It's a new decade altogether and to make it different from the one that went by we all need to change a few things around. The changes could be subtle or loud, depending on what aspect of life you'd like to or want to change but once you've decided to make that change, it's necessary to stick it to it.
One of the things you can focus on is your dating life too. If it's becoming too monotonous or passÃ© for you to be thrilled about it, change should be inevitable there and you can only change things around and make it spicier if you actively figure out what you need to change around. For instance, the way you approach someone to ask them out for a date makes for an important aspect of the entire dating world. Everything begins from there. The girl notices how you approach her, how you talk to her or how you carry yourself on your first date, before anything else, so if you want to turn things around there, it's the right time to do so.
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Asking someone out shouldn't be too stressful or too casual either. It should in fact be different from what you've been doing all along. Something that changes your entire game and gives you the thrill that was lacking, the one you truly deserve.
So, here's listing five things you can probably do, to ask a girl out and be as innovative as you possibly can in the new decade.(1) Forget Social Media
In an era of constant screen time, maybe give her your actual time away from social media. So, yeah don't ask her out on social media. Yes, you could have probably met her through a dating app or through social media but once you have her number she'd be happy to be asked out through a phone call instead. So, give her a call and chat her and maybe slip in the 'would you want to grab a drink/coffee with me sometime' question and there's no way someone would want to say no to old school!
Â© Twitter(2) Write Her A Letter, Maybe
Since we're already going old school, let's take it a notch higher. Because Whatsapp is a little impersonal, we can try writing her a letter or a note, that reaches her directly or through someone. Write what you feel for her in the letter and team it up with some flowers and chocolates and send it her way. There's no way she'd ever deny going out with you after.
Â© Thinkstock(3) Gather Her Interests
If you know her well enough or know enough of what she likes and dislikes then you can plan an evening around that and ask her out. It could be as simple as karaoke, knowing she enjoys it or an afternoon of rock climbing. Whatever it is, gauge her interest, ask her out, telling her what the plan is and she'll never say no!
Â© Fox Star Studios(4) Ask Her Straight Up
If you've spotted her in a public gathering, just gather all the courage and confidence you can and ask her out straight up. There's nothing sexier to a woman than a man who's confident enough to approach her and ask her out. Just make your way to her, look into her eyes and ask her if she'd like to go out with you sometime or join you for a drink.
Â© Eros Internaional(5) Make Your Way Through Her Stomach
It's a popular myth that a man's heart is through his stomach. In reality, anyone's heart is through their stomach and if you're a whiz in the kitchen you can really use that to your advantage. Find out what she loves to eat, something that simple and effortless and send it her way with a message. If you can bake, that's even better. Sending her something from the oven with a cute little note will definitely make her want to meet you, for some more desserts if nothing else!
There are a lot of ways to ask women out other than just stalking them or meeting them on dating apps and asking them to meet you. Why don't you make this decade a bit more spectacular and do things differently, starting with upping your dating game first? It's simple.