A lot of men ooze some major charm, even when they don’t realise it. Actually, especially when they don’t realise it. 

It’s the little things he does unintentionally that make him irresistible to a woman like chivalry, a bit of goofiness or compassion towards toddlers and puppies. Dammnn! These make him even sexier than a seductive Eau de Parfum and his humour, combined... 

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Well, men may be unaware of their own attractiveness but women notice everything when they are on a date with a man and can tell if the guy is genuine or trying too hard. And, there are some things that men, unknowingly, do on a date that can leave a woman weak in the knees. 

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Here are 10 things most men do on a date without realising that make them irresistible to women. Consider it the ultimate guide to stealing her heart the next time you go on a date:

1. Caressing Her Thumb While Holding Hands

While taking a walk in a park hand-in-hand, the guy gently caresses her thumb with his as she tells her stories. The most romantic shit ever! Guys, take notes. 

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2. Tipping Generously

Being nice to the restaurant staff is kind of the basic courtesy every woman would expect from him, but when he tips generously, it shows he isn’t stingy and rather respectful.  

3. Giving Her His Full Attention 

When he doesn’t constantly check your phone when he is with her and gives her his undivided attention on a date. 

4. When He Pauses To Take A Good Look  

Not the creepy stare but that half-closed gaze that men would stop to have (brownie points for keeping a hand on chin while doing it). It translates to “I can’t take my eyes off you.”

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5. Showing His Goofy Side

When he makes her laugh not only with his jokes but by being his goofy best with her. Even wondered why class clowns got girls swooning over them in school? Yeah.

6. Saying Her Name In Conversation

Why is this attractive? We, women, have no answer to that. But hearing our name in his voice when we least expect it does something to us. 

7. Keeping A Hand On Her Back 

While leading her to a seat in the restaurant or on the street as a speeding car moves past, the gesture of placing his hand means he’s protective of her. Sweet.

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8. When He Is Sweet To A Baby 

If a guy acknowledges a random baby in a park and smiles or waves to him, it is the cutest thing. It could be a human baby or an animal’s, the reaction is the same. *melts*  

9. Kissing Her Non-Erogenous Spots

You can kiss her neck and lips to seduce her, but a peck on the non-seductive parts of her body like her nose, hands and forehead will help seal the deal. 

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10. Checking Up On Her

A simple ‘text me when you reach home’ or ‘did you reach safely?’ after the date when you can’t walk her home or drop her at her place makes a huge difference. And it makes you incredibly attractive to her.    

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