Having a good *** life is an underlying part of our well-being and overall quality of life. And while it is in mentally exhausting times like these that having an active *** life could help keep our wellness in check to some degree, sadly we are all cooped-up inside our homes, bereft of the comforting intimacy. Sorry singletons!

So what do we do? 

Do we uninstall the plethora of apps that facilitate fleeting sexual encounters? Or do we switch to the next best thing — virtual hookups? 

However, while many of us maybe self-proclaimed flirt dudes who know how to sext their way up to exchanging nudes, the best of us chicken out when it comes to actually having phone ***. 

But fret not, these simple tips will help you shed your inhibitions, prep better and indulge in a more fulfilling virtual ***.

Start With Sexting

Good ***, whether in-person or virtual, starts with excitement and anticipation and nothing builds anticipation better than exchange of those impressive one-liners laced with smutty emojis with your potential date on these dating apps.

Get into the mood by asking standard questions like ‘Hey sup, are you in bed?’, ‘Need company?’, ‘How I wish to be by your side’! etc. 

Once the sexting gets real and reciprocal, progress to more direct confessions like…’I am so aroused,’ ‘I am starting to get a hard on’, ‘Do you mind getting on a video call?’ If she/he says yes, take things forward from there. (always remember explicit consent is must)

And don’t forget to plug in those ear pods, because you sure wanna have your hands be busy doing better things than adjusting that phone as per the length of your earphones.

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Feel Fresh 

Treat your virtual dalliance as your in-person sexual encounter and prep for it accordingly. 

Make an effort. Take a shower beforehand to feel fresh and show up with wet messy hair to turn your date on. Trim your pubic hair or your chest hair if that’s what it takes to make you rise up to the occasion.

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Use A Spray 

The point of phone *** is to enjoy yourselves and not to focus on pleasing or satisfying the other person. How much fun you have is, literally, in your hands.

So, maximize your virtual hookup experience by maximizing your erection. Opt for a sensitivity numbing spray to prolong your orgasm. It will boost your overall experience, and for all you know might excite the other person to experiment too.

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Pop A Pill

If you feel nervous about the whole situation of getting on a video call, try popping a stamina boosting or nerve relaxing pill.

Opt for something natural made with herbs. These pills are designed to help increase your blood flow, relax your nerves and work as an aphrodisiac. More importantly, it can give you back the confidence you need to shed your inhibitions and indulge in a fulfilling virtual *** experience.

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Try Aromatherapy 

If you are second guessing on the idea of popping a pill, try aromatherapy. Put a few drops of lavender oil in your aroma diffuser and indulge in a fragrant atmosphere. Lavender helps relax your mind and can help you alleviate performance anxiety. 

You can also go for a lavender oil massage, take a drop in your palm and gently massage it on your body while self-stimulating your turn on spots.

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Wear A Slinky Underwear

What a foreplay is in a real sexual encounter, shedding your clothes off layer by layer is in a virtual hookup. There is an arousing sense of palpable mystique in removing your clothes one by one and watching someone do that for you.

So, don’t show up wearing nothing on a phone *** date, create mystery around your body, wear comfortable easy to remove clothes and more importantly the right underwear.

Opt for a well-fitted underwear that makes your crotch look more desirable, and creates titillating friction, just in case you wanna tease your date by stroking your ***** without removing the underpants.

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Ensure Proper Lighting 

Set the mood of your date hour by putting on the bedside lamps, and light a few candles for effect.

Warm white lights not only create an inviting atmosphere but also help you conceal your scars if that’s what is keeping you from getting naked.

Or grab a concealer or a BB cream and dab it a little on your scars to feel more confident about Facetiming. 

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Most Importantly, Keep It Real

Also, a phone *** date may require you to have a way with words. 

Soften the pitch, don’t hesitate to let out your moans, discuss your fantasies, and laugh if you feel like. 

But remember, don’t let the moment get killed while trying to sound too clever, just keep it real. Nothing is more attractive than letting your date know that you are genuinely aroused. 

Final Thoughts

Whether you resort to phone *** to kick your dry spell away or just make things saucy with your long-distance partner, phone *** can be more exciting and satisfying than you actually think.

But, it’s important to build a degree of trust before going all in for it with a complete stranger. It would be nice to set boundaries beforehand as to whether screenshotting or screen-recording content is allowed or not, things that you are or aren’t comfortable with.

And remember that if at any time you begin to feel uncomfortable, it’s okay to stop, without feeling guilty, because like we said a virtual hookup is more about pleasing yourself first than anyone else.

So, now release what has been holding you back and go for it with some prudence, trust and a lot of excitement.

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