“Do men in uniform really turn you on?” 

“Where the hell is your G-spot?” 

“If you don’t get an orgasm, is *** still satisfying for you?”

There are some questions you just don’t ask out loud. While it’s admirable that both men and women stay polite when it comes to the matters of the bedroom, it can also lead to a pile of unanswered questions between genders. 

Note: While I have answered 5 of the most important yet unacceptable *** questions honestly on behalf of womankind, many women might express a different set of opinions. 

Now, onto the *** questions!

Q1: What Are Erogenous Zones & How To Touch Them?

The parts of the body that excite sexual feelings when touched or stimulated are called erogenous zones. They may be genital or extragenital—breasts, lips, inner thighs, etc. 

It’s important to stimulate extragenital erogenous zones during foreplay for women to reach orgasm. 

Remember, for light touch, the neck, forearm and vaginal margin are the most sensitive areas. The areola (pigmented skin around the nipples) is the least sensitive.

But when it comes to pressure, the nipples and clitoris are the most sensitive and the side boob and abdomen are the least.

So if you haven’t already googled the 7 erogenous zones Monica was pointing to for Chandler’s benefit in Friends, here’s the list:

Ears: Touch or kiss her ears gently. Avoid flicking. Use your tongue to trace the outer ear. Lips: Tease her. Kiss her near the lips, not on them.Neck: Plant a really sexy hickey. Kiss her and then proceed for a gentle bite.Breasts: Don’t squeeze them too hard. Be gentle. The way your partner responds will tell you if she’s enjoying it.Butt: Ask for her consent first. If she likes it, she’ll respond with lip biting and muffled moans.Inner thighs: This one is a major level tease. Use your fingers to trace her inner thigh.Vagina: Dear men, don’t just push your way in. Take some time to play around. Be creative but also gentle. It’s the most erogenous area and it’s a little fragile. Treat it like a flower. 

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Q2: How Do Women Have & Feel Orgasms During ***

Everyone’s body response is different and everyone is not a screamer, so don’t rely on what you hear or see for this answer. 

The majority of women experience an orgasm through clitoral stimulation during ***.

During an orgasm, a woman’s genital muscles contract, heart rate increases and genitals are filled with blood. 

While the body works hard to make her feel good, her brain also releases a huge dose of dopamine and oxytocin, which increase the feelings of closeness, happiness and empathy.

For some women who have experienced orgasm, the legs go numb for a hot second and the lower body or legs shake a little (even after the orgasm is over). And for the others, it feels like a sudden release.

It also feels euphoric when a partner continues to caress or hold his woman after the orgasm. So, do that.

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Q3: How To Find G-Spot

G-spot isn’t really a “spot”, it’s a part of the clitoral network. It’s an area. 

First up, help your partner relax. You can locate the G-spot by inserting a finger, a *** toy or male genitals and lifting upwards in a rocking horse motion. It’s a patch of spongy tissue near the urethral sponge.

Some people feel great when the area is stimulated and others, not so much—and that’s okay.

The best *** positions to stimulate the G-spot—Cowgirl, doggy style, closed missionary position.

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Q4: Is Cybersex Really Cheating?

Cheating is cheating. Period.

Online infidelity is more of an emotional affair in which people develop a sexually intimate bond without meeting each other. It’s called cybersex. 

The lines may seem blurry but an online affair is very much like a physical fling. It can distract the unfaithful partner from the real relationship or family. 

Much like a real-life affair, the online one involves secrecy and lies that can destroy the trust between a couple. Both the emotional and sexual attention gets divided even though the two have never actually touched each other.   

Even if your spouse or partner never discovers the truth, cybersex is cheating and has the potential to destroy a relationship in a lot of ways.

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Q5: Does Size Really Matter?

Is my ***** too small? Have you experienced better? I’m sure you have. 

It’s on the tip of the tongue of every man.

Every woman’s take on this one is different and I would prefer not to generalise the answer. 

Experts believe that in certain cases, the size of the ***** can play a pivotal role when it comes to pleasure. 

Women with larger vulva may need a larger ***** to reach the stimulation needed to arouse the clitoris. 

Conversely, women with a shorter vagina may experience difficulty or pain while receiving a larger *****. 

But if we keep these facts aside, the size of your ***** is only one aspect of your *** life. A full experience includes techniques, positions, emotions, your current mood and the status of your relationship. 

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Did We Miss Anything?

Our bodies are filled with sexually charged areas waiting to be explored. Stay curious. If we’ve missed any *** questions that you had in mind, share them with us in the comment section. 

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