After reading up extensively about red flags to avoid in a partner, we all have become a pro at detecting a person who’s wrong for us. 

Of course, it’s a whole another thing that we completely overlook these warning signs and still date them, only to end up with a broken heart. Happens. 

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However, it seems like we are clueless about what good things we should look for in a partner to make sure they are right for us (and our mental health). 

We often don’t notice these because we are too busy looking for the red flags. The next time you are dating someone you really like, maybe notice the green flags aka the good things they bring in your life to confirm that they are a keeper?   

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We are not saying ignore the red flags. But once you know they aren’t toxic or supremely annoying, maybe keep an eye out for these 5 green flags that guarantee you've got a good one from the lot:

1. They Support You & Stand With You

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You know you are with the right person when anything that’s important to you is supported and fully backed by them. 

Be it a silly business idea or adopting veganism, you should be able to discuss it with them without hesitation because you know they would support your decision.   

2. They Challenge You In A Healthy Way

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Your relationship should allow you to grow into a better person emotionally and otherwise. 

If they push you to do better in your career and academics, challenge you to evolve as a person and add to your life in a positive way, they are a keeper.  

3. When They Are Willing To Let Things Go 

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Everyone has flaws and you are bound to have fights when you are dating. The important thing is how your partner handles an argument. 

If they are willing to forgive and forget and make efforts to be better at things that bother you, that is a major green flag. 

4. They Genuinely Care About You

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Not just asking if you ate or not, when your partner shows they care through little things like sending you a loving message when you need it, coming to see you with your favourite food when you are sad and making sure you are healthy and happy, you can be sure you can count on them.

5. They Put You & Your Needs First

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There’s nothing better than a partner who’s receptive to your needs and isn’t trying to do things their way all the time. 

A person adjusting their schedule according to your needs is a tell-tale sign that they are invested in you and a perfect catch.

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