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    With the Indian cricket team one week away from playing in the first-ever World Test Championships final against Kane Williamson's New Zealand squad, Mobile Premier League (MPL) - the official kit sponsor for the Men in Blue - launched a limited edition jersey as a celebration of team India’s journey so far.
    What’s so special about this jersey?This limited-edition jersey has been designed in celebration of Team India’s memorable journey to the upcoming historic final of the inaugural test championship in which Virat Kohli and Co. will fight to become the very first world champions in red-ball cricket. 
    It was crafted while working with SIX5SIX, a sports and streetwear company, to reimagine the traditional all-white test jersey. All around the kit, subtle and elegant touches like the gold detailing around the collar and shoulder can be seen, that complements the minimal aesthetic.  
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    These gold highlights represent a colour that is a universal symbol of victory and celebration — memorializes the victories clinched by the team and is also a nod to future successes. In all, it pays homage to Team India’s rich legacy, and its determination to win, while giving fans a chance to represent their squad and cheer them on.

    Highlights of the JerseyCrafted for style, comfort, and performance: The jersey is made with jacquard, a fabric seen in on-pitch cricket and football styles, for a premium look. 
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    Breathable feel: The soft, smooth fabric wicks sweat away to keep you feeling cool and dry. It also dries fast, helping to cut down on body odor for superior, distraction-free comfort, no matter where your day takes you.

    Supports full range of motion: It lets you move freely as the material has the right amount of strength and stretchability. 
    Long-lasting durability: The jersey features an abrasion-resistant material that retains its shape and colour for a durable style.  
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    Signature style: Modeled after on-pitch styles, the jersey is a fresh interpretation of the iconic all-white aesthetic with understated gold detailing. It features a polo collar for a retro feel. 

    Check out the limited-edition jersey and other official Indian cricket team merchandise here.
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    While Team India is finally out of their quarantine and has had a few days to get themselves familiarised with the playing conditions at the Ageas Bowl, Southampton, the Blackcaps will get on their way with the second and final Test against England from Saturday.


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    With the final of the inaugural World Test Championship approaching, the Indian players have upped their preparations for the mega clash. With no warm-up games scheduled for the side ahead of their all-important encounter, the players took on each other in an intra-squad match.
    As soon as the BCCI made the announcement of the intra-squad match, the level of excitement among fans reached a whole new level and they began searching for ways to find out every bit of detail about how their favourite superstars fared in the game.
    A good Day 1 at office for #TeamIndia at the intra-squad match simulation ahead of #WTC21 Final pic.twitter.com/TFb06126fr
    — BCCI (@BCCI) June 12, 2021
    The BCCI posted a video of all the important actions from Day 1 of the intra-squad match and the fans couldn’t keep calm, especially with the performance of Rishabh Pant, who lit up the atmosphere with his fierce batting. 
    Pant, who had made headlines for hitting one-handed sixes during Team India’s first practice session, was at his fluent best and struck a fine half-century. Watching Pant dancing down the track and hitting the bowler over the top left fans speechless and they expressed how eagerly they were waiting for him to take the field against New Zealand and weave the same magic as he did Down Under earlier this year. 
    Rishabh Pant Ko batao koi Test hai 🤣 pic.twitter.com/ZT0HvXRSi9
    — Prasad Chavan (@PChavan73) June 12, 2021Be it a practice match, intra-squad match or actual game @RishabhPant17 always attack spinners.

    #WTC21 #WTCFinal pic.twitter.com/xal9qv7dTh
    — Aditya Saha (@adityakumar4800) June 12, 2021Rishabh pant supremacy pic.twitter.com/IXemQOQCXO
    — (@viratian18184) June 12, 2021Best part of the video..🤩#RishabPant #WTCFinal2021 pic.twitter.com/r5DbpksTPt
    — Rajesh (@rajeshkasakani) June 12, 2021Again Rishabh Pant hits it for six. Such an exciting player in the world.#RishabhPant pic.twitter.com/Y4QjkhlW3p
    — ABDULLAH NEAZ (@AbdullahNeaz) June 12, 2021So Rishabh Pant scored a half century
    — NewZealand se hoon - Trent Boult (@Kartike81031582) June 12, 2021 Apart from Pant, the fans were also excited about Indian skipper Virat Kohli and his solid strokeplay. They were equally curious about left-arm pacer Arzan Nagwaswalla who was picked in the squad as a standby player. 
    Arzan Nagwaswalla.
    Gujrat pacer.
    — Nrendra Rathore (@NrenRathore) June 12, 2021Arzan Nagwaswalla
    — Vighnesh Prabhu (@I_m_Vighnesh) June 12, 2021
    Virat Kohli and Co. will take on New Zealand in the WTC final, which begins on June 18 at Ageas Bowl stadium in Southampton. New Zealand players will go into the match with better match practice, having played a two-Test series against England. 
    Snapshots from the first session of our intra-squad match simulation here in Southampton.#TeamIndia pic.twitter.com/FjtKUghnDH
    — BCCI (@BCCI) June 11, 2021 As far as Indian team is concerned, this intra-squad game is all they have before the summit clash and they would look to make the most of the opportunity. Skipper Kohli, who is looking for his first ICC title as a captain, and head coach Ravi Shastri have a big task at hand of picking a playing XI which can challenge New Zealand for the title. 
    Excellent setting for an intra-squad match simulation here in Southampton. #TeamIndia pic.twitter.com/3DdgPp6dIj
    — BCCI (@BCCI) June 11, 2021
    While players like Cheteshwar Pujara, Rohit Sharma, Jasprit Bumrah and Rishabh Pant pick themselves automatically to start arguably the biggest game of their Test careers, there are some areas of concerns, like the bowling combination, that the management has to take a call and on whoever performs in the ongoing intra-squad will only strengthen his case for the title clash.

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    One of your favorite Bollywood movies could have turned out very differently had actress Aishwarya Rai Bachchan had a say in it.

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    We all remember the much-loved trio of Shah Rukh Khan, Kajol, and Rani Mukherjee as Rahul, Anjali, and Tina from the 1998 rom-com film, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai (KKHH) that made us all cry when we watched it for the first time.

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    The film, which was the directorial debut of Karan Johar, is remembered as one of the classic Bollywood Rom-coms that you watch on a Sunday while hogging on some ice cream and wishing if love stories indeed ended up like that.

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    Well folks, while KKHH was indeed a huge success along with other KJo movies like Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham..., it could have all been very different for one big reason.

    Apparently, for the role of Tina in the film, KJo had approached a host of stars, which included Aishwarya Rai Bachchan at the time.
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    However, Aish, who was just three movies old when she got the offer, turned it down out of the fear of being "lynched" by viewers.

    While speaking with Filmfare, the 47-year-old actress said, "I'm in a catch-22 situation, really. Though I'm a newcomer, I'm compared with all the senior actresses."
    "If I'd done the film, it would have been tittered that, 'Look, Aishwarya Rai is back to doing what she did in her modeling days—leaving her hair straight, wearing minis, and pouting glamorously into the camera.' Ultimately, the hero goes back to the more real person. I know if I'd done Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, I would have been lynched."
    Well, Aishwarya's loss was Rani's gain with filmmaker Aditya Chopra (now Rani's husband) recommending her for KJo's KKHH.
     "It took months to cast for Rani’s part after Aditya Chopra recommended me her name," revealed Karan, after an event.
    Well, the rest is history. We could have never imagined the main leads of KKHH to be any different as the movie is literally a Bollywood classic now.
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    Guess everything happens for a good reason. 


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    Sharib Hashmi’s mantra for aspiring actors is to start following their ambitions early in their life and not wait as he did. 

    We have now seen him as JK Talpade in The Family Man 2 and it’s not wrong to say that we can’t imagine the show without his character, because he has done a commendable job displaying his powerful acting skills and also adding humour to the show.
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    His journey has been a roller-coaster ride and he has dealt with many obstacles until he was finally able to make a mark. 

    From almost giving up his passion for acting to making JK a hit character on the show, Sharib has made a separate fan base altogether. 
    His journey started from the chawls in Mumbai and Sharib’s father ZA Johar was a noted film journalist. 
    His father wanted him to pursue acting after he finished his degree in Economics from Bhavan’s college.  
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    In an interview with Your Story, he said, “While my parents were of the impression that I am good-looking, I had no such delusions. Also, even for character roles, I felt my height would be a problem. I just naively gave up on my dream without pursuing it.” 
    He got his first job as an Assistant Director to Nabh Kumar Raju for the film Hum Tumpe Marte Hai in 1998. In the same interview, he shared his experience working with the stars of that era. 
    “It is something that taught me a lot about the art of filmmaking. I have no formal training in acting or direction, so I learn everything on the sets. And the first film I worked on had stellar actors like Govinda, Urmila Matondkar, Dimple Kapadia, and Paresh Rawal. For a film buff like me, it was a dream come true. I want to become a director.” 
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    He then went on to become a writer and wrote VJ links for MTV. He kept at it and it was in 2007 that he landed a role in Slumdog Millionaire. He then wanted to follow his passion for acting for real. He gave hundreds of auditions but was rejected in many, leaving him disheartened but he kept trying. 
    In an interview with Times Of India, he said, “When it comes to rejection, I have faced a lot of them, in fact, I have used these rejections as a motivating factor to work harder, fight back, and to become better each day. I always take these rejections very positively and it has helped me in becoming a better person and growing stronger in my craft.” 
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    When things didn’t work, he had to leave his passion and look for a job as he was married and also had a child. His wife was supporting him but he still had to have a job to keep the house running. He again tried his luck in films but things changed when he got to call from the casting director of Yash Raj Films - Shanoo Sharma.   
    After giving an audition for Jab Tak Hai Jaan, he got the role of Zain, and at the same time, he bagged a role in Filmistaan. He even won the Best Actor in a comic role, Screen Award for his role in Filmistaan. 
    Things changed for good for the actor and after this, he didn’t look back and went on to do many other roles. He finally landed the role of JK Talpade in The Family Man. He has been a part of both seasons and would be continuing with his character in the third season too. 
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    We wish only the best for the actor and we think his amazing journey actually has the potential to be documented as a film, such has been his struggle. 

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  21. ADMIN
    Ever got a pimple a couple days before a Tinder date or an important family event or a party? You are not the only unfortunate soul to have gone through the last-minute flare-ups. It mostly happens because of the stress that comes with the excitement of the event. However, it’s really annoying when your skin acts up right when you need to look your best.

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    What you do next is search quick solutions to get it out of the way but all you get is an extensive routine and a million products you should have started using 10 years ago. Let’s face it, nobody has time to apply dozens of products (who even has that many) or do a routine when you have an important occasion coming the next day. 

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    You can try popular internet hacks like applying toothpaste as a spot treatment but let me tell you, it only makes the situation worse and can even irritate or burn that spot on your face. What you should do is try natural, quick and easy spot treatments that are easily available at your home and are safe and really effective. Here are some such DIY spot treatments you can give a try.

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    Tea tree oilIt has anti-inflammatory and antibacterial properties which makes it potent to kill bacteria and heal the pimple faster. Take a couple drops on a cotton swab and apply on the spot and wash it off after a few hours. Or, you can dilute it with some other natural oil, apply it on the zits and leave it overnight.  
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    TurmericThe Indian spice is more than just a colour and flavour enhancer for the dishes. It is an excellent remedy for clear, acne-free skin. Packed with anti-bacterial and antifungal properties, turmeric can be used on the acne as a spot treatment. Add some honey or coconut oil to it and let it stay on the pimple for a few hours before scrubbing and washing it off. 
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    Aloe VeraAloe vera is a godsend for those with oily and acne prone skin. It zaps excess sebum which is the number one reason you get pimples. Plus, it leaves the skin hydrated. Apply fresh aloe vera gel (fresh or packed) on your pimple and cover it with a piece of tissue so it doesn’t smear while you sleep. Wash it in the morning. It will dry out the pus-filled pimple and reduce redness as well.
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    Neem oilNeem has been used for treatment for acne for years and it’s no surprise. It is an antimicrobial and antifungal ingredient that is known to give you spotless skin. You can use a neem paste made by grinding its leaves but if that’s too much trouble, try putting neem oil directly on the pimple. It works like a charm.
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    Green teaMake yourself a hot cup of tea by brewing some green tea leaves but instead of drinking it, apply it on your acne to get rid of them instantly. It is full of antioxidants and antibacterial properties that keep your skin glowing and clear. Dip a cotton pad in cooled down green tea and tap it on the spots. Leave as it is for the night and wash off in the morning. 
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    These can help reduce redness and size of the pimple overnight and take not more than five minutes to pull off. So trust them the next time you need a prompt solution for your pimple situation.


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    The way our parents envision our career is sometimes different from what we truly want to become.  
    In the case of many Bollywood stars as well, a lot of them were almost forced to steer clear of the glamorous world and pursue a whole other career.  
    However, these stars have become a huge name in the industry today, and we are glad they stuck with the decision of pursuing their dreams. 
    Here's are 6 celebrities who would have never become actors had they given in to their parents' demands:  
    1. Neha Dhupia  © Instagram/Neha Dhupia
    Neha started her career in the film fraternity with a Malayalam movie, named Minnaram. Aside from that, she was also the winner of the Miss India Pageant in 2002.  

    In an interview, she admitted that she is happy with her career and remembered the time when her father booked her ticket back to their hometown, saying ''I assume you would be back in three months. You want to be an IAS officer."  
    The rest is history! She ventured into Bollywood with Qayamat: City Under Threat. 
    2. Aamir Khan  © Instagram/Aamir Khan
    Aamir Khan is called the perfectionist of Bollywood. But turns out, his career goals were something else before he became an actor. 

    While he has entertained us in movies, his parents wanted him to pursue engineering. He revealed that his folks were against him joining the film industry, as they thought it was volatile.
    3. Irrfan Khan © Irrfan Khan
    The late actor Irrfan Khan, straddled a career both in Bollywood and Hollywood and gave some impeccable performances. 

    Even he had admitted in an interview that his folks never wanted him to venture into Bollywood and had asked him to join the family business. 
    He also added that they looked down upon cinema, hence he had to lie to become an actor.
    4. Pankaj Tripathi © Instagram/Pankaj Tripathi
    Actor Pankaj Tripathi has given some of the finest performances in Gangs Of Wassyepur and he also became an OTT star after his stint in Mirzapur. But did you know that his original plan wasn't to become an actor? 

    He said in an interview "I didn’t want to get into this field; I got interested in it only around when I was 22 or 23. “My father wanted me to become a doctor. The place where I hail from — a village in Gopalganj in North Bihar — people, only know two professions: an engineer or a doctor."
    5. Deepika Padukone © Instagram/Deepika Padukone
    Deepika Padukone's journey in Bollywood has been pretty impressive. She was a badminton player before, but her focus moved to acting at the age of 16. 

    She admitted to her mother once that she is playing badminton because her father wants her to but she actually wants to get into movies. She also mentioned that badminton is her 'second love'. 
    6. Kangana Ranaut © Instagram/Kangana Ranaut
    Kangana Ranaut is lauded for her acting skills and the actress has given some stellar performances too. 

    Kangana once tweeted that her father wanted her to become the best doctor in the world. She quarrelled with him at the age of 15 and left her house.

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    Although he has been composing songs for over 6 years now, people still know Vishal Mishra for his Kabir Singh hit, Kaise Hua. 
    The song catapulted him into the limelight for the general audiences.
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    His ardent fans and people in the industry know that Vishal has been composing songs since 2015, and has worked on films like Qarib Qarib Singlle, Munna Michael, Veere Di Wedding, Race 3, Saand Ki Aankh among many others.

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    However, it was his song, Fir Muskurayega India that made him a household name. 

    The song became an anthem for the people of this country during one of its darkest phases.
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    We sat down with the composer-singer and spoke to him about his process, about his upcoming work, and whether singing reality shows hold any value. 

    Edited excerpts:
    How have you been dealing with the lockdown? As an artist how do you deal with the mental confines that became a part of the lockdown?
    More than the physical lockdown it is the mental confines that have been problematic for me. You keep having certain kinds of thoughts. It has been a struggle dealing with them.
    My parents got Covid, and so, personally, I was really disturbed. I have been on my toes to feel happy and positive to create melodies. I feel happy and inspired because of my fans and listeners who feel they need to listen to my music, that even a few minutes of my work, helps them get through their day, that it takes their mind off of things. I try to get inspired by the love that I get.
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    I feel for people such as artists and journalists. It is very difficult to do what we're doing in these times. Everywhere you look there is negativity, so it becomes difficult to put our creations out every day. 

    But because we're trying to do things for people and if it helps people in any way, then that becomes our duty and responsibility. I am glad that I released 10-12 songs during this period. It has kept me sane.
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    How do you find that mental space to churn out these many songs, especially when you are disturbed on a personal level? Is taking a small break from creating music, not an option?

    Finding the mental space is the most difficult job. But, when you have people who love your work and are looking for more of it, you deliver. 
    They're like a family that you are coming back to at the end of the day. If you have a fan who finds your music relaxing, and calming, you owe it to them - you have to create new music. 
    Personally, for me, I cannot exist, I cannot be without making songs. That is my only escape from the world. It is the love and support that I get from my fans that keeps me going.
    Last year, during the lockdown, you sang and composed Muskurayega India which became the unofficial anthem for many people? Are you working on something similar for this year as well?
    I am definitely planning something along those lines, but at this point, I would like to keep it a surprise.

    Which other singers or musicians have you been inspired by?
    Everyone! I try and learn from everybody. Artists always need to be open to things, that makes them happy and a better person. It is all about growth. 
    You can learn anything from anyone. I also learn the bad stuff from people, it gives me an idea of what not to do. I am always open to learning from anyone and everyone.
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    Talk us through your creative process, how do you go about making melodies?

    It's very chaotic. My thoughts fight. At times, I feel there is a war going on in my head, with one idea that wants to reign supreme and then another one trying to do the same thing. Whichever idea prevails, is what you get to listen to. 
    I believe this is how it is with musicians. There is some clarity, but then, there are also so many emotions, which fight each other inside your head. It is chaotic but peaceful
    What drives this chaos, and how do you then refine this chaotic process?
    I just want to make music that touches people & heals them. I believe that all humans feel the same emotions. How one feels them might be different, but what they feel is the same. 
    Everybody needs that something that makes them feel wanted, that they are getting healed. I believe there are only two kinds of songs. One that speeds up a car, or one that slows it down.
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    You participated in Indian Idol, right? Do reality singing shows really help singers with their careers? 

    I auditioned for a lot of seasons and was finally selected in season 6. Reality shows are a great platform, there's no doubt. People definitely see you. I was eliminated before people could even see me. 
    They are great platforms but they don’t help you as such. Whether you’re seen on the show or not, you have to be at it constantly, you have to improve yourself and show people that you can do it, that you are dependable. Only then will you get work and opportunities. 
    It all comes down to hard work and practice. My guru used to say that even if there is tons and tons of gold in a field, and in the middle, there is a small diamond, people will always go for the diamond. You have to be that diamond. 
    The best that Indian Idol and other singing reality shows did for me was to reject me. That made me wonder where I was going wrong. I accept failures with a lot of happiness. It is like what people say - success doesn't teach you, failure does.
    I am glad that the judges from across many reality shows, with whom I wanted to work, I got to work with them, despite being rejected by them.
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    Do you feel that social media platforms and platforms like Spotify and YouTube are saturated with talent and it has become much harder to stand out, or do you think there is enough space?

    It is all about talent. If you're good enough, people will find you. Even if you start putting out your songs on a place like Instagram, and you're really good, people will start listening to you. 
    I feel this is a great time for people to get started because it is much easier now to put your work out easily. You don't need to carry a film or a tape everywhere you go, nor do you have to chase people for their number. 
    I think this is somewhat inspiring that it is easier to reach people. If you're good enough, people will find you, you will have your audience.
    We’ve heard it over the grapevine that you are doing something with SS Rajamouli for RRR. Is there anything that you can say about the collaboration?
    At this point, all I can say is that I am definitely a part of it, but other than that I really can't say anything else.
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    Do you ever feel the pressure to put songs out back to back, especially from your fans? 
    As I said, I cannot be with creating music. I do feel that pressure, but then, I have over 5000 songs melodies and compositions of my own, on my phone.  
    I make 3-4 melodies a day, that has been my practice. Making a song takes time, that is why, I don't have time for myself, I put a lot of heart into the technicalities. But then I am a little lazy as well, so I am glad that they put that pressure on me. I think that is purely out of love.

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    Not. A. Sorry. Story. Guys.
    There I said it. 
    Before one gets fixated on the key phrases ‘gender-neutral upbringing’ and ‘single dad’, and decides that maybe in the spirit of pride month this is gonna be another personal account about coming out of the closet, let me clarify that it's not.
    Well, in all seriousness, this is more of a coming-of-age story than out of the closet.
    A story of a '90s kid who was born to a set of parents who may not be ‘woke’ enough to know the exact meaning of LGBTQ+ but have been liberal enough to raise a child in an environment free from gender stereotypes. 
    Yes, even in the 90s when the phrase gender-neutral parenting wasn’t even popular, let alone it becoming a movement.
    Here’s how my parents, and when I lost my mother to cancer at 7, my dad alone endeavoured to raise me beyond gender rules.  
    Why am I telling this story btw? For it has helped me navigate life better, and metamorph into a more confident, compassionate, and capable human being. It may just help you too.
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    My parents didn't have a child for a long time. But with tons of Mannats and doctor’s visits, came my brother into the world after eight long years of marriage. And next, two years later, came me.

    We were precious, all kids are, but our parents decided to never say no to their rainbow babies for anything.   
    So, when at a toy shop, I showed interest in buying dolls, I never heard a no. 
    While my elder brother loved cars and animal soft toys, I enjoyed playing with dolls, throwing imaginary tea parties and playing house-house.
    My dad would be my biggest cheerleader, I remember he once helped me throw a birthday party for my doll ‘Annie’ (my favourite from my huge collection of 20 dolls). He bought me patties and jam rolls, and helped me send out handwritten invites to friends to come over to celebrate Annie’s birthday and her plain gorgeousness. 
    I soon graduated from dolls to babelaids, board games and gully cricket but in retrospect, I feel that the whole experience of playing with dolls inculcated in me a sense of deep nurturing and care.
    Today, I love gardening and have a far deeper understanding and connection with nature than my peers.
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    By the time my doll phase fizzled out, I had lost my mom. Our happy lives living by the adage, hum do, hamare do, came to a standstill.   

    I remember feeling like Alice In Wonderland, lost, blindfolded. 
    I tucked my dolls away, and with a sense of deep-seated grief, resorted to dancing. I had to find a way to release my anger and grief.
    I would cross-dress for fancy dress competitions, I once played a japanese lass and charmed everyone by singing ‘Sayonara Sayonara’ and on the same day in elocution category recited a poem about a Sainik (soldier). My dad, Behenji (my bua/aunt) and Laali (my aunt) would encourage me with equal pride to do both.
    By middle-school I developed a keen interest in playing Basketball and Lawn Tennis in school and at the same time I would come home to resume my Belly dancing and contemporary dance lessons. 
    My dad bought me the best Lawn Tennis racket trending at that time and also gladly paid for my dance class.

    Little ways in which it shaped my thinking, and very early on I learnt that talent can’t be confined in gender boxes and we must pursue what excites us. Be it dance, gardening or music. 
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    Love & Acceptance Always Win Over Bullying © Scrolldroll
    I was subjected to immense bullying in school by my peers for being more artistic and ahead in elocution, and bullying is something that can scar you for life. 

    But I would come back home to so much love and acceptance that everything else would look small in front of that. My dad would daily ask us, both my brother and I, sabse bahadur kaun (who’s the bravest) and we both would scream ‘ME’. And that affirmation of being brave would empower us in ways that no bullying could eat into. 
    I remember sobbing like an infant after listening to Sridevi’s ending speech in the film English Vinglish, not just because it made me miss my mom terribly, but because the point that she made, that family will always accept you and would never be judgemental, hit home.
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    While I was being bullied in school for being more creative than others, back home I was fostering a stronger bond with my sister (cousin). We would enjoy reading fashion magazines with equal ease as playing board games. 

    My sister would often send me to buy sanitary napkins for her and she would have me repeat ‘ask for with wings, okay?’. And my dad would sit and listen, no awkwardness or embarrassment would kill the vibe of the room. 
    We were encouraged not to carry a slip that we could stealthily pass to the chemist but say it aloud. Something that in retrospect has taught me to be more accommodative to the needs of all genders and establish that difference is a positive attribute. 
    Cooking & Cleaning Isn’t A Girl’s Job © Instagram
    Though my dad always loved cooking, after my mom’s passing, it became more like a duty (Till he remarried and had somebody to ‘share’ the work with). 

    Growing up watching my dad cook or do the dishes, helped us rise above the gender roles. 
    And it also prepared us better for the future. So, last month when my entire family tested COVID positive, except me, the household chores and responsibilities didn’t seem overwhelming to me at all.
    I just took up to it naturally, thanks to my dad for leading by example that there are no gender roles when it comes to household chores.
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    There Is No Such Thing As A Woman’s Drink © iStock
    My dad who has been a hardcore whiskey drinker all his life, gets equally happy to see (my brother and I) sip our wine. Never did he ever tell us that men must drink only whiskey or scotch. 

    In fact, he taught us the right way of drinking. He would tell us that there are three D’s of drinking —Dilution, Duration and Diet, always keep up with these three drinking etiquettes and you will be sorted in life. 
    Thank you Papa, for that valuable lesson. Cheers!
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    Final ThoughtsFor most people, gender is the first label we receive. You are born and the nurse whispers, it’s a boy. The whisper turns into a chatter, and the chatter into a celebration. IT’S A BOY! 
    Soon after starts the conditioning and the stereotyping, and in the process parents often tend to forget to allow their children to have a mind, choice, and preference of their own. 
    But, this Father’s Day I wanna thank my dad for teaching me the valuable lesson that it takes no compromise to give people their rights.
    So, thank you Papa.
    And, thank you all, for coming to my Ted Talk (J). 
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