If you're in love with someone, it's mostly because you're attracted to one or more of the inherent qualities the person possesses.
Either you're attracted to their outward beauty or you've fallen for certain traits the person has. Whatever your reason is, you find a way to justify what love means to you, when it comes to her.
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But sometimes people may be truly undulating in the symphony of love without realising the person they're in love with, is absolutely wrong for them. Or even if they're aware of it, coming out of it is an entire process in itself.
But most people don't realise they're in love with the wrong person, because they're more attached to the feeling of being in love, than the person itself.
Let's face it, not all relationships, dynamics, equations and feelings are meant to be and that's okay to accept. It's okay to accept only because you have to protect your own heart first.
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So, to simplify this further, we have listed down 5 researched and scientific facts to tell you when the person you're in love with, is wrong for you:(1) When The Relationship/Dynamic Is Taking A Toll On Your Mental Health
If you feel heaviness within you and you seem to be unhappy most times, maybe the feeling is a derivate of the relationship you're in? This is the first sign of unhappiness and is absolutely non-negotiable.
Your mental state is the most important thing and if you feel it's slipping away circumstantially, you need to either step up and change things around or cut the source entirely off.
© Getty images(2) When You're Always The One Compromising
While we all have our individuality, and that's a great thing, in a relationship it's always best to work as a team. That's because both the sides have needs. Some basic and some complex and the partner(s) always have to compromise to ensure the others needs are met.
But if you're constantly stepping forward and compromising all the time wherein she's not willing to budge, does she really want to make an effort for you? That's something to think about for sure, isn't it?
© Getty images(3) When The Person Keeps Feeding Your Insecurities
There will be a time where you'll realise that your insecurities don't have a standstill or a place they can disappear to. The person you're with doesn't make an effort to give you closure on certain things and sometimes, it becomes an issue of trust.
If she's constantly feeding off of your insecurities, it's about time to let go of her and move on because that's the trait of a toxic parasite.
© Getty images(4) When Your Family & Friends Don't Like Her Much
Every time she's around either your family or your friends, they always have a disapproving look on their face and it's there for a reason. Maybe she did something they didn't like and didn't apologise, maybe she doesn't respect them enough or maybe they just don't get the right vibe from her.
It's still fine when one or two people from your friend circle or your family sense it, but a bunch of them being uncomfortable around her is a certain red flag!
© Getty images(5) When Your Fights & Arguments Never Find A Resolve
While it's healthy to fight in a relationship, most times, it's not healthy to sweep things under the rug and not resolve them then and there.
Most times, the things you sweep under the rug come out at some point and become even more fierce in nature, for any relationship. A healthy fight is something that can be talked out and let go once and for all. It's not supposed to accumulate into something bigger in the future and if that happens often, and there's no resolve to it, the relationship or the person isn't really the right fit.
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It's always for the best if you figure out these tell-tale sign early off with the person, before you get more involved with them. It'll definitely hurt lesser and take lesser time to get over.
Not everyone is suited for you and you really need to pick and choose wisely in today's day and age in order to have a successful and sustainable relationship with them.