Donât get fooled when they tell you that love is a feeling because hell no, it isnât! Itâs a f*cking experience that is going to feel as though you've got a special ticket to the nearest emergency room. The initial few months will be the best and worst of unlike anything you have experienced. Because if you didnât know each other for too long before getting into a relationship, the âhot-n-coldâ shit is going to mess with your head real bad.

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From agonising palpitations of your heart to that 'fuzzy feeling' in the tummy, and sweaty palms to sleepless nights, expect it all to happen to you for good or bad. Sure, dating can get a bit messy at times if you happen to find yourself in one. But God damn, what wouldnât people give to live through this rollercoaster.

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But honestly, despite what people would have you believe, trust me when I say that understanding your woman or the one you wish to make yours, isnât the difficult bit at all. Tricky maybe, but definitely not difficult.

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But to get to a position to experience any of what I mentioned earlier, you have to have a relationship first, right? And in case you arenât in one right now, let me tell you, keeping in mind these 5 factors may help you crack the deal with your dream girl.

1. A Lot Can Happen Over A Cup Of Coffee

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You can never go wrong with coffee, well in 98.8 per cent of cases. Personally, there is something about the aroma of freshly-brewed coffee that is so heady and uplifting, it instantly puts me in a happy state of mind. Having said that, know that itâll take a lot for you to mess up a coffee date.

According to a very recent survey by an international dating platform OkCupid, 85 per cent of millennials absolutely love the prospect of meeting someone at a coffee shop for their first date, and I can vouch for this.

2. Donât Try Too Hard, Go With The Flow

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See, the simple trick here is to understand that too much of anything is bad. The same goes for the measures you take to impress her or land that second date for that matter. As many as 61 per cent of women believe love will happen when itâs meant to happen, so Iâd say donât try to push it down her throat.

Be it with the compliments, small talk or even the gifts, little is more here.

3. Lay Low With The Hopes If You Donât Plan To Live Up To Them

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Interestingly, the survey also found that while more than 80 per cent of women believe in finding âthe oneâ and sticking with them instead of exploring their options, 67 per cent of men would rather have multiple relationships before deciding. If you happen to agree to that, I suggest you keep things transparent from the very beginning and donât give them high hopes about a long term commitment, if that isnât where you want to be.

4. Leave Unrequited Love At The Door

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Now, many of us have had our fair share of unrequited love woes, AND women are more likely to cut the chase as opposed to men who canât seem to let go. And honestly, its no fun being with a man who has left his heart elsewhere. So, Itâs better you make up your mind (or better yet, burn that bridge) about âthe love that wasnât meant to beâ before you decide to start dating another girl.

5. Leave Valentineâs Day Alone

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Most women would prefer to have had at least one previous date before you decide to hang out together on Valentineâs Day. So, my suggestion, stay away from planning your first date on V-Day simply because it can get a bit awkward and uneasy, to be honest.

I suggest you keep these factors in mind before approaching your dream girl, and weâre sure some good will come out of it!

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