Dating has shifted base to the online arena and there is no going around it unless you want to remain single, or remain single for a long time.
Now, to get the ball rolling and set up those dates with the girl you like, you need to first, let them know youâre interested in them.
How do you do that? By flirting!
And as long as you can pull off being a non-creepy, non-offensive flirt, trust me, you can get any girl. If you want to get started and up your online flirting game right now, follow these 5 easy tips to flirt successfully and land a date with your crush:1. Keep The Rule Of Reciprocity In Mind
The one thing you can never lose sight of while flirting, be it online or otherwise, is the Rule of Reciprocity as I like to call it.
The idea is to pay attention to whether your crush or potential date is equally involved and interested in the process. Remember to start off gently, and amp it up only when you see them showing genuine interest.2. Ditch Playing Safe
Right from hitting her up for the first time to getting the conversation rolling, donât go by the âfoolproof flirting tricksâ your friends handed down to you.
Crack a conversation with a funny but not insensitive comment about her profile, and build it up by talking about your interests over time. If at any point you feel like you need to take things up a notch, try sharing stuff on what interests her and you think she would enjoy checking out.3. Let The Emoti (cons) ons Flow
Not only do women enjoy emoticon-heavy conversations, but using them can also help you understand your woman better.
It makes the conversation lively and less boring, besides helping you play it safe and keep the conversation open. Get that emoticon game on.4. Risk It With Sexual Undertones, But Go Easy
This is only when you have been going to and fro with the sweet messages for a while now. Just because youâre in the online flirting zone doesnât mean you canât drop in a few lines with sexual undertones here and there.
But beware, know where to draw the line. Instead of going at it with full guns blazing, turn things around by pointing out her ânaughty sideâ when she shares something adventurous.5. Swear By The âMysteriousâ
While itâs great to be talking and hitting it off with all the right moves, the trick here is to make it lasting enough to lead to an actual date eventually.
So, donât spill your beans all at once. Stay honest but also keep up the mystery.