One of the most common blowouts in modern-day relationships is “sexual boredom”. Two people who could once not keep their hands off of each other, would now much rather head for the television remote. But why is it so? *** is supposed to explosive, passionate, and the perfect antidote to bring a couple closer. However, does committed *** have a shelf life?

Well, there's no denying that things eventually go from sizzling to scripted and boring. In fact, we have proof! Durex India conducted a study and found 74% of Indians want to try something new in bed. One's got to be innovative to nip the issue of deadbeat *** in the bud. I mean, #WhySoBoring guys?

Durex recently uploaded a post which took the internet by storn. Take a look at it!

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India, we have seen the stats but it's time you give us the facts! So tell us, #WhySoBoring?

A post shared by Durex India (@durex.india) on Nov 6, 2019 at 8:30pm PST

In fact, Bollywood celebrities have been participating in the ongoing discourse as well. 

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So this is a pretty staggering statistic presented by @durex.india I've told you why I think it is the way it is, but what do you say? Comment below with the hashtag #WhySoBoring

A post shared by Eisha Chopra (@eishachopra) on Nov 7, 2019 at 2:27am PST

Okay what's going on? *** is apparently boring now.
I think I fall in the 24% that feels that the art of making love isn't boring and hence you gotta help me understand these numbers stated by @DurexIndia !

Comment below with what you think makes *** boring with #WhySoBoring! pic.twitter.com/VZFjpwFKs8

— Kenny Sebastian (@knowkenny) November 7, 2019

Whats up, India? Honestly, the stats by @DurexIndia has me ð³ A country that's having so much *** and yet finding it boring? Let's get creative with this, Comment below why you think *** is boring! #WhySoBoring pic.twitter.com/lNiCGvR3S9

— Bani Jâ¡ï¸ (@bani_j) November 7, 2019

Checkout what the common janta had to say-

Do u know ...? The 26% who manages to make *** interesting every single time, how do you do it? Teach us your great mantra, too! @DurexIndia #WhySoBoring

— Aashu Kumar (@GulatiCk) November 7, 2019

This 74% are such a disappointment and absolutely an under-estimation!
I mean who has the time to spice things every single time? You only get lucky once a while, right? @DurexIndia #WhySoBoring

— RITIKA (@Rhitika_) November 7, 2019

Here are 5 possible reasons why you and your partner might be missing the spark in bed lately:

1. Following The Usual Drill

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One rule of thumb, when it comes to good *** is – keep it mysterious! Try new things, prop it up, throw in a new technique, the options are limitless. Because guys, if you've been following the same, battered and tattered *** routine, it's bound to get boring. 

2. Neglecting Foreplay

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Good *** has little to do with the actual act of ***, as a majority of it depends on chemistry, foreplay, and emotions. I mean, without a little talking and foreplay, *** is just “wham, bam, thank you ma'am”, and no couple really wants that.    

3. Too Comfortable To Make An Effort

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Ever been so comfortable with someone that you stop making efforts? Well, that's a big no-no in bed. Be it what you're wearing, kinky techniques, the sheets to the aroma candles, keep it all evolving and mysterious!

4. Silent *** – A Bummer!

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If your bed is lacking conversation during ***, you need to pump it up. Be it compliments, nicknames, commands or whatever floats your boat, it's bound to spice it up for you guys.

5. Not Communicating What You Want

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It's very crucial to let your partner know what you like in bed, something new you wish to try, a fetish you've suppressed for a while, or anything else! If you're too afraid to communicate this face-to-face, try your hand at sexting. Do what it takes, because talking about *** is a real game-changer.

So guys, why do you think *** becomes boring after a point? Leave your answer in the comments section below! 

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