They say women are complicated. But the truth is women don’t understand men either. 

I have never seen a man introduce himself to another guy. How on earth do you guys ever know each other’s name? Maybe that’s why ‘dude’ and ‘bro’ were invented. Also, a friend’s birthday isn’t a big deal for guys and you only express love for your ‘bhai’ when you are wasted.  

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If I had to sum up male friendships, I’d say it’s a chill relationship with no drama involved. I mean, all it takes for two men to bond is a bottle of beer or sports and the next thing you know they are bros for life.  

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Women definitely don’t get male friendships and how they work. And, someone with the similar sentiment asked men on Reddit the same. Here is what the guys had to say when a user asked  “What's an unspoken rule between men that women to this day have trouble understanding?” 

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Here are some of the best responses that rules important in bromance that most women don’t get:

1. You can chat shit to your mates to their face but you have their back when they're not around.

2. Dudes can be best of buddies for decades and have like 2 photos of them together total lol.

3. When your friend wants to do something meathead stupid, you talk to him about why it’s stupid, you both agree it’s stupid, and then when he decides to do it anyway you’re like “okay what do you need me to do to make this happen.”

4. Unless it is a pretty significant purchase, men don't pay each other back. "You pay for the hotel?"

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"Great, I'll get the golf and dinner. Does that square us up?"

" Yeah." 

5. There's something so rock solid about knowing that the next time you see Dudeguy you get to pick right back up where you were 4 years ago and neither of you even has to question it. Even if you weren't the same person as back then, you get to mentally go back to that space and so does he. It's like an anchor point for your personality. 

6. Guys talk about crushes, girls they're working on dating, and relationship troubles all the time. *** talk on the other hand is pretty limited. Either you banged or you didn't.

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7. That once you have finished a heated argument you leave it as a moment in time and move on. They are perfectly healthy part of a man's life. You don't bring it up days later or everytime that person annoys you or hold a grudge till you can get back at them.

8. We can sit together on the porch for hours and not speak. Its okay. We enjoy it.

9. 9/10 phone calls should take 60 seconds or less. 

10.The stronger the friendship the harsher the insults.

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So, does every guy just know these rules and follow them? 

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