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7 Things Which Confirm You’ve Been Ghosted By That Girl You Met Online


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Ghosting - this may not be the first time you have heard of this word, but maybe this is your first time experiencing it. We know there is no easy way of putting this, but it does hurt like crazy, eh?

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Now you agree that that friend of yours wasn’t ‘moping’ for no reason and that your ‘there are other fish in the sea’ advice does sound like a load of crap, doesn’t it? It really does boil down to experiencing things first hand to understand how bad things suck.

But there’s a problem. The ghosting experiences your friends had seem different to what you’re going through, so you aren’t entirely sure if you have been ghosted or not. Worry not, these 7 things will confirm it for you.

1. Enter The Dreaded Monosyllables

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The earliest sign that shows up is when words become scarce in your everyday conversations. From a few lines, it goes to a single sentence, a few words and eventually you begin to receive only monosyllabic responses or worse, just smileys.

2. The Puppy Love Phase Had Faded

When the two of you decided to ‘give this a try’, it did feel exhilarating. The conversation was lively, your dates were fun too and overall things did seem a lot exciting. But of late, you have felt things fizzle out and now it does feel like you’ve hit a dud merely at the six week mark.

3. She Felt Like A ‘Dream Come True’

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She did seem like the real deal, and you remember thinking ‘she’s too good to be true’ on more than one occasion. You guys almost had the same likes and dislikes, your food choices and past time indulgences seem to align perfectly well too and you’ve never had a major disagreement so far - but chances are all of that seemed to work because that is how they meant to keep it. None of it was perhaps real to begin with.

4. The ‘Serious’ Business Didn’t Go Well

The one time you tried to say the three golden words to her, it kind of unsettled her. You could see she wasn’t ‘expecting’ it just yet, so you decided to push the ‘serious’ talk for later. What you need to understand here is that, women too can have commitment issues, and perhaps she felt it would be better to leave before things got serious. She didn’t want to ‘hurt’ you.

5. Lately She’s Been ‘Unavailable’ A Lot

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Another sign guys need to pick up on quick is when suddenly she seems a lot busier than she used to be. She keeps cancelling plans or makes excuses for being MIA, and although none of it feels too convincing, you have no choice but to take a rain-check. Only, that doesn’t happen either.

6. Her Social Media Seems ‘Dead’

You have had your suspicions. She may not have been a social media addict, but she’s also not someone whose radio silence on social media can be called ‘normal’. Chances are you have been kept out of her social (media) activities not just offline but online too. Take the hint already!

7. You Never Had A Real ‘Heart-To-Heart’

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For as long as you have known each other or ‘been into each other’, you cannot claim to have had a real heart-to-heart conversation with her. Most of your conversations have been pretty surface level, and the two of you never got into the finer details in the time you were “together”. That is saying something, isn’t it?

BONUS: If she has stopped replying to your calls and messages altogether, you’ve definitely been ghosted.


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