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If You Love The Concept Of 'The Chase', Here Are A Few Things To Keep In Mind


The most relevant question that swings like a pendulum from time to time for men is- whether or not women like 'the chase'?  Well, to begin with, what is 'the chase'? According to Oxford dictionary, 'the chase' is defined 'as an act of persuasion in order to catch or catch up with'. So when you contextually use the concept of the chase in order to get the woman you want, it becomes a challenge and a game of sorts. Let's face it men, you all love the chase in the beginning. The constant fervour of keeping up with the challenge of getting the woman you have set your eyes on and playing ten rounds of 'catch and duck' to keep up with the game is quite exciting, isn't it?

Man has always been a competitive animal, since time immemorial. If it wasn't a woman, it was hunting and chasing the perfect meat, in pre-historic times. Now, because we can buy our own food, fending for the perfect mate is more epitomic for a man than anything else. But again, the question is, do women like the chase men so willingly indulge in? The right answer is-hell, yes! Let's get a little deeper into the psyche of a woman, shall we?

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Women usually love the attention bestowed upon them from a prospective male companion. The art of persuasion is something they expect out of the men they're attracted to and they probably know the man persuading them won't give up, unless she wants him to. But let's settle on the odds first? A woman would never want a man she isn't attracted to, to chase her. She will make her intentions very clear if she is not interested in you and you'll probably annoy her if you continue to do so. The signs aren't very subtle if a woman wants you to chase her around the yard and finally give her the ultimate attention you can conjure.

Here are some classic tell tale signs:

· She will never show signs of annoyance even if you act creepy and stalkerish

· She will definitely pretend to not show interest but her body language will tell you if she's into you

· She will make plans with you, even if it means cancelling prior invitations. A girl who wants you off her back will never even encourage a coffee date

· She will reply to your messages quickly

· She will make an effort to dress up for you

· She will act mysterious from time to time to keep up with the chase game (just so you don't give up!)

· She will play hard to get (because, why not?)

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Yes, we know in a perfect world it would have been a lot easier if women would just straightforwardly respond to your advances but then in a perfect world, you'd hate the chase too, wouldn't you?.

If you really like persuading the woman of your dreams then you have to definitely make her feel attracted to you first. That's the only remedy the whole concept of the chase depends on. Once she sees you as someone she is quite attractive to, she will play the game with you, until the two of you finally give up. So, what can you do to make yourself more attractive?

· An ambitious dedicated man really attracts a woman. Women are usually not attracted to fat bank accounts. They look for passion and ambition in  a man and the capacity and ability to be stable

· A sense of humour goes a long way. You know that!

· Although women have an independent streak and are strong enough to handle themselves, they still look for an ounce of dominance in a man. They look out for a man who can take care of them regardless, mentally and physically and emotionally

· Sexual attractiveness has to be prevalent for a woman to be attracted to you.

· Eloquence is a mastered trait. In order to handle anything, a man should know how to talk his way through situations. Women love that.

· Emotional intelligence is a must. No arguments there.

Once you have these areas covered, with the woman you're chasing, not only will she enjoy the chase, she'll prolong it, just to tease you, for the thrill of it!

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Unlike the movies, women don't really go for loserish lovers. What we mean is, life's not a movie, where you're chasing the wrong woman, the one who isn't interested in you and you hope to win her over one day by being overly persuasive. You follow her around like a lost puppy and stalk her till she gives in and sees the love you have for her. Bollocks! Women hate that, we'll have you know. It's borderline psychotic and creepy. If she's not responding to the chase like she's supposed to, then move on.

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Intelligent women don't lead a guy they're not interested in, on. So quit begging her for a chance and enjoy the real chase instead. Not the desperate chase, for a disinterested woman. If you find the right kinda woman to chase, she'll definitely want you back because both of you will definitely be abiding by the laws of attraction.

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