No matter how new or old your relationship is, there are different phases you go through. 

From the initial phase where everything is rainbows and unicorns and you can’t get your hands off of each other to the comfortable phase where you don’t mind looking shabby in front of her. However, the harsh reality is that not all relationships have a happy ending and some just get doomed along the way. 

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When the relationship runs its course, one of you either outgrows the relationship or falls out of love. While it’s excruciatingly painful to see your partner drift away, the wise thing to do is know when to let go. 

Of course, if you two have been together for a longer time, they probably don’t pull the plug so easily. They will stay in the stale relationship while you figure out what’s wrong. 

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Here are some subtle signs that will tell you that your partner doesn’t love you anymore and is considering ending things:

1. She Doesn’t Call You By The Pet Names She Gave You

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Even if you two aren’t the most lovey-dovey couple who give each other sweet nicknames or secret names, you would certainly address each other affectionately with few terms of endearments. 

However, when there is no affection in her heart, she would treat you as an acquaintance and stop calling you by the names she loved calling you with. 

Also, pay attention to the reduced use of love and heart emojis while texting.

2. She Isn’t Interested In Your Day

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If your days started and ended with her asking you about how it went but now, there’s a deafening silence in your chatbox, she’s pretty much done with the relationship. 

She doesn’t want to know what you did, why you didn’t text or call and neither would she be interested in telling you every little detail of her day, like she used to. 

3. She Dodges 'Future' Talks

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She doesn’t want to give you hope about being together till eternity while she has no plans to do so. Some women simply break up in their heads way before they break up with you physically. 

So, if she dodges the topic of a vacation on New Year’s, movie plans next month or bigger things like ‘where do you want to buy a house together’ you know it’s over.

4. She Avoids Meeting Or Video Calls

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If she’s terrible at faking it, she will avoid your routine video calls or make excuses for meeting you in person because she doesn’t want to face you and give you a chance to figure out that she is just not that into you. 

Also, she would resist making any plans with you and her friends or family together.

5. She Doesn’t Appreciate Your Efforts

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When you pamper her but she not only is indifferent to it but also tells you not to do it (often by saying “you don’t have to”), it doesn’t get more obvious than this. 

Everyone wants attention but when a woman specifically tells you to not give her the most important thing a girlfriend seeks from her man, the ship has already sailed. 

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