There is nothing more important for a human being than their self-esteem and if you have issues with lowered self-esteem, it is about time you improve your self-love game.
If our self-esteem is meek, we might not get a chance to do many things the way we want to. An inevitable attaché with self-esteem is self-confidence. One cannot survive without the other and it's important to have both at a familiar periphery, so you feel good about yourself constantly.
The alpha male syndrome is synonymously made from a good amount of self-esteem. Even beta males, for instance, work a lot on their self-esteem to look for a life partner well suited to them. So, when you think it's time to approach women, a lowered sense of self certainly doesn't work and it might not work out well for you. Women don't seek good looks as much as they seek a well confident man who is sure of himself.
So, in order to build your self-esteem and reach your acquired goal in life, here are 3 enablers that can help you move past anything that is holding you back, to build it in the first place:(1) Know Yourself Well Enough
Before attempting to know another person, make sure you know yourself well enough. Know what motivates you, what inspires you and what puts you down.
If you have catalysts that are negative in a thought process, kill them instantly, so that they don't hamper your thoughts further. The introspection can get exhausting yes, but it's important to know every emotion you have, in order to validate your existence and give you the desired results. If you know yourself well enough, you can ward off the bad and keep the good, making you a more confident person.
So, take some time out to spend with yourself and build a fierce combination of emotions and rationality within you. No one wants to know a man who doesn't really know himself or isn't sure of himself!
© Pintrest(2) Always Put Yourself First
I know this might sound fairly selfish but in the long run, you'll understand how it's not selfish at all and is a way of self-preservation.
You don't have to be selfless all the time and let go of your ego to please others. You can do it for a loved one, but when it comes to preserving yourself, you should act on intuition more than anything else. If you put yourself first, you build on your self-esteem. For instance, if someone asks you to watch their dog for the weekend and you're not comfortable around dogs, you can say no! You don't have to say yes and weaken what you feel. You can always explain to someone the reason behind your disagreement.
In order to build a sheer amount of confidence, it's always okay to put your feelings and needs first, before anyone else's.
© Thinkstock(3) Don't Let Rejection Put You Down
Rejection is tough, agreed. It plays havoc in your mind, especially if you're rejected by someone you really like. There are ways to deal with rejection and move on in life, but for that to happen you have to be open to the idea of normalising rejection in your head.
Rejection can deter your spirit and hamper your self-esteem, but it doesn't necessarily have to do that. If you're strong enough, you can accept failures and rejection as a part of life and learn from that experience, instead of letting it put you down.
Rejection stems from certain insecurities but if you get to know your insecurities well and yourself better, there is no way you can't let go of anything that is negative.
Self-esteem is important for everyone. In this case, it might be important to get the girl of your dreams but if we generalise it, it's the most important asset to have, in order to move forward in life and achieve any kind of success.
Keep these three things in mind to build on your self-esteem and you will surely have what you want and need!