Are you one of the few single guys in your gang of friends who is always playing third wheel? Is your attempt at meeting women getting feeble by the day? That is because maybe you aren't meeting women where you're supposed to be meeting them. I bet you often wonder where all the women have gone. Well, they haven't gone too far, you're just looking for them in the wrong places!
Approaching women is an art which isn't too complicated to muster. You just need to be wise with your words and actions. But to approach women, you have to be in the right place, at the right time and these are a few places you can venture to meet women in the city.
Bars & Nightclubs (duh!)One of the best sharking venues, bars and nightclubs are prominent places to find your match. If you're a natural chick magnet, you will have no trouble scouting through and finding a perfect match for yourself at these places. The good thing about heading to a bar to accomplish the 'search' is the variety factor. You will meet women of all type and kind and if you're game is good enough, you will definitely hit it of well. Read more about how to approach women at bars here.
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WeddingThe second most probable place to find a mate is at a wedding. Indian weddings to be precise! Some of you may skip weddings because sometimes it's probably too much of an effort, especially when you're not too involved in one but there is a high probability of meeting gorgeous women at a wedding. There is always a flow of single women who are either friends of the bride or the groom or related to either one of them.
It isn't too difficult to approach woman at a wedding, if she's single. All you need to do is not get your inhibitions get the better of you and have a good conversation starter in hand. Of course alcohol helps too!
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Concerts & Music EventsThis is where you'll find a like-minded girl for yourself. Similar taste in music is a great conversation starter and if you both listen to the same music, there is nothing like it! Obviously there is a great disadvantage with the noise factor and you probably can't have a proper conversation but just the sheer fact that you both can sit or stand together and enjoy some great music is enough for the moment.
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Gym/Common Workout PlaceThis is another great place to meet someone like-minded. There is a great amount of advantage of meeting women at a common workout place. First of, women who work out ardently are way more dedicated in life, in whatever they do. Secondly, exercising releases happy endorphins for women. So she's already in her happy place. Approaching women at a gym or post a hectic Cross Fit session is the best idea.
Ps: don't be a perv and stare at her while she works out. Be a thorough gentleman before approaching her.
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Coffee ShopDo you have a favourite coffee shop you frequent often? Everyone likes to unwind with some coffee and a book at hand and if you spot someone regularly at your fav coffee joint then there is no harm in joining them. Maybe ask her if you can share the table with her (not in a creepy way) and if she says yes, give her a good reason as to why she should value your company!
This is another good place to meet women. Obviously it's a place of work so you can't be so outright about approaching her but if you do find someone interesting, you can strike up a conversation after her work is done. This is different from meeting a woman at a regular workplace. Here you might be working on completely different things and you don't have a slew of common people or a hierarchy, you have to be mindful of (unlike at a work place).
Just don't step on her toes if she doesn't seem interested.
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Office PartyOffice parties can't be classified as meeting new people (unless you're seeing women from other departments you haven't seen before) but it can sure as hell be a great ice-breaker if you've been crushing on someone hard. Just remember, if you do get into a relationship or start dating a co-worker, it will have its on risks. If you can manage the risks beautifully, then go for it! Read about some dos and don'ts about dating a co-worker here.
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VacationAnother great opportunity to run into someone who likes travelling as much as you do is meeting someone on your vacation or at another destination. You could either meet them on a trek, or even on a flight. The possibilities are unimaginable and it's quite exciting to meet a complete stranger on one of your adventures. If you meet someone you instantly click with, make sure you get all her contact deets and take it forward from there!
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There are many more places to meet like-minded and interesting women. Sometimes you tend to meet someone when you aren't even looking and sometimes you meet them when you've given up the search! Keep you eyes and ears open that's all we're saying!
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