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ADMIN posted a blog entry in FDF Online NewsAfter making an indelible mark in South, Rakul Preet Singh is now all set to conquer Bollwyood. Her recent film, 'De De Pyaar De', has hit the screens today and positive reviews have already started to pour in. In the trailer, you would see Rakul play the role of Ayesha who is in love with a 50-year-old man. The actor believes in what Aristotle said: "Art is an imitation of life". According to her, the movie is trying to normalise something that is already very normal. MensXP got a chance to meet Rakul while she was promoting the film in the capital city and we tried to know her understanding of the modern-era relationships and much more. We asked her that after the trailer was launched, people found the idea of a 26-year-old Ayesha dating an older man very progressive. On this, she told us, "I think that was something I liked about the script. They are normalising something which is already very normal. Films always resonate what's happening around and the times that you are in. We see so many successful relationships around with a considerable age gap. The film puts everything together so beautifully that makes it for a good watch and the emotional curve that the characters go through in the film will make people think about it." View this post on Instagram Mukhda Vekh Ke Out Tomorrow! Stay Tuned.. @ajaydevgn @tabutiful #AkivAli @dedepyaarde @mikasingh @dhvanibhanushali22 @manjmusik @boscomartis @tseries.official @luv_films #BhushanKumar #LuvRanjan @gargankur82 A post shared by Rakul Singh (@rakulpreet) on May 9, 2019 at 2:30am PDT But, then there were some Twitter users who called it misogynistic and sexist. There was sort of an opinion that the trailer is nothing but two women vying for a man's attention and it disrespects women who are middle-aged. When we talked to Rakul about such comments, she told us, "Twitter is the easiest platform where people can say anything. Yes, both the female characters are very strong and I believe every character is justified to why they think the way they do. If I am 26, I think in a certain way. Everyone has the reason to act the way they do. Ajay's character is 50 and he has his own thought process and then, his ex-wife played by Tabu has her own way of handling situations." Rakul believes somewhere De De Pyaar De's success and working with stellar actors like Ajay Devgn and Tabu will help her make a stronghold in Bollywood. Did she ever feel intimidated or overshadowed by two experienced actors? Well, then the answer is NO. Stating her point, Rakul said, "Yes, they are absolutely stellar actors. I remember when Luv sir (Luv Ranjan) narrated the script to me, he told me 'if I agree to do this role people would notice me with these two stellar actors, it would be an achievement of sorts and I was like I really want to me'. This is overwhelming how people have noticed my character Ayesha and the lines I said in the trailer. There were memes on Twitter. So, I am really excited to see how things have shaped up and I never felt that I was working with two big stars. They have been extremely welcoming. It wasn't that I was intimidated but on the first day, I did think of how will I break the ice. I, of course, can't go and say, 'Hi Ajay, Wassup'. I could do that to a Sid but not to Ajay sir. But, to my surprise, he didn't make me feel like a newcomer and it all went smooth. They are very easy people to work with and that helped bring out my best performance on the screen." View this post on Instagram Shakal Se Shaadi Shuda.. Aur Harkaton Se Divorcee! ð @ajaydevgn @tabutiful #AkivAli @dedepyaarde @tseries.official @luv_films #BhushanKumar #LuvRanjan @gargankur82 A post shared by Rakul Singh (@rakulpreet) on May 8, 2019 at 11:59pm PDT The movie is about relationships and how certain dynamics can change your perception of looking at them. In the film, Rakul is seen dating someone who is way too mature than her. So what are the qualities in a man that attracts Rakul in real life? Let us tell you that she is pretty much single. "My list used to be really long and now that I have been single forever, my list is really short. I need the guy to be taller than 6 ft if I wear heels, he stills need to be taller than me because I can't look down on him. It's just my thing that I have to look up to him. The next thing is that he should have some wit and he should be able to strike a conversation. Good sense of humor doesn't kill and the top floor should be functional (laughs). He should have some passion and a drive to life. He should be able to identify who he is. When he himself is aware of who he is, he would be able to value the people around him. For me, just the good looks won't ever be the criteria. He should be the one who can engage me with his conversation for hours," Rakul told us with a smile on her face. View this post on Instagram â¤ï¸â¤ï¸ @dedepyaarde promotions for #kapilsharmashow in @papadontpreachbyshubhika Earrings @azotiique Shoes @charleskeithofficial Makeup @ajayvrao721 Hair @aliyashaik28 Photographer @venurasuri Styling : @tanghavri @nidhijeswani A post shared by Rakul Singh (@rakulpreet) on May 3, 2019 at 11:50pm PDT We stay in an age where social media is dominating us and somewhere, the whole idea of a true relationship has become a passe. We asked Rakul if she believes that loyalty and commitment are two solid grounds in a relationship. Answering to our query, she said, "Every relationship has a different dynamic that they follow and I feel I am someone who totally believes in love and this is probably the reason I am single. I feel that in today's time people have misused the term love so much. I think love is misunderstood to be holding on to someone. These days people have become control-freak and it's all zeroed down to posting pictures and telling the world who my boyfriend or girlfriend is. It has made everything so fake and somewhere, the real meaning of love is lost. For me, as Rakul I believe in love. It takes away your stress and when at the end of the day when you go back to the man of your life, he would be my comfort zone." In the end, we asked her what would viewers expect out of the movie and her character. "They can expect a good family entertainer. They have seen me like this and through this film, I think people would see my different shade," Rakul said and signed off. 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ADMIN posted a blog entry in FDF Online NewsIf you're already sealing your future right now, I am sure you've decided what you really want. It's rather simple to foresee something but a tad difficult to live by the facts of it. What I mean is, if you're building your future, you obviously want financial security, a family, a good house and everything else that adult life needs for you to sustain and be happy all at once. But apart from all that, there are a few things that need vital attention more than anything else. There are certain parameters you should cross while deciding a future and it's okay to delve into them from time to time. © Twitter If having kids is on your agenda, then you already know how many you'd like to have and what kind of value system you'd instil within them. But the most crucial thing to think about is what kind of a father will you be. Being a father is the most important role you can ever don and if you're certain of being a father and raising good kids, then you have to be sure about the qualities you possess to make you someone your kids look up to. Here are 3 main qualities every man should have to be a good father: (1) He Is Protective While the sense of protection for the next of kin is innate, it's a quality not all men possess. Being protective is, of course, inherited with the association you have with people. Most men are very protective of their friends, especially women friends. Not because they like them but because they treat them as someone they need to protect. It's not just women but he takes care of everyone he is close to and that is one quality that transcends and reflects in his association with his kids. He will always set boundaries for them and protect them from anything and everything. © Pintrest (2) He Is Trustworthy That may sound ambiguous but most men, you can trust with your eyes closed, make for good fathers. That's because he will never turn his back on anyone, especially family, when in time of need. If you're the kind of guy who has stuck through the toughest times and been there for your friends and family, then be assured you'll do the same with your future family too. © Pintrest (3) He Is Patient & Encouraging If you've always been a source of encouragement for your friends and family, at any given point in time, you're definitely going to do the same for your kids too. Be it a football match or a test of some form, you'll always be there encouraging them and that's what children need the most. Apart from encouragement, children also need a lot of patience. There are very few men who're good listeners and are patient at the same time. If you spend time listening to someone's problems and give them advice patiently, you're already on your way to becoming a good dad. © Pintrest Apart from these three qualities, of course, men have to be sensitive enough to perceive a child's mind and also take steps to become an affluent teacher in their lives. So, if you're looking to become a good father, start fostering these qualities and try them out on your friends and family, because only if you have them now, you'll be able to impart them to your children in the future.
ADMIN posted a blog entry in FDF Online NewsWhen it comes to dating, most men need all the help they can get. From getting the advice of a female friend on their dating profile to asking them to pick the best shirt for the date, men do whatever they can to impress the woman they really like. But sometimes, that's not enough. Sometimes, we need a little bit more, maybe some help on understanding the other person's likes, dislikes, and nature. Having that insight helps us not only in making our mind about them but also helps in making a lasting impression. Following are 3 such traits of each zodiac sign that would help you understand your date better: 1. Aries 1. Aries women are fierce, creative, intelligent, and independent. 2. They love spontaneity, pace, and are always in search for fun. They do stuff before they think. 3. They're easily bored and seek adventure. If you're faint hearted, stay away! 2. Taurus 1. Taurus women are practical, grounded, and realistic. 2. They're highly patient but won't compromise or settle for less. 3. They are conservative at first, seek stability, and not a fling sort of a person. 3. Gemini 1. Gemini women are smart, charming, and a good communicator. 2. They hate mundanity, are always up for fun, and have two extreme personalities. 3. Freedom and personal space are extremely important to them. It won't work if you're possessive and jealous kind. 4. Cancer 1. Cancer women are highly intuitive, emotional, and usually, have their guards up. 2. They're moody, private, and impatient. 3. They usually come out as needy and seek co-dependent relationships. 5. Leo 1. Leo women are the most self-centred of the lot! The world must revolve around them. 2. They're bold, aggressive, strong, and confident. 3. Good at making friends, their party never ends, and seek someone adventurous and energetic. Praise them right and they're all yours. 5. Virgo 1. Virgo women are loyal, kind, and practical. 2. They have to have a plan for everything and hate leaving things on chance. 3. They seek stability in life, and won't be up for wham-bam-thank-you-sam! 6. Libra 1. Libra women are quiet, independent, diplomatic, seek balance, and can carry a grudge. 2. They are in constant search of harmony. Charm and intelligence attract them the most. 3. They're always searching for deep and meaningful relationships. 7. Scorpio 1. Scorpio women are passionate but stubborn. They're quite a mystery to solve. 2. They are great friends, and you might get friend zoned as they take hell lot of a time to decide whether the guy is perfect for them. 3. They seek depth, respect, honesty. 8. Sagittarius 1. Sagittarius women are friendly, easy going, and have a very positive approach towards life. 2. They're hard to ignore, brutally honest, and don't like to get tied down. Freedom, travel, and philosophy is their thing. 3. They seek constant adventure and you better be full of energy if you want to keep up with them. 9. Capricorn 1. Capricorn women are responsible, disciplined, and refined. 2. They're a know-it-all, self-controlled, and distant women. 3. They seek loyalty, won't go for a fling. 10. Aquarius 1. Aquarius women are progressive, independent, and humanitarian. 2. They're great listeners and seek intellectual conversations. 3. They are shy, aloof, but you would have to be fun if you want to win their heart. 11. Pisces 1. Pisces women have a lot of friends, are selfless, and expressive. 2. They're emotional, empathic, and highly emotional. 3. They're as romantic as a fairy tale and you better be up for a Bollywood romance to woo them. Go, get her!
ADMIN posted a blog entry in FDF Online NewsIt's honestly a struggle for women to find a man who will fit into the bracket of being the perfect husband. Obviously, it works both ways but since we love writing for men, let us tell you that women, inevitably, when they start dating you, skim through your qualities so that you fit the relationship quotient. Apart from being charismatic, confident and good in bed, there are numerous other qualities you should possess to make a good husband to a woman who deserves your effort. (c)Getty Images Mostly, we all are under the misconception that women and men alike date partners that are different from the partners they chose when they want to get married. While it may be true in some cases, most cases, we believe, you'd want that constancy in your life of having to wake to the same person every day. So, if you're a man looking to finally plunge into the marriageable route, you need to be ready for that and have certain qualities that make women want to get married too, to gravitate towards you. Here are 5 essential qualities you should possess in order to make a good husband: (1) Be There For Her Even When It's Inconvenient For You Yes, I know you'd ask that why do you have to be there all the time and that you too have a life that's equally important. Some may even counter saying she likes her independence so why do you need to bend over backwards to do things for her. But you see, partnerships require compromise and sacrifice and you're not choosing to date her but spend your life with her. There are times when she may fall weak. Like when she's having a baby with you or when she's going through menopause. You can't leave her in these tough times and venture off thinking you have a life of your own. You have bigger responsibilities towards your partner now and it's good to start displaying them when you're in a relationship with her, in order for her to know, you'll be around through thick and thin. (c)Getty Images (2) You Have To Accept Her Flaws Maybe when you're dating someone you can count their flaws and tell them to make correctives. But if you're seriously considering spending your life with someone and hoping they see you the same way, then you need to accept their flaws and accept who and what they are. If you want to address them so the person knows a few things are unruly, then you should do that. But make sure you do it without making her feel guilty that she has flaws in the first place. She shouldn't be hiding her true self from you because she thinks you may not accept her. Make your acceptance of her as an important person in your life, from the start. (c)Getty Images (3) A Keen Sense of Responsibility Is Important You can be enamoured by her, profess all your love towards her but if you're not responsible, there is no way she's ever going to consider marrying you. She sees responsibility as an inevitable bargain between two people in a relationship. It gives her direction towards the future. If you show her you're a responsible human being, she will want to pursue the idea of you, in her future. For her, responsibility from you goes synonymously with nurturing and taking care of the children you may want to have, of the future you two hold and other important aspects in a marriage. So, it's time you pull up your socks and gather a sense of being responsible, not just for you, but for her too. (c)Getty Images (4) You Need To Be Open In Your Communication Communication can get tough sometimes when you need to open up about yourself, but in a relationship which is serious, that's something which should be involuntary. If you don't open up and communicate your hopes, fears and dreams then the relationship is quite superficial. Sometimes the best people move away because there isn't any communication between them. If you and she have trouble opening up about things and healthily communicating, maybe find ways to do so more effectively. Communication is the key to a good and harmonious relationship. (c)Getty Images (5) Infidelity Doesn't Make A Good Husband Men always tend to lean toward infidelity. There isn't an established reason for it yet, but somewhere down the line, cheating becomes inevitable. It's not blaming or something to pinpoint. It's a fact and if you think one woman is never enough for you, you probably need to either communicate that with your partner or move away. You can even see if you want to be in an open relationship/marriage with her, in case you do want her in your life but can't trust yourself enough. That way, you're honest to her about things. But make sure the decision to do that is mutual. Most marriages break because of infidelity and if you're someone who cheats, it's good to spell it out way before. (c)Getty Images Making these characteristic changes is not easy, I agree, but sometimes things need to be mended to make space for newer, better things. If you feel you're someone who can change to adapt and bring in a truer sense of companionship to your life, then try and make these changes and one day you will make a great husband to someone!