بھیج دیتے ہے محنت مزدوری کے بہانے ۔۔۔۔ وہ انکو الحمد اللہ سے لیکر والناس تک زبانی قرآن پڑھاتے ہیں ایک وقت ایسا آجاتا ہے کہ وہ حافظ قرآن بن جاتے ہے کسی کے پاس قرآن کا نسحہ ہے نہیں اسلیئے ہماری نیی نسل کو ناظرہ نہیں آتا بلکہ اس وقت ہمارے گلیوں میں آپکو جتنے بھی بچے دکھائی دے رہے ہیں یہ سب کے سب حافظ قرآن ہے ۔ یہی وجہ ہے جب آپ نے اس بچے کے سامنے قرآن رکھا تو اسکو پڑھنا نہیں آیا ناظرہ کرکہ لیکن جب آپ نے آیت سنائی تو وہ فر فر بولنے لگا اگر آپ نہ روکتے تو یہ سارا قرآن ہی پڑھ کر سنا دیتا ۔ وہ نوجوان کہتا ہے کہ میں نے قرآن کا ایک نہیں کئ ہزار معجزے اس دن دیکھے ، جس معاشرے میں قرآن پہ پابندی لگا دی گئ تھی رکھنے پہ ، اس معاشرے کے ہر ہر بچے بوڑھے مرد عورت کے سینوں میں قرآن حفظ ہوکر رہ گیا تھا میں جب باہر نکلا تو کئ سو بچے دیکھے اور ان سے قرآن سننے کی فرمائش کی تو سب نے قرآن سنا دی ، میں نے کہا " لوگوں ۔۔۔۔۔! تم نے قرآن رکھنے پہ پابندی لگا دی لیکن جو سینے میں قرآن مجید محفوظ ہے اس پہ پابندی نہ لگا سکے ۔تب مجھے احساس ہوا کہ اللہ پاک کے اس ارشاد کا کیا مطلب ہے إِنَّا نَحنُ نَزَّلْنَا الذِّكرَ وَإِنَّا لَهُ لَحَافِظُونَ ::: بے شک یہ ذِکر (قران) ہم نے نازل فرمایا ہے اور بے شک ہم ہی اس کی حفاظت کرنے والے ہیں احباب سے پرزور اپیل ہے کہ اس تحریر کو دل کھول کہ شیئر کریں آپکا ایک سینکڈ لگے گا اور لوگوں کے علم میں اضافہ ہوگا اور اس کارخیر کا سبب آپ بنو گے... جی ہاں آپ
  21. ........بادشاہ اور وزیر ﺍﯾﮏ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺟﺲ ﮐﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺍﯾﮏ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ۔ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﮨﺮ ﮐﺎﻡ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽ ﭘﺮ ﺑﮭﺮﻭﺳﮧ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺗﻮﮐﻞ ﮐﺮﺗﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ۔ ﭘﮭﺮ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺩﻥ ﺍﯾﺴﺎ ﮨﻮﺍ ﮐﮧ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﯽ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺍﻧﮕﻠﯽ ﮐﭩﯽ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﺱ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺳﮯ ﺑﮩﺖ ﺳﺎﺭﺍ ﺧﻮﻥ ﺑﮩﺎ۔ﺟﺐ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﻧﮯ ﯾﮧ ﻣﻨﻈﺮ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ ﺗﻮ ﮐﮩﺎ : ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﯽ ﮨﻮﮔﺎ ﺍﻧﺸﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ۔ ﺧﺪﺍ ﭘﺮ ﺑﮭﺮﻭﺳﮧ ﮐﺮﯾﮟ۔ ﺟﺐ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﯾﮧ ﺳﻨﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﻮ ﻏﺼﮧ ﺍٓﯾﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺑﻮﻻ : ﮐﯿﺴﮯ ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﻮﮔﺎ؟ ﻣﯿﺮﯼ ﺍﻧﮕﻠﯽ ﺳﮯﺧﻮﻥ ﺑﮩﮧ ﺭﮨﺎ ﮨﮯ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺗﻢ ﮐﮩﮧ ﺭﮨﮯ ﮨﻮ ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﻮﮔﺎ۔ ! ﺍﺱﮐﮯ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯﺣﮑﻢ ﺩﯾﺎ ﮐﮧ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﮐﻮ ﺟﯿﻞ ﺑﮭﯿﺞ ﺩﯾﺎﺟﺎﺋﮯ۔ ﺍﺱ ﭘﺮ ﺑﮭﯽ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﻧﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ : ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﯽ ﮨﻮﮔﺎ ﺍﻧﺸﺎﺀﺍﻟﻠﮧ۔ ﺍﻭﺭ ﭘﮭﺮ ﺟﯿﻞ ﭼﻼ ﮔﯿﺎ۔ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﯽ ﻋﺎﺩﺕ ﺗﮭﯽ ﮐﮧ ﮨﺮ ﺟﻤﻌﮧ ﮐﻮ ﺷﮑﺎﺭ ﮐﮭﯿﻠﻨﮯﺟﺎﯾﺎ ﮐﺮﺗﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ۔ ﺍﺱ ﺟﻤﻌﮧ ﮐﻮ ﺑﮭﯽ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺑﮍﮮ ﺟﻨﮕﻞﻣﯿﮟ ﺷﮑﺎﺭ ﮐﮭﯿﻠﻨﮯ ﮔﯿﺎ۔ ﻟﯿﮑﻦ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺘﺎ ﮨﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺍﺱﺩﻓﻌﮧ ﺟﻨﮕﻞ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺑﮩﺖ ﺳﺎﺭﮮ ﻟﻮﮒ ﮨﯿﮟ ﺟﻮ ﺑﺖ ﮐﯽ ﭘﻮﺟﺎﮐﺮ ﺭﮨﮯ ﮨﯿﮟ۔ ﺍٓﺝ ﺍﻥ ﻟﻮﮔﻮﮞ ﮐﯽ ﻋﯿﺪ ﮐﺎ ﺩﻥ ﺗﮭﺎ۔ ﻭﮦ ﻟﻮﮒﺍﺱ ﺗﻼﺵ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﮭﮯ ﮐﮧ ﮐﺴﯽ ﺍﺟﻨﺒﯽ ﮐﻮ ﺍﭘﻨﮯﺑﺖ ﮐﮯﻟﯿﮯ ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﯽ ﮐﮯ ﻃﻮﺭ ﭘﺮ ﭘﯿﺶ ﮐﺮﯾﮟ۔ ﺍﭼﺎﻧﮏ ﺟﺐ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦﮐﻮ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺍﺳﮯ ﭘﮑﮍ ﮐﮯ ﻟﮯ ﺍٓﺋﮯ ﺗﺎﮐﮧ ﺫﺑﺢ ﮐﺮ ﮐﮯﺑﺖ ﮐﮯ ﻟﯿﮯ ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﯽ ﭘﯿﺶ ﮐﯽ ﺟﺎﺋﮯ۔ ﺍﭼﺎﻧﮏ ﮐﺴﯽ ﻧﮯ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ ﮐﮧ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﯽ ﺍﻧﮕﻠﯽ ﮐﭩﯽ ﮨﻮﺋﯽ ﮨﮯ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺟﺲﮐﯽ ﺍﻧﮕﻠﯽ ﮐﭩﯽ ﮨﻮ ﻭﮦ ﻣﻌﯿﻮﺏ ﮨﻮﺗﺎ ﮨﮯﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﺱ ﮐﯽﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﯽ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﮨﻮﺗﯽ۔ ﻟﮩﺬﺍ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﻮ ﭼﮭﻮﮌ ﺩﯾﺎ ﮔﯿﺎ۔ﺍﺱ ﻭﻗﺖ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﻮ ﺍﭘﻨﮯﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﮐﺎ ﺟﻤﻠﮧ ﯾﺎﺩ ﺍٓﮔﯿﺎ : ﺳﺐﮐﭽﮫ ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﻮﮔﺎ ﺍﻧﺸﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ۔ ﺷﮑﺎﺭ ﺳﮯ ﻭﺍﭘﺲ ﺍٓﮐﺮ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﮐﻮ ﺟﯿﻞ ﺳﮯﺍٓﺯﺍﺩ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﭘﻨﮯ ﭘﺎﺱ ﺑﻼﯾﺎ۔ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﭘﻨﯽ ﺳﺎﺭﯼ ﮐﮩﺎﻧﯽ ﺳﻨﺎﺋﯽ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﻋﺘﺮﺍﻑ ﮐﯿﺎ ﮐﮧ ﻭﺍﻗﻌﺎ ﺍﻧﮕﻠﯽ ﮐﺎ ﮐﭩﻨﺎ ﺍﺱ ﮐﮯﻟﯿﮯ ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ﻭﺭﻧﮧ ﺍﺱ ﮐﯽ ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﯽ ﮐﯽ ﺟﺎﺗﯽ۔ ﻟﯿﮑﻦ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﻭﺯﯾﺮﺳﮯ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺳﻮﺍﻝ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺎ : ﺟﺐ ﺗﻢ ﺟﯿﻞ ﺟﺎﺭﮨﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ ﺗﻮ ﺑﮭﯽ ﮐﮩﮧ ﺭﮨﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﻮﮔﺎ ﺍﻧﺸﺎﺀﺍﻟﻠﮧ۔ ﺟﯿﻞ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﻤﮩﺎﺭﮮ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺍﭼﮭﺎ ﮨﻮﺍ؟ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﻧﮯ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ ﺩﯾﺎ : ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍٓﭖ ﮐﺎ ﻭﺯﯾﺮ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﮨﻤﯿﺸﮧ ﺍٓﭖﮐﮯ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﮨﻮﺗﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ۔ ﺍﮔﺮ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺟﯿﻞ ﻧﮧ ﮔﯿﺎ ﮨﻮﺗﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺷﮑﺎﺭﮐﮯﺩﻥ ﺑﮭﯽ ﺍٓﭖ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﮨﯽ ﮨﻮﺗﺎ۔ ﺍﻭﺭ ﭼﻮﻧﮑﮧ ﻣﯿﺮﯼﺍﻧﮕﻠﯽ ﮐﭩﯽ ﮨﻮﺋﯽ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﺗﮭﯽ ﻭﮦ ﻟﻮﮒ ﺍٓﭖ ﮐﯽ ﺟﮕﮧ ﻣﺠﮭﮯﺍﭘﻨﮯ ﺑﺖ ﮐﮯ ﻟﯿﮯ ﻗﺮﺑﺎﻧﯽ ﭼﮍﮬﺎﺗﮯ۔ ﭘﺲ ﺟﯿﻞ ﺟﺎﻧﮯ ﮐﯽﻭﺟﮧ ﺳﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺑﭻ ﮔﯿﺎ۔ : ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽ ﮐﮯ ﮨﺮ ﮐﺎﻡ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻣﺼﻠﺤﺖﮨﻮﺗﯽ ﮨﮯ۔ ﮨﻤﯿﺸﮧ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽ ﭘﺮ ﺑﮭﺮﻭﺳﮧ ﮐﺮﻧﺎ ﭼﺎﮨﯿﮯ۔
  22. waqas dar

    Mai tumhain talaq dena chahta hun

    میں تمہیں طلاق دینا چاہتا ہوں میز پہ کھانا لگاتے ہوئے اسکا پورا دھیان پلیٹیں سجانے میں تھا اور میری آنکھیں اسکے چہرے پہ جمی تھیں۔ میں نے آہستگی سے اسکا ہاتھ تھاما تو وہ چونک سی گئی "میں تم سے ایک ضروری بات کرنا چاہتا ہوں" کافی ہمت جتانے کے بعد بلآخر میرے منہ سے نکلا وہ چپ چاپ کرسی پہ بیٹھ گئی، اسکی نگاہیں چاہے میز پہ مرکوز تھیں پر ان میں سے اٹھتا درد میں بخوبی محسوس کررہا تھا۔ ایک پل کے لیے میری زبان پہ تالہ سا لگ گیا پر جو میرے دماغ میں چل رہا تھا اسے بتانا بہت ضروری تھا۔ "میں تمہیں طلاق دینا چاہتا ہوں۔۔۔۔" میری آنکھیں جھک گئیں میری امید کے برعکس اس نے کسی قسم کی حیرانی یا پریشانی کا اظہار نہ کیا بس نرم لہجے میں اتنا پوچھا "کیوں۔۔۔۔۔؟" میں نے اسکا سوال نظرانداز کیا۔ اسے میرا یہ رویہ گراں گزرا۔ ہاتھ میں پکڑا چمچ فرش پہ پھینک کے وہ چلانے لگی اور یہ کہہ کے وہاں سے اٹھ گئی کہ "تم مرد نہیں ہو۔۔۔" رات بھر ہم دونوں نے ایک دوسرے سے بات نہیں کی۔ وہ روتی رہی۔ میں جانتا تھا کہ اسکے لیے یہ جاننا ضروری ہے کہ آخر ہماری شادی کو ہوا کیا ہے۔۔۔ میرے پاس اس کو دینے کے لیے کوئی تسلی بخش جواب نہیں تھا۔ اسے کیا بتاتا کہ میرے دل میں اسکی جگہ اب کسی اور نے لے لی ہے۔۔۔ اب اسکے لیے میرے پاس محبت باقی نہیں رہی۔ مجھے اس پہ ترس تو بہت آرہا تھا اور ایک پچھتاوا بھی تھا۔ پر اب میں جو فیصلہ کر چکا تھا اس پہ ڈٹے رہنا ضروری تھا۔ طلاق کے کاغذات عدالت میں جمع کرانے سے پہلے میں نے اس کی ایک کاپی اسے تھمائی جس پہ لکھا تھا کہ وہ طلاق کے بعد گھر، گاڑی اور میرے ذاتی کاروبار کے 30 فیصد کی مالکن بن سکتی ہے۔ اس نے ایک نظر کاغذات پہ دوڑائی اور اگلے ہی لمحے اسکے ٹکڑے کرکے زمین پہ پھینک دیے۔ جس عورت کے ساتھ میں نے اپنی زندگی کے دس سال بتائے تھے وہ ایک پل میں اجنبی ہوگئی۔ مجھے افسوس تھا کہ اس نے اپنے انمول جذبات اور قیمتی لمحے مجھ پہ ضائع کیے پر میں بھی کیا کرتا میرے دل میں کوئی اور اس حد تک گھر کر چکا تھا کہ اسے کھونے کا تصور ہی میرے لیے ناممکن تھا۔ بلآخر وہ ٹوٹ کے بکھری اور میرے سامنے ریزہ ریزہ ہوگئی۔ اسکی آنکھوں میں آنسوؤں کا سمندر امڈ آیا تھا۔ شائد یہی وہ چیز تھی جو اس طلاق کے بعد میں دیکھنا چاہتا تھا۔ اگلے روز پورا دن اپنی نئی محبت کے ساتھ بتا کے جب میں تھکا ہارا گھر پہنچا تو وہ میز پہ کاغذ پھیلائے کچھ لکھنے میں مصروف تھی۔ میں نے اس پہ کوئی دھیان نہ دیا اور جاتے ہی بستر پہ سو گیا۔ دیر رات جب میری آنکھ کھلی تو وہ تب بھی کچھ لکھ رہی تھی۔ اب بھی میں نے اس سے کوئی سوال نہیں کیا۔ صبح جب میں اٹھا تو اس نے طلاق کی کچھ شرائط میرے سامنے رکھ دیں۔ اسے میری دولت اور جائیداد میں سے کچھ نہیں چاہیے تھا۔ وہ بس ایک مہینہ مزید میرے ساتھ رہنا چاہتی تھی۔ اس ایک مہینے میں ہمیں اچھے میاں بیوی کی طرح رہنا تھا۔ اس شرط کی بہت بڑی وجہ ہمارا بیٹا تھا جسکے کچھ ہی دنوں میں امتحانات ہونیوالے تھے۔ والدین کی طلاق کا اسکی تعلیم پہ برا اثر نہ پڑے اس لیے میں اسکی یہ شرط ماننے کو بالکل تیار تھا۔ اسکی دوسری اور احمقانہ شرط یہ تھی کہ میں ہرصبح اسے اپنی باہوں میں اٹھا کے گھر کے دروازے تک چھوڑنے جاؤں۔ جیسا شادی کے ابتدائی دنوں میں مَیں کرتا تھا۔ وہ جب کام پہ باہر جانے لگتی تو میں خود اسے اپنی باہوں میں اٹھا کے دروازے تک چھوڑ آتا تھا۔ حالانکہ میں اسکی یہ بات ماننے کو تیار نہیں تھا لیکن ان آخری دنوں میں اسکا دل توڑنا مناسب نہیں لگ رہا تھا اس لیے میں نے یہ شرط بھی مان لی۔ اس کی ان شرائط کے بارے میں جب میں نے اپنی نئی محبت سے ذکر کیا تو وہ ہنس کے بولی "وہ چاہے جو بھی کرلے ایک نہ ایک دن طلاق تو اسے ہونی ہی ہے" میری بیوی اور میں نے اپنی طلاق کے معاملے سے متعلق کسی اور سے ذکر نہ کیا۔ شرط کے مطابق پہلے دن جب مجھے اسے اٹھا کے دروازے تک چھوڑنے جانا تھا تو وہ لمحات ہم دنوں کے لیے بے حد عجیب تھے۔ ہچکچاتے ہوئے میں نے اسے اٹھایا تو اس نے بھی اپنی آنکھیں بند کرلیں۔ اتنے میں تالیوں کی ایک گونج ہم دونوں کے کانوں میں پڑی "پاپا نے ممی کو اٹھایا ہوا ہے۔۔۔۔۔ ہاہاہا" ہمارا بیٹا خوشی میں جھوم رہا تھا۔ اسکے الفاظوں سے میرے دل میں ایک درد سا اٹھا اور میری بیوی کی کیفیت بھی لگ بھگ میرے جیسی تھی۔ "پلیز۔۔۔ ! اسے طلاق کے بارے میں کچھ مت بتانا" وہ آہستگی سے بولی میں نے جواباً سر ہلایا اسے دروازے تک چھوڑ کے بعد میں اپنے آفس کی طرف نکل پڑا اور وہ بس سٹاپ کی طرف چل دی۔ اگلی صبح اسے اٹھانا میرے لیے قدرے آسان تھا، اور اسکی ہچکچاہٹ میں بھی کمی تھی۔ اس نے اپنا سر میری چھاتی سے لگا لیا۔ ایک عرصے بعد اسکے جسم کی خوشبو میرے حواس سے ٹکرائی۔ میں بغور اسکا جائزہ لینے لگا۔ چہرے کی گہری جھریاں اور سر کے بالوں میں اتری چاندی اس بات کی گواہ تھیں کہ اس نے اس شادی میں بہت کچھ کھویا ہے۔ چار دن مزید گزرے، جب میں نے اسے باہوں میں بھر کے سینے سے لگایا تو ہمارے بیچ کی وہ قربت جو کہیں کھو سی گئی تھی واپس لوٹنے لگی۔ پھر ہر گزرتے دن کے ساتھ قربت کے وہ جذبات بڑھتے گئے۔ لمحے دنوں کو پَر لگا کے اڑا لے گئے اور مہینہ پورا ہوگیا۔ اس آخری صبح میں جانے کے لیے تیار ہورہا تھا اور وہ بیڈ پہ کپڑے پھیلائے اس پریشانی میں مبتلا تھی کے آج کونسا لباس پہنے۔ کیوں کہ پرانے سارے لباس اسکے نحیف جسم پہ کھلے ہونے لگے تھے۔ اس وقت مجھے اندازہ ہوا کہ وہ کتنی کمزور ہوگئی ہے۔ شائد اسی لیے میں اسے آسانی سے اٹھا لیتا تھا۔ اسکی آنکھوں میں امڈتے درد کو دیکھ کے نہ چاہتے ہوئے بھی میں اسکے پاس چلا آیا اور اسکے کندھے پہ ہاتھ رکھا۔ "پاپا۔۔۔ ! ممی کو باہر گھمانے لے جائیں۔۔۔۔ " ہمارے بیٹے کی آواز میرے کانوں میں پڑی۔ اسکے خیال میں اس پل یہ ضروری تھا کہ میں کسی طرح اسکی ماں کا دل بہلاؤں۔ میری بیوی بیٹے کی طرف مڑی اور اسے سینے سے لگا لیا۔ یہ لمحہ مجھے کمزور نہ کردے یہ سوچ کے میں نے اپنا رخ موڑ لیا۔ آخری بار میں نے اسے اپنی باہوں میں اٹھایا اس نے بھی اپنے بازو میری گردن کے گرد حائل کردیے۔ میں نے اسے مظبوطی سے تھام لیا۔ میری آنکھوں کے سامنے شادی کا وہ دن گردش کرنے لگا جب پہلی بار میں اسے ایسے ہی اٹھا کے اپنے گھر لایا تھا اور وعدہ کیا تھا کہ مرتے دم تک ایسے ہی ہر روز اسے اپنے سینے سے لگا کے رکھوں گا۔ میرے قدم فرش سے شائد جم سے گئے تھے اسی لیے میں بامشکل دروازے تک پہنچا۔ اسے نیچے اتارتے ہوئے میں نے اسکے کان میں سرگوشی کی "شائد ہمارے درمیان قربت کی کمی تھی" وہ میری آنکھوں میں دیکھنے لگی اور میں اسے وہیں چھوڑ کے اپنی گاڑی کی طرف بڑھا۔ تیز رفتار گاڑی چلاتے ہوئے بار بار ایک خوف میرے دل میں گھر کررہا تھا کہ کہیں میں کمزور نہ پڑ جاؤں، اپنا فیصلہ بدل نہ دوں۔ میں نے اس گھر کے دروازے پہ بریک لگائی جہاں نئی منزل میرا انتظار کررہی تھی۔ دروازہ کھلا اور وہ مسکراتے ہوئے میرے سامنے آئی "مجھے معاف کردو۔ میں اپنی بیوی کو طلاق نہیں دے سکتا" میرے منہ سے نکلے یہ الفاظ اسکے لیے کسی دھماکے سے کم نہیں تھے۔ وہ میرے پاس آئی اور ماتھے پہ ہاتھ رکھ کے بولی "شائد تمہاری طبیعت ٹھیک نہیں ہے یا پھر تم مذاق کررہے ہو" "نہیں ۔۔۔ ! میں مذاق نہیں کررہا۔ شائد ہماری شادی شدہ زندگی بے رنگ ہوگئی ہے پر میرے دل میں اسکے لیے محبت اب بھی زندہ ہے۔ بس اتنا ہوا ہم ہر وہ چیز بھول گئے جو اس ساتھ کے لیے ضروری تھی۔ دیر سے سہی پر مجھے سب یاد آگیا ہے۔ اور ساتھ نبھانے کا وہ وعدہ بھی یاد ہے جو شادی کے پہلے دن میں نے اس سے کیا تھا" نئے ہر بندھن کو توڑ کے بعد میں پرانے بندھن کو دوبارہ جوڑنے کے لیے واپس لوٹا۔ میرے ہاتھ میں پھولوں کا ایک گلدستہ تھا جس میں موجود پرچی پہ لکھا تھا "میں ہر روز ایسے ہی تمہیں اپنی باہوں میں اٹھا کے دروازے تک چھوڑنے آؤں گا۔ صرف موت ہی مجھے ایسا کرنے سے روک سکتی ہے" میں اپنے گھر میں داخل ہوا اور دوڑتے ہوئے سیڑھیاں چڑھنے لگا۔ میرے پاس اپنے بیوی کو دینے کے لیے زندگی کا سب سے بڑا تحفہ تھا۔ میں جب اس سے چند لمحوں کی دوری پہ تھا تبھی زندگی کی ڈور اسکے ہاتھوں سے سرک گئی۔ کئی مہینوں تک کینسر کی بیماری سے لڑتے لڑتے وہ ہار چکی تھی۔ نہ اس نے کبھی اپنی تکلیف کا مجھ سے ذکر کیا اور نہ ہی مصروف زندگی نے مجھے اس سے پوچھنے کا موقع دیا۔ جب اسے میری سب سے زیادہ ضرورت تھی تب میں کسی اور کے دل میں اپنے لیے محبت کھوج رہا تھا۔ وہ جانتی تھی کے اسکے پاس زیادہ وقت نہیں ہے۔ کہیں ایسا نہ ہو کے اسکی موت سے قبل طلاق کا اثر ہمارے بیٹے کے دل میں میرے لیے نفرت کا بیج بو دے۔ اس لیے بیتے ایک مہینے میں اس نے بیٹے کے سامنے انتہائی محبت کرنیوالے شوہر کا میرا روپ نقش کردیا۔۔۔ جو حقیقی تو نہیں تھا پر دائمی ضرور بن گیا یہ کہانی ان لوگوں کے لیے ہے جو اپنے بے رنگ رشتوں میں رنگ بھرنے کی بجائے ان سے دور بھاگنے کی کوشش کرتے ہیں۔ کئی بار یہ سمجھنے میں ہم دیر کر دیتے ہیں کہ نئے رشتے قائم کرنا زیادہ صحیح ہے یا پھر پرانے رشتوں میں رنگ بھرے جائیں۔۔۔۔؟ اسکا فیصلہ آپکے ہاتھ میں ضرور ہے لیکن ایسا نہ ہو کہ آپ وقت پہ فیصلہ نہ کر سکیں اور اس تاخیر میں ہاتھ ہمیشہ ہمیشہ کے لیے خالی رہ جائیں۔ تو دیر مت کیجئے۔ .....اپنی رائے ضررو دیجئے گا منقول
  23. ﺟﻨﺎﺏ ﺩﺍﺋﻮﺩ ﻃﺎﺋﯽ ﺭﺣﻤﺘﮧ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﺳﮯ ﻣﻨﺴﻮﺏ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺣﮑﺎﯾﺖ ﮨﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺍﻥ ﮐﮯ ﺷﮩﺮ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﯾﮏ ﻋﻮﺭﺕ ﺑﯿﻮﮦ ﮐﯿﺎ ﮨﻮﺋﯽ ﮐﮧ ﺍﺱ ﭘﺮ ﻣﺼﯿﺒﺘﻮﮞ ﮐﮯ ﭘﮩﺎﮌ ﭨﻮﭦ ﭘﮍﮮ۔ ﺑﭽﻮﮞ ﮐﺎ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﺍﻭﺭ ﮐﻞ ﺟﻤﻊ ﭘﻮﻧﺠﯽ ﺑﺲ ﺗﯿﻦ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ۔ ﺣﺎﻻﺕ ﺳﮯ ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻠﮧ ﮐﺮﻧﮯ ﮐﯽ ﭨﮭﺎﻧﯽ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺟﺎ ﮐﺮ ﺑﺎﺯﺍﺭ ﺳﮯ ﺍﻥ ﺗﯿﻦ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﮐﺎ ﺍﻭﻥ ﺧﺮﯾﺪ ﻻﺋﯽ، ﮐﭽﮫ ﭼﯿﺰﯾﮟ ﺑﻨﺎ ﮐﺮ ﻓﺮﻭﺧﺖ ﮐﯿﮟ ﺗﻮ ﭘﺎﻧﭻ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﻭﺻﻮﻝ ﭘﺎﺋﮯ۔ ﺩﻭ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﺳﮯ ﮐﮭﺎﻧﺎ ﭘﯿﻨﺎ ﺧﺮﯾﺪﺍ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺗﯿﻦ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﮐﺎ ﭘﮭﺮ ﺳﮯ ﺍﻭﻥ ﻟﯿﺘﯽ ﺁﺋﯽ۔ ﺍﺳﯽ ﻃﺮﺡ ﮐﭽﮫ ﺩﻥ ﮔﺰﺭ ﺑﺴﺮ ﮐﯿﺎ، ﺍﯾﮏ ﺩﻥ ﺑﺎﺯﺍﺭ ﺳﮯ ﮐﮭﺎﻧﺎ ﭘﯿﻨﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﻭﻥ ﻟﯿﮑﺮ ﮔﮭﺮ ﮐﻮ ﻟﻮﭨﯽ، ﺍﻭﻥ ﺭﮐﮫ ﮐﺮ ﺑﭽﻮﮞ ﮐﻮ ﮐﮭﺎﻧﺎ ﭘﯿﻨﺎ ﺩﯾﻨﮯ ﻟﮕﯽ ﮐﮧ ﺍﯾﮏ ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮦ ﮐﮩﯿﮟ ﺳﮯ ﺍﮌﺗﺎ ﮨﻮﺍ ﺁﯾﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﻭﻥ ﺍﭨﮭﺎ ﮐﺮ ﻟﮯ ﮔﯿﺎ۔ ﻋﻮﺭﺕ ﮐﯿﻠﺌﮯ ﺍﭘﻨﯽ ﮐﻞ ﮐﺎﺋﻨﺎﺕ ﮐﺎ ﯾﻮﮞ ﻟُﭧ ﺟﺎﻧﺎ ﺳﻮﮨﺎﻥ ﺭﻭﺡ ﺗﮭﺎ، ﻣﺴﺘﻘﺒﻞ ﮐﯽ ﮨﻮﻟﻨﺎﮐﯿﻮﮞ ﺳﮯ ﺧﻮﻓﺰﺩﮦ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻏﻢ ﻭ ﻏﺼﮯ ﺳﮯ ﭘﺎﮔﻞ ﺳﯽ ﮨﻮ ﮐﺮ ﺭﮦ ﮔﺌﯽ۔ ﺩﻭﺳﺮﮮ ﺩﻥ ﺳﯿﺪﮬﺎ ﺟﻨﺎﺏ ﺩﺍﺋﻮﺩ ﮐﮯ ﮔﮭﺮ ﮔﺌﯽ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍُﻥ ﮐﻮ ﺍﭘﻨﺎ ﻗﺼﮧ ﺳﻨﺎ ﮐﺮ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺳﻮﺍﻝ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺎ ﮐﯿﺎ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﺍ ﺭﺏ ﺭﺣﻤﺪﻝ ﮨﮯ ﯾﺎ ﻇﺎﻟﻢ؟ ﺟﻨﺎﺏ ﺩﺍﺋﻮﺩ ﻃﺎﺋﯽ ﻋﻮﺭﺕ ﮐﯽ ﺩﺭﺩ ﺑﮭﺮﯼ ﮐﮩﺎﻧﯽ ﺳﻦ ﮐﺮﭘﺮﯾﺸﺎﻧﯽ ﮐﮯ ﻋﺎﻟﻢ ﻣﯿﮟ ﮐﻮﺋﯽ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ ﺩﯾﻨﺎ ﮨﯽ ﭼﺎﮨﺘﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺩﺭﻭﺍﺯﮮ ﭘﺮ ﺩﺳﺘﮏ ﮨﻮﺋﯽ، ﺟﺎ ﮐﺮ ﺩﯾﮑﮭﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺩﺱ ﺍﺟﻨﺒﯽ ﺍﺷﺨﺎﺹ ﮐﻮ ﮐﮭﮍﮮ ﮨﻮﺋﮯ ﭘﺎﯾﺎ۔ ﺍُﻥ ﺳﮯ ﺁﻣﺪ ﮐﺎ ﻣﻘﺼﺪ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻣﺎﺟﺮﺍ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺍﻧﮩﻮﮞ ﻧﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ؛ ﺣﻀﺮﺕ ﮨﻢ ﺳﻤﻨﺪﺭ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺳﻔﺮ ﮐﺮ ﺭﮨﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ ﮐﮧ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﯼ ﮐﺸﺘﯽ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺳﻮﺭﺍﺥ ﮨﻮﮔﯿﺎ۔ ﭘﺎﻧﯽ ﺍﺱ ﺗﯿﺰﯼ ﺳﮯ ﺑﮭﺮ ﺭﮨﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ﮐﮧ ﮨﻤﯿﮟ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﯼ ﻣﻮﺕ ﺻﺎﻑ ﻧﻈﺮ ﺁ ﮔﺌﯽ۔ ﻣﺼﯿﺒﺖ ﮐﯽ ﺍﺱ ﮔﮭﮍﯼ ﻣﯿﮟ، ﮨﻢ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺳﮯ ﮨﺮ ﺷﺨﺺ ﻧﮯ ﻋﮩﺪ ﮐﯿﺎ ﮐﮧ ﺍﮔﺮ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﭘﺎﮎ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﯼ ﺟﺎﻥ ﺑﭽﺎ ﺩﯾﺘﮯ ﮨﯿﮟ ﺗﻮ ﮨﻢ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺳﮯ ﮨﺮ ﺁﺩﻣﯽ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺍﯾﮏ ﮨﺰﺍﺭ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﺻﺪﻗﮧ ﺩﮮ ﮔﺎ۔ ﺍﺑﮭﯽ ﮨﻢ ﯾﮧ ﺩُﻋﺎ ﮐﺮ ﮨﯽ ﺭﮨﮯ ﺗﮭﮯ ﮐﮧ ﺍﯾﮏ ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮮ ﻧﮯ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﯼ ﮐﺸﺘﯽ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﻭﻥ ﮐﺎ ﺍﯾﮏ ﮔﻮﻻ ﻻ ﮐﺮ ﭘﮭﯿﻨﮏ ﺩﯾﺎ۔ ﺟﺴﮯ ﮨﻢ ﻧﮯ ﻓﻮﺭﺍً ﺳﻮﺭﺍﺥ ﻣﯿﮟ ﭘﮭﻨﺴﺎﯾﺎ، ﮐﺸﺘﯽ ﮐﻮ ﭘﺎﻧﯽ ﺳﮯ ﺧﺎﻟﯽ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺳﯿﺪﮬﮯ ﯾﮩﺎﮞ ﻧﺰﺩﯾﮏ ﺗﺮﯾﻦ ﺳﺎﺣﻞ ﭘﺮ ﺁ ﭘﮩﻨﭽﮯ۔ ﮨﻢ ﮐﯿﻮﻧﮑﮧ ﯾﮩﺎﮞ ﮐﯿﻠﺌﮯ ﺍﺟﻨﺒﯽ ﺗﮭﮯ ﺍﺱ ﻟﯿﺌﮯ ﻟﻮﮔﻮﮞ ﺳﮯ ﮐﺴﯽ ﻣﻌﺘﺒﺮ ﺁﺩﻣﯽ ﮐﺎ ﻧﺎﻡ ﭘﻮﭼﮭﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﻧﮩﻮﮞ ﻧﮯ ﮨﻤﯿﮟ ﺳﯿﺪﮬﺎ ﺁﭖ ﮐﮯ ﭘﺎﺱ ﺑﮭﯿﺞ ﺩﯾﺎ ﮨﮯ۔ ﯾﮧ ﻟﯿﺠﯿﺌﮯ ﺩﺱ ﮨﺰﺍﺭ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﺍﻭﺭ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﯼ ﻃﺮﻑ ﺳﮯ ﻣﺴﺘﺤﻘﯿﻦ ﮐﻮ ﺩﮮ ﺩﯾﺠﯿﺌﮯ۔ ﺩﺍﺋﻮﺩ ﻃﺎﺋﯽ ﺭﺣﻤﺘﮧ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﺩﺱ ﮨﺰﺍﺭ ﺩﺭﮨﻢ ﻟﯿﮑﺮ ﺳﯿﺪﮬﺎ ﺍﻧﺪﺭ ﺍُﺱ ﻋﻮﺭﺕ ﮐﮯ ﭘﺎﺱ ﮔﺌﮯ۔ ﺳﺎﺭﮮ ﭘﯿﺴﮯ ﺍُﺳﮯ ﺩﯾﺘﮯ ﮨﻮﺋﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ؛ ﺍﺏ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﻢ ﺳﮯ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺳﻮﺍﻝ ﮐﺮﻧﺎ ﭼﺎﮨﺘﺎ ﮨﻮﮞ ﮐﮧ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺗﯿﺮﺍ ﺭﺏ ﺭﺣﻤﺪﻝ ﮨﮯ ﯾﺎ ﻇﺎﻟﻢ؟ ‏( ﺭﺳﺒﺤﺎﻥ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ! ﺑﮯﺷﮏ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﺍﭘﻨﮯ ﺑﻨﺪﻭﮞ ﺳﮯ ﺳﺘﺮ ﻣﺎﺋﻮﮞ ﺳﮯ ﺑﻬﯽ ﺯﯾﺎﺩﮦ ﭘﯿﺎﺭ ﮐﺮﺗﺎ ﮨﮯ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻭﮨﯽ ﮨﮯ ﺟﻮ ﺑﺮﮮ ﺣﺎﻻﺕ ﻣﯿﮟ ﮨﻤﺎﺭﺍ ﺳﺐ ﺳﮯ ﺑﮩﺘﺮﯾﻦ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﮨﮯ
  24. waqas dar

    Story of love

    Once upon a time all feelings and emotions went to a coastal island for a vacation.According to their nature, Each was having a good time. Suddenly a warning of an impending storm was announced and everyone was advised to evacuate the island... The announcement caused sudden panic ...All rushed to their boats Yet love did not wish to flee quickly..there was so much to do . But as the clouds darkened, Love realises it was time to leave. Alas!! There was no boats to spare.,,,, Love looked around with hope.. Just then prosperity passed by in a luxurious boat. Love shouted,,, ''Prosperity'' could you please take me in ur boat??? Prosperity replied... No..my boat is full of precious possessions,gold ( gold fish nh ) and silver. There is no place for u. Sorrow passed by after some time...Again love asked for help.. but is was to no avail... ''No, I can not take u with me. I am so sad. I want to be by myself.'' When happiness passed by a few minutes later..Love again called for help. But happiness was so happy that it didn't look around,, hardly concerned about everyone. Love was growing restless and dejected ( phr v aram nh lga jnab nu)..... Just then somebody called out..''Come love, I will take you with me'' Becare ko smjh hi nh ai kon pagal itna rehmdil hy :D..becara thokrain khany k bad beth gaya boat men ... On getting off the boat,,Love met knowledge. Puzzled love inquired,,, '' knowledge,,do u knw who so generously gave me a lift just when no one else wished to help.???'' Knowledge smiled.. ''Oh ,that was time" '' And why would time stop to pick me and take me to safety??'''..love wondered. Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and replied. ''Bcz only time knws ur true greatness and what u r capable of. Only love can bring peace and great happiness in the world'' The important message is that when we r prosperous, we over look love. When we feel important, we forget love. Even in happiness and sorrow we forget love. Only with time do we realize the importance of love. Why wait that long..??? Why not make love a part of ur life today..????
  25. ﺍﯾﮏ ﻧﯿﮏ ﺩﻝ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻋﻮﺍﻡ ﺳﮯ ﺗﻨﮓ ﺁ ﮔﯿﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺍﻭﺭﺍﯾﮏ ﺩﻥ ﺍﭘﻨﯽ ﺳﻠﻄﻨﺖ ﮐﻮ ﭼﮭﻮﮌ ﮐﺮ ﺟﺎﻧﮯ ﻟﮕﺎ، ﻭﺯﯾﺮﺳﮯ ﺑﻮﻻ ﺗﻢ ﺟﺎﻧﻮ ﺍﻭﺭﯾﮧ ﻋﻮﺍﻡ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺟﺎ ﺭﮨﺎ ﮨﻮﮞ.....ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﺍﺱ ﺳﻠﻄﻨﺖ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺟﮭﺎﮌ ﭘﻮﻧﭽﮫﮐﺮﻧﮯ ﻭﺍﻻ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﮭﯽ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﮨﻮﻟﯿﺎ، ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺳﮯ ﺑﻮﻻ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺗﻮ ﭘﺘﺎ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﮐﮩﺎﮞ ﮐﮩﺎﮞﺩﮬﮑﮯ ﮐﮭﺎﺅﮞ ﮔﺎ ﺗﻢ ﮐﯿﻮﮞ ﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﮨﻮ ﻟﺌﮯ ﮨﻮ؟"ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﻮﻻ: ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺳﻼﻣﺖ ! ﺁﭖ ﺳﻠﻄﻨﺖﮐﮯﻣﺎﻟﮏ ﺗﮭﮯ ﺗﻮ ﺧﺪﻣﺖ ﮐﯽ ﺁﮔﮯ ﺑﮭﯽ ﺟﺐ ﺗﮏﺳﺎﻧﺲ ﺭﮨﯽ ﺧﺪﻣﺖ ﮐﺮﻭﮞ ﮔﺎ"... ﺍﻟﻐﺮﺽ ﺩﻭﻧﻮﮞﭼﻠﺘﮯ ﭼﻠﺘﮯ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺩﻭﺳﺮﮮ ﻣﻠﮏ ﭘﮩﻨﭽﮯ ﺟﮩﺎﮞ ﮐﺎﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻭﻓﺎﺕ ﭘﺎ ﭼﮑﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻧﺌﮯ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﺎ ﭼﻨﺎﺅ ﮨﻮﻧﺎﺗﮭﺎ ﺟﺲ ﮐﺎ ﻃﺮﯾﻘﮧ ﮐﺎ ﯾﮧ ﺗﮭﺎ ﮐﮧ ﻣﻠﮏ ﮐﯽ ﺳﺎﺭﯼﻋﻮﺍﻡ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺑﮩﺖ ﺑﮍﮮ ﮔﺮﺍﺅﻧﮉ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺟﻤﻊ ﮨﻮ ﺟﺎﺗﯽ ﺍﻭﺭﺍﯾﮏ ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮦ ﺍﮌﺍ ﺩﯾﺎ ﺟﺎﺗﺎ.. ﯾﮧ ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮦ ﺟﺲ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺮ ﭘﺮﺑﯿﭩﮫ ﺟﺎﺗﺎ ﻭﮨﯽ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺑﻦ ﺟﺎﺗﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ" ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺳﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ,, " :ﭼﻠﻮ ﮨﻢ ﺑﮭﯽ ﯾﮧ ﺗﻤﺎﺷﮧﺩﯾﮑﮭﺘﮯﮨﯿﮟ ﮐﮧ ﮐﻮﻥ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺑﻨﺘﺎ ﮨﮯ"- ﺍﻟﻐﺮﺽ ﻭﮦ ﺩﻭﻧﻮﮞﺑﮭﯽ ﻣﺠﻤﻊ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺷﺎﻣﻞ ﮨﻮﮔﺌﮯ، ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮦ ﺍﮌﺍﯾﺎﮔﯿﺎ، ﮔﺮﺍﺅﻧﮉ ﮐﺎ ﭼﮑﺮ ﻟﮕﺎﻧﮯ ﮐﮯ ﺑﻌﺪ ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮦ ﺍﺱ ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏﮐﮯ ﺳﺮ ﭘﺮ ﺁ ﺑﯿﭩﮭﺎ، ﺍﺱ ﻣﻠﮏ ﮐﯽ ﻋﻮﺍﻡ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻭﺯﺭﺍﺀ ﻧﮯﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺮ ﭘﺮ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮨﺖ ﮐﺎ ﺗﺎﺝ ﺭﮐﮫ ﺩﯾﺎ،ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺟﺲ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﺁﯾﺎ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺍﺱ ﺳﮯﺑﻮﻻ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺳﻼﻣﺖ ﺁﭖ ﺑﮭﯽ ﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﺳﮑﻮﻥﺳﮯ ﻣﺤﻞ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺭﮨﯿﮟ، ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﺑﻮﻻ ﻧﮩﯿﮟ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮨﺖﻭﺍﻟﯽ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﯽ ﺳﮯ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺍﮐﺘﺎ ﭼﮑﺎ ﮨﻮﮞ ﺑﺲ ﻣﯿﮟ ﻣﺤﻞﺳﮯ ﺑﺎﮨﺮ ﺍﯾﮏ ﺟﮭﻮﻧﭙﮍﮮ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺭﮦ ﻟﻮﮞ ﮔﺎ، ﺗﻮﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﻮﻻ ﭨﮭﯿﮏ ﮨﮯ ﺩﻥ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮨﺖﮐﺮﻭﮞ ﮔﺎﺍﻭﺭ ﺭﺍﺕ ﮐﻮ ﺁﭖ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺎﺗﮫ ﺭﮨﻮﮞ ﮔﺎ، ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﮐﯽﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮨﺖ ﮐﺎ ﭘﮩﻼ ﺩﻥ ﺗﮭﺎ،ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭ ﻟﮕﺎ ﮨﻮﺍ ﺗﮭﺎ،ﺍﺗﻨﮯ ﻣﯿﮟﺍﯾﮏ ﻓﺮﯾﺎﺩﯼ ﺁﯾﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﮐﮩﺎ ":ﻓﻼﮞ ﺑﻨﺪﮮ ﻧﮯ ﻣﯿﺮﯼﭼﻮﺭﯼ ﮐﯽ"... ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﮐﮩﺎﮞ ﻓﻮﺭﺍ"ﭼﻮﺭﯼ ﮐﺮﻧﮯ ﻭﺍﻟﮯ ﮐﻮ ﺣﺎﺿﺮ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺟﺎﺋﮯ ، ﺟﺐ ﻣﻄﻠﻮﺑﮧﺑﻨﺪﮦ ﺁﯾﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﺣﮑﻢ ﺩﯾﺎﮐﮧ ﭼﻮﺭ ﺍﻭﺭﺟﺲ ﮐﯽ ﭼﻮﺭﯼ ﮨﻮﺋﯽ ﮨﮯ ﺩﻭﻧﻮﮞ ﮐﻮ 20,20 ﮐﻮﮌﮮﻣﺎﺭﮮ ﺟﺎﺋﯿﮟ" ....ﺳﺐ ﺣﯿﺮﺍﻥ ﮨﻮﺋﮯ ﮐﮯ ﯾﮧﺳﺐ ﮐﯿﺎ ﮨﻮﺭﮨﺎ ﮨﮯﻟﯿﮑﻦ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﺎ ﺣﮑﻢ ﺗﮭﺎ". ﺗﮭﻮﮌﯼ ﺩﯾﺮ ﺑﻌﺪﺍﯾﮏ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻓﺮﯾﺎﺩﯼ ﺁﯾﺎ ﺍﻭﺭ ﺑﻮﻻ ﻓﻼﮞ ﺷﺨﺺﻧﮯ ﻣﺠﮭﮯﻣﺎﺭﺍ ﮨﮯ ﺗﻮ ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﭘﮭﺮ ﻭﮨﯽ ﺣﮑﻢ ﺩﯾﺎ ﮐﮧﻇﺎﻟﻢ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻣﻈﻠﻮﻡ ﺩﻭﻧﻮﮞ ﮐﻮ 20,20 ﮐﻮﮌﮮﻣﺎﺭﮮﺟﺎﺋﯿﮟ.... ﺍﻟﻐﺮﺽ ﺩﻥ ﻣﯿﮟ ﺟﺘﻨﯽ ﻓﺮﯾﺎﺩﯾﮟ ﺁﺋﯽ ﺍﺱﻧﮯ ﻇﺎﻟﻢ ﺍﻭﺭ ﻣﻈﻠﻮﻡ ﺩﻭﻧﻮﮞ ﮐﻮ ﮐﻮﮌﮮ ﻣﺎﺭﻧﮯ ﻛﺎﺣﻜﻢ ﺩﻳﺎ.... ﺭﺍﺕ ﮐﻮ ﺟﺐ ﻭﮦ ﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﯽﺟﮭﻮﻧﭙﮍﯼ ﻣﯿﮟ ﭘﮩﻨﭽﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﻧﮯ ﮐﮩﺎ":ﺍﻭ ﺑﮭﺎﺋﯽﯾﮧ ﺳﺐ ﮐﯿﺎ ﺗﻤﺎﺷﮧ ﺗﮭﺎ ﺗﻢ ﻧﮯ ﺳﺐ ﮐﻮ ﭘﭩﻮﺍ ﺩﯾﺎ ، ﻟﻮﮒﮐﮩﮧ ﺭﮨﮯ ﮨﯿﮟ ﮐﮧ ﺑﮩﺖ ﻇﺎﻟﻢ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮨﮯ"- ﺗﻮ ﻭﮦﺧﺎﮐﺮﻭﺏ ﺑﻮﻻ":ﻋﺎﻟﯽ ﺟﺎﮦ ﺍﮔﺮ ﺍﺱ ﻗﻮﻡ ﮐﻮﺍﯾﮏ ﻧﯿﮏﺍﻭﺭ ﺍﭼﮭﮯ ﺑﺎﺩﺷﺎﮦ ﮐﯽ ﺿﺮﻭﺭﺕ ﮨﻮﺗﯽ ﺗﻮ ﻭﮦ ﭘﺮﻧﺪﮦﻣﯿﺮﮮ ﺳﺮ ﭘﺮ ﺑﯿﭩﮭﻨﮯ ﮐﯽ ﺑﺠﺎﺋﮯ ﺁﭖ ﮐﮯ ﺳﺮ ﭘﮯﺑﯿﭩﮭﺘﺎ"- ﯾﮧ ﺟﯿﺴﯽ ﻗﻮﻡ ﮨﮯ ﺍﺳﮑﻮ ﻭﯾﺴﺎ ﮨﯽﺣﮑﻤﺮﺍﻥ ﻣﻼ ﮨﮯ ! ....ﮐﭽﮫ ﻗﻮﻣﯿﮟ ﻭﺍﻗﻌﯽ ﺟﻮﺗﻮﮞ ﮐﮯﻗﺎﺑﻞ ﮨﻮﺗﯽ ﮨﯿﮟ