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8 Everyday Games That Can Be Used To Turn Up The Heat In The Bedroom



The last year and a half have taken a toll on all of us. We feel tired, confused and probably stressed out as well, going through all these emotions can take the joy out of our lives and affect our relationships.

When it comes to keeping a relationship alive, it’s not just about romance and love, sometimes lust and physical intimacy are just as important. While old school ways like role-playing and dirty texting help in keeping the spark alive, sometimes it’s fun to kick things up a notch with a few sexy games. 

Add Some Games To Your *** Life

We have all grown up playing games like ludo, snakes & ladders, teen Patti and more but what if there was a way to reinvent those games by adding a hotter angle to them. How do you do that? Well, here’s how:

1. Strip Poker

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An oldie but goodie, strip poker is a surefire way to rekindle your passion. Start with an equal number of clothing items, and remove one item whenever you lose a hand. Once you’re naked or almost naked, move on to performing sexual acts whenever you lose a hand.


2. Sexy Snakes and Ladders

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Yes, you read that right! There is an easy way to make this simple game sexy as well. These games generally follow simple rules but require acts ranging from the sensual to the truly wild. The best way is to lose a clothing item or perform a sexy dare every time you get bitten by a snake whereas every time you climb a ladder, you get to make your partner do something that you desire. 

3. DIY *** Game

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Sexy card games work along the same lines as strip poker, requiring partners to take turns pleasuring each other in a variety of ways. But, if you want to you can also build your own game by following these steps:

Write sexual acts, some mild and some exotic, on each card.Throw the cards into a bowl or a hat and take turns drawing a card at random.Whoever draws the card must decide whether to perform the act on the other person or have the act performed on him.


4. Sexy Clue

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Now, this one is a little different. To play this game you need is three piles of cards, one for characters, one for locations, and one for *** toys.

This game is a riff off the classic game of Clue, so you first need to create your cards. Character cards should describe different roles like a wicked witch, biker dude, or sexy teacher, while locations can be in the kitchen, playroom, or basement. Your *** toys can be as wild as you want, from your tongue to a lipstick vibrator or even a leather flogger.

Once you have your cards, place them into piles and shuffle the decks. Each partner picks a card from the piles, creating a scene and role to play. Once you have your role, dress up in character using a costume or things you have in the closet. Your partner must guess your location; as soon as they find you, you’ll use the *** toy to tease and touch your partner. 

After, it’s your turn to go find your partner in their location, where you’ll start the fun all over with a brand new toy. Sounds fun right?

5. Adult Hide & Seek

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This one is fairly simple and all you need is a blindfold and small candies (like chocolate kisses), silk tie. 

In this game like the name suggests there's the Hider and the Seeker. The seeker starts kneeling on the bed, with a blindfold over their eyes and hands tied behind their back. The hider strips down and lays on the bed next to the Seeker, placing a set number of candies in different spots on their body. 

When the hider is ready, they let the seeker know how many candies to search for. Using kisses only, the Seeker must then find each candy. The hider may choose to give hints like “higher” or “lower,” but they can also choose to stay silent. This will help your partner explore your body on your terms.


6. Follow the Leader

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In this game, you need to start by deciding who is the Follower and who’s the Leader. The Leader traces their fingers and tongue all over the Follower in the exact way that they want to be touched. The Follower then has to remember the same movements and replicate them on the Leader. Switch roles as many times as you’d like.

Not only is it a fun memory game that builds sexual anticipation, but copying what someone does is the most sincere form of flattery. Up the ante by creating a trail of whipped cream or chocolate sauce, and licking up fun patterns that your partner will have to remember when it’s their turn.

7. Let the Dice Decide

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This is a fun one! You need to start by grabbing one bowl, 20 folded pieces of paper, dice, a pen and having each person writes down 10 things they want their partners to do (these can be naughty or not), folds the papers, and puts them into the bowls. 

Then you throw the dice. Whoever gets the higher number wins, and the loser must pick a paper from a bowl and perform whatever's written on the paper.

Sure, you could always just take turns drawing papers and performing what’s on them at random. But adding in the dice adds an extra spice element, encouraging partners to let go of their inhibitions. And if you write down a chore that isn’t usually naughty (say, doing the dishes), you may be surprised at how quickly it can become sexy and fun.


8. Sexy Scrabble

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Yes, you read that right! If you and your partner love having scrabble nights then turn one of those into a sexy night! Dressed in seductive attire (or none at all), set the mood with music, candles, and cocktails, grab the game and clear a comfortable space on the floor. 

The first rule is that players are only allowed to call upon words plucked from their most erotic vocabularies. Second, if you spell out a body part, your partner gets to lean into you and plant a lustful, wet kiss there (and vice versa). Not only is it intellectually stimulating, but it allows arousal and physical interaction to build gradually.

To Wrap Up

Keeping the spark alive in a relationship is hard especially when every other responsibility in your life is taking its toll. But, it is never too late to try something new and surprise your partner with a sexy game night!

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