If you've just gotten yourself a fine date, it's rather thrilling isn't it? By that, I mean you've scored her number and now you're super excited, but you're also wondering what the hell to do next! While you've mastered the art of flirting with a girl and getting her number, you're a little confused on how to carry forth the interaction. Don't worry, I'll get you through that with some faith and patience!
Getting to know someone takes ample amount of patience and you need to be ready for that. You can't work in extremes, wherein you're a gentleman when you meet her and a persuasive freak once you do have her contact deets!
Here's how you carry on communication with someone you've just met!Take Your Time
So, now that you have her number, don't rush into calling her and spoiling things thereon. Take your time to mull over what you'd like to say to her. Whether you like to ask her out for a coffee next or a drink. What kind of a conversation would you like to have with her etc. It also seems quite desperate to call immediately after you guys have met. I mean, if you want to do that, go for it, but I think you should start slow.
© ThinkstockFind A Good Time To Message Or Call
If you're the shy variety, maybe text her instead of calling her? This way, you will dodge the awkwardness that might come about over a phone call, with her. Don't be incessant while messaging her either. Send her a text maybe in the morning or in the evening, when you know she's free. If you call her during the day, you might be disturbing her at work, or impinging on her time. So call her at a time you know she's free to answer your calls.
© ThinkstockDo Not Send Her Forwards, Yet
I know you're dying to show off your meme collection to her but it's too soon to be having that kinda banter! First, prep yourself for a date, spend some time getting to know her and then you can meme away your time with her! Maybe keep your texts light and easy for now. Like for instance, ask her how her day was, or a relatable question you really want her to answer.
© ThinkstockNo Sexting!
Yes, asking for nudes is possibility the worst thing you can do when you've just gotten someone's number! So don't do it! Maybe if you started off with dirty talk then with proper consent, you can sext her as and how you like, but if she hasn't initiated anything, you shouldn't either.
© ThinkstockTake The Conversation Towards A Possible Date
It's time, after giving it time, to ask her out on a date. It should be casual and not forced and definitely, confident. Try not to stutter or be short of words. All you have to do, is figure out a nice evening for the two of you, plan it all and give her a call. Don't call her without a plan in place and don't ask her 'what do you feel like doing'. She rather you take her out to a nice place and have a good time.
So, the next time you end up with a girl's number in your hand, you know exactly how to go about a date with her!